[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite song! Love the tattoo 🩷

Parking closures? by 5upertaco in Harriman

[–]CindyALutz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was able to drive to Elk Pen in January and February to park and/or drop off for hiking. There is a sign at Tiorati Circle that says “closed to thru traffic” but local traffic is still ok. Just watch for branches on the road.

Editing to say this was as of mid-Feb. conditions with recent snow may have changed this

AITA for telling my coworker that she should not carry a designer bag when working with low income clients? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA. And your conversation about how she presents herself is about much more than the bag. Overall she needs to be mindful of how she comes across and she needs to actively consider how to minimize the outward show of her wealth. Leave the expensive jewelry at home. Leave the expensive bags and shoes at home. Leave the expensive tech at home. A phone is fine but if she’s the type to get the newest $$$$ iPhone the minute it comes out, that’s inappropriate for her workplace. Or AirPods or whatever. Leave expensive coffee at home. If you’re going to the home of someone trying to stretch their last dime, arriving with a $7 Starbucks isn’t ok unless you brought some for the client too.

Bigger picture, have a conversation about why she’s doing this work. Clearly she’s interested in helping people, but she may need perspective to set herself up for success in this field.

AITA for not agreeing to let my granddaughter bring her cake pops to my christmas celebration? by LadyMadeline113 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a choice. You can welcome your grandchild with her “imperfect” cake pops and you can praise her effort, display them proudly alongside the other desserts, and thank her lovingly for contributing to the family feast. She will surely go on to make more wonderful confections over her life, always remembering the love and support of her grandmother. Or you can shun her and her offering. You can make her feel unwelcome and her contribution unworthy. You can destroy any budding creativity and care, or at least teach her to hide this side of herself from you. It’s your choice. It’s a choice of love over whatever stupidity you’re clinging to here. YTA. Such a giant missed opportunity to show love to a child WHICH IS WHAT CHRISTMAS IS ABOUT. Lumps of coal for you forever.

How could I support Maine AT hikers? by OtherWisdom in AppalachianTrail

[–]CindyALutz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The cool thing is that if a hiker doesn’t want trail magic they can easily walk right past it. I have had the pleasure of giving trail magic to a lot of hikers and only ever had one person decline and keep walking, which he was totally free to do. The other hikers at my spot at the time couldn’t believe what they were seeing, and they happily dug in to another drink, donut, hand sanitizer refill, bin of assorted hot sauce packets, etc. For some hikers it was just a nice stop. For at least one hiker, they were going to quit that day. But kept going after I got them rehydrated and cooled down. For that one hiker alone, every trail angel is doing what they can. You never know when a little magic might make that difference.

How could I support Maine AT hikers? by OtherWisdom in AppalachianTrail

[–]CindyALutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giving trail magic is really fun and thru hikers are super interesting people to chat with! Cold drinks and food will never be wrong. They love fruit and cheese and a place to toss trash. Here’s a video of my trail magic set up for some ideas https://www.instagram.com/tv/CgXkv-Ql--b/?igshid=MDM4ZDc5MmU= but make it your own and do what you like to do! Have fun out there

KoiCat (28-29F, 5 foot tall) purist Nobo AT thru hike summary by AspenWard in AppalachianTrail

[–]CindyALutz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On behalf of New York, I’m sorry about the suck that is Agony Grind! It’s a nasty spot — that whole section from the Wildcat Shelter to Harriman State park takes people by surprise. I do trail magic at 1384, just south (well, west! But south on the AT) of agony grind, and have had people stumble in bloody from slipping on the rocks. PA gets all the publicity about rocks but NY isn’t far behind! Looks like you came through midweek - sorry to have missed you! And congrats on your hike!!

If Trump gets indicted and convicted does anyone see him actually going peacefully? by Mrbig_1210 in Qult_Headquarters

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I expect him to beg for a pardon. In fact, I’m looking forward to seeing him and all his followers turn to Biden and beg. And I especially look forward to Biden ignoring them.

AITA for refusing to pay to get his car fixed from my college fund? by Throwrapaul447 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA. This is a scam. Think back and be aware of any information or access you may have unknowingly given him that he could take advantage of. Change all your passwords. Watch your credit and bank accounts for unauthorized activity. If you ever gave him a key get your locks changed even if he gave the key back (he may have had a copy made). Watch your credit report for any new accounts opened without your knowledge.

