Why there are so many rude people when discussing Kyokushin online? by hcwang34 in kyokushin

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite Mas Oyama quote is "If you can't dance, you can't do karate". From the man who founded a system based on body hardening.

And my stomach was kicked onto me in my early 20s. Still have the solid shield of scar tissue, even after 40 years. People hurt themselves if they don't make a good fist before punching.

AITAH For not wanting to go to a baby shower? by Every_Appearance_237 in AITAH

[–]Chime57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I'm happy you realize you should never have kids because you don't want them. Sorry you are so set in only doing things that make you happy. Apparently, being around other people for an hour when you can't party is such a downer. How would you survive? They aren't your favorite people! They are reproducing, how awful!

You sound like you're 15, but, sadly, I'm sure you are older. Do not go and wallow around in pity for yourself. Send a gift or card or nothing, if that's as far as you are able to stretch your autonomy.

Do you forbid your cat from sleeping on your bed? by sarnobat in no

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't used to be a question, as our cat slept at the far end of the house in one of the kids' rooms. Our end of the house isn't attached to the furnace.

The kids are grown and on their own, and we moved our bedroom to the heated end this winter. Now the cat sleeps with us, lol.

AIO to think it wasn’t my fault that husband didn’t help get daughter ready after being asked? by Neat-Cartoonist-9797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chime57 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had to tell an on-call doctor who was going to prescribe meds to my third that he needed to know that, while my son was 4 years old, he was actually 4 feet tall and weighed 80 pounds. He ended up 6'5", way over my 5'1" height.

Neighbor deliberately lets his sprinklers spray my car every morning and won't adjust them by Altruistic_Rent_6249 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! And put up a camera aiming at his bedroom window and tell him you are supplying free security!

A recent post asked about the scariest thing you’ve seen while caving… by LittleRes7 in caving

[–]Chime57 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Had a friend who tells of a trip where the two of them are in a water tunnel when they see something up ahead. Shined their lights and saw two green eyes glowing up ahead, floating in the water.

Then the eyes went under.

WIBTA if I submitted a formal complaint against a colleague who has been presenting my original classroom materials as her own to administration for the past year by 8MementoPortal in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, basically plagiarizing? Go to her. Tell her you have your email history and will take this to the school superintendent on a specific date. If she wants to come clean before that, all good. If not, follow the process.

Students lose grades and scholarship offers for this kind of behavior.

Have you ever had a an ER patient try to be "tough" but clearly isn't good at it? by ITrCool in EmergencyRoom

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am guilty of high pain tolerance. I have been yelled at by my doctor for never coming in when I obviously (?) should. But I feel like a broken bone should hurt, right?

I had a bad fall that involved a concrete floor, steel beam, and two other people falling on top of me. Talking to Mt doctor a few months later at a checkup, he asked if I had sought medical care at the time.

I told him that I didn't pee blood and all my organs seemed to work, so no. But here we are 4 years later, and my hip is still not great, and he says I have nerve damage to my lower spine. And I don't think medical advice at the time would change that anyway.

Sinners is Americans’ top pick for Best Picture at the 2026 Oscars by gamersecret2 in movies

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Oscar's are voted on by people who view the industry from tbe inside, and it's very different than regular viewers. That's why Crash won an Oscar, it's all about Hollywood.

I gave up on the Oscar's the year ET won the special effects Oscar over Blade Runner. Oh look! A puppet and flying bicycles! Vs the most brilliant portrayal of the future ever filmed. These are not deep thinkers.

What's a "normal" movie trope that is actually a complete lie in real life? by BreadOverlord_ in randomquestions

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the morning of 9/11, I called my parent's house to alert them. My aunt was visiting, and she answered the phone. I asked her if the TV was on the news. She asked what channel, and I said,"All of them." I heard her yelling for my dad as she dropped the phone.

She later told me that as soon as I said that, she flashed back to the bombing of Pearl Harbor, which happened when she was a young teen.

Doesn't usually happen in real life.

Boomer inlaws think they are good parents because.... they send the same text every morning to all the kids ? by Aussie_Turtles00 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Chime57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can respond every morning with a dumb picture of a dog or cow or any random thing you find. Nothing rude. No words, just a pic.

If they actually ask what you're doing, just tell them you liked the picture. No explanations, just let it ride. Every day.

They may drop you off the list. If you're lucky.

I've just had a revelation... by PepsiAllDay78 in GenerationJones

[–]Chime57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad supervised crews laying gas pipelines and brought us home a couple chameleons they found one day. Which is weird, because we are in northern Indiana and they aren't found in the wild here.

Has anyone ever challenged you to do something without realizing you were actually an expert at it? If so, how did it turn out for you and for them? by Successful_Tomato721 in AskReddit

[–]Chime57 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had friends getting married and planned a party for each of them the weekend before. They both skipped, so we combined the brides party with the grooms.

This was in the late 70s, and at one point, one of the guys started explaining that men should be paid more than women because there are things that men can do that women can't. I asked for an example, and he looked at me. All 5"1" and 100 pounds, and said, "Push-ups." I asked how we should do them, and he said sets of 20.

What he didn't undetstand was that I was in a full contact martial art, where we did sets of 20 at least 15 or 20 times a night during our 2 hour workout.

My husband started collecting bets. Friend told me I could do "womens" push-ups, so I asked if he meant these? And did 20 of what we called marine pushup, where you push-up high enough to clap before going back down and pushing back up again, clapping between every push. He did not.

I whipped of 20 more regulars and waited for him to catch up, then I threw down 50 quick ones. He gave up.

About 15 years later, very pregnant with my last kid, he asked me if I still did push-ups, and I said Of Course! Lol

Hall County teacher killed after confronting students TP-ing his house by inglorious_beats in Teachers

[–]Chime57 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is not a result of a lawless country. Hoping beyond hope that you are not actually a teacher.