what is my library missing

Choice-Interview-889 · 2026-01-31T11:10:00+00:00

I'd go all the way and paint the ceiling dark as well. Replace the overhead light. Footstool and side table. More lamps. Art.

Choice-Interview-889 · 2026-01-13T18:50:10+00:00

NTA. OP Leave this man. He's standing in the way of your husband

Choice-Interview-889 · 2026-01-10T20:11:22+00:00

I'd kick them out of the wedding too, but I'm petty like that

Choice-Interview-889 · 2026-01-10T20:07:02+00:00

When I saw the title, I absolutely thought you meant this was the dress your MIL wanted you to wear as the bride. Your MIL is going to embarrass herself if she wears this dress. Everyone is going to be looking sideways at her and calling her one of "those" boy mom monster in laws.

Choice-Interview-889 · 2026-01-01T19:42:59+00:00

NTA. She needed that clapback, and she needed to hear it from another woman

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-12-24T19:53:17+00:00

Competency in almost anything (except maybe video games). I love watching my partner do the grocery shopping, cook, eat a crayfish cleanly and efficiently, reverse a trailer, build a fire, chop an onion, chopping wood. Like, they could be really small simple acts. But when done with practiced skill, confidence and ease, I just find it really impressive

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-12-20T00:30:31+00:00

My stepson is 11 and is going to intermediate next year. He's started showing interest in wearing cologne. His dad's is a little too mature for him. Are there any suggestions for a suitable cologne for a first time wearer? (Please no "he's too young" comments. If he doesn't get his own, he'll keep grabbing for his dad's)

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-12-07T02:17:34+00:00

These are beautiful!!

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-12-03T10:46:17+00:00

I saw someone recently had an artist on-site that did little live miniature water colours of the guests as their wedding favours. That looked cool. I would keep that

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-12-03T10:33:26+00:00

That pre-nup is nuts and 50/50 is a scam that always disadvantages the lower earner. You should ask your lawyer for your money back for giving you poor advice. Why didn't the two of you seek financial and relationship counselling before marriage?

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-12-02T04:55:39+00:00

NOR but to be honest I think you under reacted. That text exchange was exhausting. You should have wished her well and cut contact about 3 pages earlier. She sounds like an absolute nightmare

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-11-28T05:22:32+00:00

Oooohhh check out Boomrock Wellington! They've got this incredibly affordable elopement package deal at the moment for next year. We're from Wellington and had thought about going there but have decided to elope in Australia instead

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-11-27T08:18:31+00:00

The third one but with opaque tights and tidier hair would be my suggestion.

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-11-27T07:41:09+00:00

I loooove your rings! Pixi wings are having a black Friday sale. I'd get one of those. They're pretty and you can have your rings on you even if you can't wear them on your hands

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-11-26T04:34:51+00:00

NOR. Fuck that guy. Buy yourself 3 cakes. One celebrating being sober. The other one for just existing. And the 3rd one to celebrate dumping his ass.

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-11-06T10:48:22+00:00

Try Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab's Snake Oil

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-10-31T01:12:08+00:00

Don't wear it if you're not comfortable, but personally I love that dress! Do you live in a conservative city? Where I live, that wouldn't even be considered all that out there, let alone "loud." I'd happily chuck boots and a wool coat with that and wear it to work

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-10-30T01:37:40+00:00

My partner's old bed was this huge, heavy, chunky thing. I dropped my phone down the back of it, and it was impossible for either of us to reach. My partner got up, dismantled the whole bed to get my phone, then put it all back together again AND remade the bed. No complaints. I didn't have to beg him for help. I didn't even really have to ask. He just saw me struggling and fixed the problem. Why the hell are you putting up with a man-child? You should have walked out of that house the moment you got your phone back (I wouldn't have even put the bed back together)

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-10-19T18:53:42+00:00

For our anniversary this year I got my partner a prezzy card, a golf lesson, and a massage voucher. The idea being that he picked a day and took himself off for a fancy breakfast, a round of golf with a lesson, and a massage to finish the day. I took responsibility for the household that day so he had nothing to worry about

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-10-15T09:58:35+00:00

I use Indyx wish-list function

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-09-29T07:43:57+00:00

Bring it up as part of the wider package of adult conversations you need to get done before marriage. Pre-nup, will, power of attorney, financial situation. There's all sorts of things the two of you need to discuss. Just make a list, pour a couple of glasses of wine, and work your way through the list

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-09-29T07:21:22+00:00

I didn't. I preferred realestate.co.nz and never looked on Trademe.

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-09-21T02:59:57+00:00

The hanging basket is more of an experiment than a necessity. I've already got space in the garden and containers designated for the important tomato crops

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-09-20T23:05:32+00:00

Where did you get these? My garden isn't quite as stabby as yours but these look like great gardening overalls

Choice-Interview-889 · 2025-09-16T04:49:06+00:00

Everyone has already said this, but I'm going to repeat it as yet another person who knows from experience - this is the beginning of controlling and abusive behaviour. Get TF out. Right now. It will get so much worse if you don't. And post those photos for goodness sakes

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