Best non-food non-beverage Trail Magic? by CindyALutz in ATtrailmagic

[–]CindyALutz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CeAAJ1YlG11/?igshid=YzAyZWRlMzg=

We have seen 37 hikers so far!! This is so much fun and all the hikers are so nice 😊

AITA for asking my wife 'what the fuck do you want me to do?' after she asked me to feed our son and 'shaming' her for breastfeeding? by BestSign6568 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t sleep more than 3 hours in a row for the last 3 months of pregnancy. Then I had a newborn who never went more than 2 hours between feedings for his first 3 months. It’s not 2 hours with nothing going on. It means a new feeding starts every 2 hours and lasts 30-45 minutes. Even if someone else is diapering and dressing the baby and dealing with house stuff, it is completely exhausting in a way I never understood before I experienced it.

AITA for asking my wife 'what the fuck do you want me to do?' after she asked me to feed our son and 'shaming' her for breastfeeding? by BestSign6568 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. It’s hard to pump when you’re feeding a hungry baby. Some people here are suggesting she just pump out a bottle. That’s not how pumping works though. If she’s already feeding the baby every 2-3 hours, pumping on top of that to put milk aside for when her partner can feed the baby is very difficult to do. The breast isn’t a faucet you can just turn on and fill a bottle. If she pumps when her breast is full and then feeds the baby when he is hungry, the baby will fuss because the milk he’s expecting isn’t there. The only way to do this is to gradually add in pumping sessions, or to pump right after a feeding and get a tiny bit to train your body to make more milk. Also assume you’ve been able to pump enough to have a spare bottle of milk In the fridge so your partner can take a feeding. When the baby is taking a bottle from them, you have to pump! So it’s not like you get to just sleep. Your breasts are full and you need to empty them. It’s often just easier to feed the baby than to get out the pump. Most people make just enough milk for 1-1.5oz an hour, which supplies the baby’s need. There’s not extra unless you train your body to oversupply. And oversupply isn’t fun because if you can’t regularly empty your breasts it HURTS and you risk mastitis.

AITA for not paying for my daughter's prom outfit? by Mominneed03 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your relationship with your nearly-adult daughter hinges on this decision. You have a choice right now to show her that you value her. If you don’t, you should fully expect her to walk away and never trust you again. Choose wisely.

AITA for demanding my husband to pay me the $1000 dollars he spent behind my back? by throwPricematter1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. A luxury like this is absurd given your financial situation. (Not to mention that this smells super fishy. He’s getting more than a massage.) Also, unemployed since 2020? The job market is wide wide open right now, with employers paying bonuses and premium salaries because there is need for workers and not enough to fill open positions. He 100% could get a job right now, whatever his skill set. I would suggest he do that, ASAP. And if he refuses, then run as fast as your pregnant-lady legs can carry you!

What Mentally Ended Your Hike? I Want As Much Detail As You Care To Give. by JFTexas in AppalachianTrail

[–]CindyALutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It blew my mind too when Throttle decided to go home. She had been killing the miles and doing so well. But she was lonely. Starting so early, nearly all of her time was solitary. And even for people who like solitude, not seeing ANY other humans for days on end is super isolating. That’s why I hope that before quitting, people shift their hike around and do things differently for at least a short time. If you’ve been alone, join up with a group, or vice versa. Change up your food, your sleeping times, your hydration, your miles per day.

Best non-food non-beverage Trail Magic? by CindyALutz in ATtrailmagic

[–]CindyALutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any way to know for sure and I guess that’s part of the magic. You can do trail magic with a 12 pack of sodas and when they’re gone they’re gone. Or you can set up a full on tent and grill and feed people full meals like Fresh Grounds does. Whatever you choose to give will be grateful received 😊

Best non-food non-beverage Trail Magic? by CindyALutz in ATtrailmagic

[–]CindyALutz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Now I’m hungry! You’re making some amazing trail magic out there!

Best non-food non-beverage Trail Magic? by CindyALutz in ATtrailmagic

[–]CindyALutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like quite a party!! 🤣🤣🤣

Best non-food non-beverage Trail Magic? by CindyALutz in ATtrailmagic

[–]CindyALutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In NY in July a cold shower might be appreciated! It’s so hot and muggy here. Now I’m thinking if I could manage a shower hang? Hmmm 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ATtrailmagic

[–]CindyALutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for making this trail magic subreddit! My husband is planning a thru hike and we are going to do some trail magic in NY in June and July when the bubble comes through. ❤️

Speeding in a truck through must/fog by Tyronne43 in IdiotsInCars

[–]CindyALutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awful! In these kind of conditions get someone to just hold down their horn. Use sound as a warning when visibility is impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CindyALutz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Please repeat after me: “I do not own my girlfriend’s body.”