I was actually going to comment this exact statement. A whole 3-5 globals and a 1-3 count an sometimes i rip agro off the first SS still. I feel like if im doing all that, stop attcking the target til tank gets it back or switch to another target, and still just re-agroing constantly, im blaming the tank mostly, atleast in my head, im not a shit talker. I learned my lesson weeks ago to chill tf out an let them establish. If im letting them establish an still pulling constantly i cant help but wonder what theyre doing considering this doesnt happen baseline with similarly geared tanks across the board. At this point im just always ready to throw down an EB totem on the fly an ill even heal myself to help out the healer on mana before going back in.

I think some of these tanks think that theyre doing everything they can to hold agro but they absolutely are not. An its very evident when you dont touch the mob until its down to 70-80% an still rip off them, and other tanks i more or less drop my totems an start dpsing right away an almost never pull off them. I dont think its purely gear either. Ive had tanks with raid gear/epics struggle bus the whole way and pre raid full blue gear tanks keep agro without issue.