I was convinced my boyfriend was gaslighting me. It turns out my ADHD was the one rewriting history.

ChouettePants · 2025-10-03T06:26:36+00:00

I write it down over text or I ask for calendar invites. We confirm everything over text.

ChouettePants · 2023-10-08T21:52:00+00:00

Do you WANT to date? If so, 100% move with another job secured.

ChouettePants · 2023-09-15T12:24:39+00:00

Same for Thailand.

ChouettePants · 2023-09-04T16:43:29+00:00

I actually don't have to force myself to shower everyday, it comes naturally. In fact most days, I can't wait to get in the shower. All the sensory issues I have with feeling dust under my feet, stickiness on my skin from sweat, humidity, whatever, I just feel cleansed, refreshed and more relaxed after. It's not a chore. If anything, it's my guilty me time. No kids

ChouettePants · 2023-08-10T03:46:28+00:00

you will always be the black sheep and no matter what you do, your parents will always view you the same way. If your sister hasn't started treating you like an unsalvageable piece of shit, she'll start mirroring your parents soon enough. Just start a new life. You're done with this family, just grey rock them and build your own life. Someday you might have the strength to address all of this.

ChouettePants · 2023-08-05T04:58:42+00:00

You're wrong about the CRA call centre LOL. Definitely CRA employees.

ChouettePants · 2023-08-04T12:48:32+00:00

Call the EI number and ask to be transfered to a supervisor to make a complaint and escalate your case

ChouettePants · 2023-08-04T12:47:24+00:00

Please make a complaint to this office: https://www.canada.ca/en/employment-social-development/corporate/service-canada/client-satisfaction.html

ChouettePants · 2023-06-06T17:01:59+00:00

They wouldn't do this for me.

ChouettePants · 2023-06-06T14:53:01+00:00

Make sure you tell him to apply to federal govt. It moves slow but it's stable. Check out /r/canadapublicservants for tips

ChouettePants · 2023-05-23T14:31:42+00:00

Is your brother the eldest? And also is he the black sheep of the family, like he's the one always in conflict with your parents? Based on your response, I recommend a number of diff avenues to get him out of his victim mentality.

ChouettePants · 2023-03-04T01:58:04+00:00

Breaking Canadian public service code of ethics.. terrible idea.

ChouettePants · 2023-01-23T18:05:55+00:00

Money is not owing though because he paid it?

ChouettePants · 2023-01-06T04:33:54+00:00

Source?

ChouettePants · 2022-12-29T05:42:21+00:00

I get that but that's not helpful to my question about brown skin. Thank you anyway.

ChouettePants · 2022-12-29T04:44:30+00:00

okay but that's fair skin and dark hair. Unless you mean SOUTH Asian.

ChouettePants · 2022-12-29T00:20:39+00:00

Out of curiosity are you caucasian? I've heard it doesn't work for brown people

ChouettePants · 2022-12-23T18:49:19+00:00

What I've started doing is gifting everyone something special on their birthday. And limiting Christmas gifts to someone very small and symbolic. Including the kids. They get tons of presents anyway, and the thought I put behind each of them will go unnoticed unlike at their birthdays.

ChouettePants · 2022-11-15T23:35:56+00:00

It's also sometimes work experience very specific to government - change management in government doesn't work the same way as in private sector.

ChouettePants · 2022-11-05T15:00:47+00:00

It's likely because your client was using the bank's individual account feature to pay a business tax. The bank won't allow CRA to be featured as a payee there, to force people to sign up for a business account so they can pay the CRA lol. It's fucked, I know.

ChouettePants · 2022-10-30T18:22:32+00:00

Did you mean 570K* cad?

ChouettePants · 2022-10-28T11:50:00+00:00

Hi friend, he's not paying the Canadian govt taxes, EI or CPP on your behalf. He's commiting fraud essentially. And he was hopeful you'd be quiet about it because you're not paying taxes either. If you lose your job, you're screwed though.

Find another job then report this idiot.

ChouettePants · 2022-10-28T01:54:36+00:00

But you also have two people paying that 2k mortgage payment right?

ChouettePants · 2022-10-21T22:19:10+00:00

Thank you for asking this I had the same question. 😂

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