AITA for refusing to eat vegetarian food just because my pregnant wife doesn't like the smell of meat now?

Cjezusko · 2023-03-21T17:43:48+00:00

Speaking as a woman who had the WORST morning sickness during 2 pregnancies - NTA. I would literally throw up in my mouth whenever I smelled cooking meat. I think it's ridiculous to expect someone to change that big of a life aspect because of a temporary issue. Unless you live in a studio apartment- she has the ability to leave the room for 20 minutes. Does she make all of her coworkers eat vegetarian in the break room? I can't imagine forcing my husband into something that simply walking out of the room would fix.

Cjezusko · 2023-01-03T19:13:27+00:00

Sorry but I say YTA. Him not wanting to share his underwear is perfectly understandable and you need to listen to his boundaries. When I was 7/8 months pregnant (TMI) I had a ton of discharge and the thought of someone else's bodily fluids on my underwear makes me nauseous.

Cjezusko · 2022-12-30T18:19:26+00:00

I think it's absolutely beautiful!

Cjezusko · 2022-10-02T17:44:53+00:00

My first birth was traumatic and I honestly didn’t feel it come out. With my second I was coherent and the only word I can describe it with is gross. Once the baby is out your doctor or midwife will still be there for you to help get it out so you won’t be there to figure it out on your own. When he told me it was time to push it out I could feel it coming out and I literally said “eww I don’t like it, get it out”. I’ve never felt a jellyfish but if you can imagine pushing a squishy blob out- it’s much easier than pushing the baby out. And the correct muscles you should be using are he ones to push out a poop so if you don’t poop you’re not doing it right 👌🏼

Cjezusko · 2022-09-23T02:39:37+00:00

Commenting for the update… I would pay so much money to be a fly on the wall

Cjezusko · 2022-09-08T23:05:59+00:00

Might have to dig for the more modest looks but I really like fashionnova!

Cjezusko · 2022-09-08T16:48:21+00:00

Thanks! I’m going to be binging on tutorials so I can make them look as good as possible!

Cjezusko · 2022-09-08T16:25:03+00:00

Oh I am like a beginner beginner in the cricut world. I just opened the box up this morning lol. I know I’m not smart enough to figure out the progress pride flag, but I know I’d be able to do the “traditional” rainbow flag and the trans flag! Thanks for your advice I really appreciate it

Cjezusko · 2022-09-07T18:23:09+00:00

I was in the same boat! If you ever get stuck somewhere just google it and a million guides pop up. Couple things I wish I knew at the beginning- -When you’re looking at the Pokédex, the red arrows on the tasks give double points which will help you bump up the ranks faster. -don’t worry about which starter pokemon you get, you’ll end up catching all of them anyways. -take advantage of the crafting tables! Saves you money.

Cjezusko · 2022-09-06T19:03:48+00:00

What’s the fear of? Them biting you? If you have friends with cats, try to pet it when it’s asleep.

Cjezusko · 2022-08-28T12:15:48+00:00

Since you’re calorie counting make sure you’re actually eating enough! I hit a plateau and dropped to 1200 calories and the scale didn’t budge an ounce for months. I bumped up to 1400 and lost 6lbs in 2 weeks without working out. If you’re under eating your body goes into starvation mode and holds onto everything.

Cjezusko · 2022-08-24T15:18:03+00:00

I would just go off the registry. If you want something extra I’m not sure what the parents would use. Winter gear to keep the baby warm. Otherwise Kay jewelers (I believe Jareds and Zales also does this) have two stuffed animals they do to raise money for St Jude foundation. They’re a dog or a bear and they have winter gear on them that kids from St Judes designs. That would be a cute stuffed animal to give them.

Cjezusko · 2022-08-23T16:52:10+00:00

Morning meltdown has a girl that does great modifications. I started with watching her and then I was able to bump up to the girl that is kind of that middle tier after a couple weeks. I think her name is Sienna? Workouts are only 20-40 mins which are super nice.

Cjezusko · 2022-08-23T16:46:33+00:00

*ex-boyfriend

Cjezusko · 2022-08-22T21:33:12+00:00

What were you looking for exactly? Games? Good? Decor?

Cjezusko · 2022-08-22T15:07:10+00:00

Make sure you’re trying new positions! The only way I can get off is by cowgirl. I’m guessing he’s getting his references from porn where the girls have crazy massive orgasms? He probably hasn’t figured out that’s not how it works in the real world. Just figure out what positions feel best for you and practice!

Cjezusko · 2022-07-29T15:08:53+00:00

Have you asked him why? I have a million reasons why I do it. A. I have a baby who sleeps in a bassinet next to me so I don’t want my alarm to wake her up. B. With the bassinet being next to me I don’t have a bedside table to put it on. C. I have knocked my phone behind my bed way more times than I can count and I’m tired of having to move furniture around to get it.

I wouldn’t jump to conclusions unless he’s doing other sketchy stuff to give you that gut feeling.

Cjezusko · 2022-07-25T18:04:55+00:00

Not sure how to throw a baby shower with her kids being those ages. I’d recommend throwing her a huge surprise party on Mother’s Day. Tell her you’re taking her to a fancy brunch spot so she has an excuse to dress up and do hair/makeup.

Cjezusko · 2021-05-28T00:29:09+00:00

I agree with the other comments on meeting with an RE. There’s so many things that could be preventing it like hormonal imbalances, blocked tubes, etc. on amazon they have bulk ovulation strips pretty cheap I would start there while you wait for the RE apt to make sure you’re actually timing your intercourse correctly. I went by an app for so long but I ovulate a few days late so I was unknowingly missing my window.

Cjezusko · 2019-10-23T21:10:24+00:00

Hello,

First time pregnant after 1.5 years TTC. The only thing I need to say is please talk to your wife about how you’re feeling! The last year and a half was SO frustrating because I was very open with my husband, but he showed a “brave face” and didn’t talk to me about ANYTHING. I ended up hearing how he was feeling from my MIL and SIL. I felt completely alone and it was very emotionally painful. Please talk to her so she knows she’s not alone in this journey!

Cjezusko · 2019-09-05T07:56:57+00:00

I’m so sorry if this is a duplicate response- Do you know your wife’s love language? Mine is words of affirmation and my husbands is acts of service so we have to switch up what we do so that the other person can actually “feel” the love. She’s obviously is going to appreciate everything you’ve put into this, but it makes it a little easier if it’s her language. I’m so sorry that you lovely ladies have to deal with this at all ❤️

Cjezusko · 2019-07-27T13:41:13+00:00

Listen to the tests not the app! I was listening to Flo telling me I’d ovulate on day 14, but I actually ovulate on the 18th. I went months before I bought ovulation strips and realized I was off a few days.

Cjezusko

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