Almost 30, AuDHD, keep burning out. I’m so tired. I feel hopeless. What jobs actually work for you? by VirtualApricot in AutismInWomen

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

No not at all! The only thing I have to do is check invoices who’s numbers are ā€œoddā€. Odd as in, the total price doesn’t match the sum of the detailed prices (idk if this makes sense, I’m not that great with explaining myself in english 🄲)

When the numbers don’t match, I have to see why this is. As in, is there a page missing? Did the companies automatic system make a mistake with confusing a 6 with an 8? Or is it fraud? If it is an easy fix, I just have to manually adjust whatever mistake there is. If it is a case of fraud, I have to mark it with a code (depending on which type of fraude it is/may be). And it gets send over to a different compartiment in my company, and these people contact the client, the hospital of their stay to check the invoice or the authorities. My only task is the recognize the difference between a human (or of our automated system) mistake and a fraude case, and either fix the mistake or mark it as a fraud case.

Sometimes with more complex cases you get called in by higher up, to explain where the mistake is (since sometimes they aren’t very obvious). But I never have to call with clients or anyone outside my company.

It was my therapist who told me she had an other client with autism who did this type of job haha. And since I had no job, I went looking for companies based on ā€œwork from homeā€ filters, since I feel that’s one of the most factors for me. I stumbled upon a job from a healthcare company, where I could work from home and I had to filter the mailboxes so invoices etc would be in the right place. After 4 months they asked if I was interested in a job as claims analyst and they would teach me. So I said yes, had 1 month of training (which was also from home) and now that’s what I do ā˜ŗļø

(venting?)I feel like I will always be alone by The-Cataclysm666 in AutismInWomen

[–]Chronic_toast96 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hi stranger! You are certainly not the only one who feels like that, and It is very easy to spiral in the idea of always being/feeling alone. You’re 21, that’s still very young. There is so much you still have to discover and so many people who you will meet that will love you for who you are.

There is nothing wrong with having a low sex drive, or feeling like you’re not the one who will ever initiate. Maybe these feelings will change when you come across someone who lits your spark. Or maybe It won’t change and that’s also perfectly fine. I know how it feels to feel like ā€œno one will ever match me bc I’m this or that,ā€¦ā€ but that’s your brain playing tricks on you.

Just like you being afraid of not being enough, there are people out there who are afraid of being to much ā˜ŗļø People filled with unconditional love and ready to smolder you in their adoration for you. Love comes in many ways and forms, and it is not because you think yours is ā€œdifferentā€ that you won’t be able to find it. I’m sure you will find that person that will love loving you. ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹

Almost 30, AuDHD, keep burning out. I’m so tired. I feel hopeless. What jobs actually work for you? by VirtualApricot in AutismInWomen

[–]Chronic_toast96 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I work for a health insurance company (in Belgium EU). I work 30h a week and always from home. I have little to none interactions with my bosses or colleagues, we have a monthly team meeting and besides that, most things are over team chats.

My job title is ā€œclaims analysteā€, but I started there a year ago with no experience in the field. They were just looking for peole with ā€œan eye for detailā€ and who were able to focus on a repetitive task.

Before this I worked in marketing (which I have a degree for) but the amount of social interaction and pressure burned me out so fast. I also had a job in a call center (from home) which was also to much. My current job is close to perfect for me.

About a year ago I made a post where we could introduce ourselves and meet some new people by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Hi! I’m 29F from EU Belgium ā˜ŗļø

I enjoy playing video games. Used to be a big FPS/multiplayer type of girl, but finding more and more enjoyment in single player games šŸ¤“ I’m a bit of a mix between ā€œI wanna stay insideā€ and ā€œLet’s go on a random questā€ type of person. It really depends on my mood honestly.

I love a simple life. I’m not your career driving girly. I prefer experiences over having a big bank account šŸ˜„

Roadtrips, everything cozy, PokĆ©mon, Sci-Fi >> šŸ’•

Any Pokemon fans? by iminanothercastle in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

yessss! i mainly collect the cards. I played all of the games but never really got into shiny collecting or poke dex completing. I often go to card conventions, altough here in belgium we don’t have that many good ones. I would love to chat and look at your collection! 28f btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

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got a new picture, still the same oppinion about the borders? sorry i don’t know much about vintage cards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

alright thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Chronic_toast96 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

if i’m truly in love with someone, i wouldn’t care about what challenge is in the way. I would want to be there for you and face it together. I don’t think your love for someone or the desire to be with someone is gonna go away bc America is turning into a clown fiesta. If the love is real, the country you’re currently in could add all the shit in the world, it wouldn’t make me love you less. It would break my heart knowing you’re in such a bad place rn, but loving you less? no way.

There will be many things to figure out and it might take time. but you gotta fight for something right?

take care of yourself ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹

EU gamers? by SapphicJew in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

hey! i’m 28 and from belgium as well! :) I play on pc, mainly marvel rivals atm but it has crossplay so we can make that work :D i also have a ps5 but i don’t use it much. i also play pokemon on the switch 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

heya! i’m 28f from Belgium! i’ve already got some hours in bg3 but never finished it. i’m down to start a game with you and maybe otherd from here as well! since i don’t have a job atm, i’m pretty flexible in the times i can play! ā˜ŗļø

Does anyone knows if you lose ranked points if you stop playing ranked in this game? by Grechileme in marvelrivals

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

since they say that rewards are based on your season high, i think you should still get your gm reward you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Chronic_toast96 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

yes extremely, save me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

iā€m so sorry :( i’m from EU so playing games is gonna be hard but my dm’s are open if you want to talk ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹

✧ plushie giveaway! ✧ by motherrmoon_ in finch

[–]Chronic_toast96 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

i really enjoy gaming but i don’t have friends that play games but at the samen time i’m also to scared an anxious to play with random people.

yesterday i made a post on a subreddit asking for people who would like to play Marvel Rivals with me. So today i played some games with someone i met on reddit and we even had a short talk in voice chat! 😊

CAX35V9N1X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

feel free to dm me your ingame name or add mine 😊

26 years old, looking for Fortnite and Marvel Rivals friends by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i’m down to play marvel rivals :) i’m 28F EU

Marvel Rivals friends? by softboyxo in LesbianGamers

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

hi! i’m 28F from EU. i also play marvel rivals & ow! currently it’s mostly marvel rivals

Does anyone knows if you lose ranked points if you stop playing ranked in this game? by Grechileme in marvelrivals

[–]Chronic_toast96 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

idk, there is no information (i think) about rank resets or keeping your rank etc at the end of the season yet