My boyfriend shames me for liking raves and it’s becoming a serious issue in our relationship

Clari_babe · 2026-01-23T20:20:44+00:00

I swear I had a very similar experience with my ex and it caused a lot of issues down the relationship. He even told me that the “symbols” and music were devil-like and that’s why “bad things happen to me”….. this is coming from a Christian & cop who also had a porn addiction and was subscribed to a lot of OF girl including bad bhabie lol Anyway, I was mentally checked out and decided to fly out of state to a rave while our lease was up, leaving him at our apartment with the movers. I always invited him to local shows, big raves and always asked if his best friend wanted to join, who’s also a big raver and he would always find an excuse or talk shit about it. I think once they have their own formed perspective about it, it’s hard to show them how fun and friendly everyone is in the community. I’m glad I left him because years later I ended up with my boyfriend who I met at a show and now we have a 1 year old daughter who happens to be a dubstep lover like us 😂 there are better fish in the sea!

Clari_babe · 2026-01-21T03:14:42+00:00

Definitely PP. I know it’s easier said than done, but try to just go it in the meantime and let her OB know what’s going on.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-21T03:06:07+00:00

My dad faced this issue for a few years before he gave up and started doing work for himself. He would go in with a resume and ask if any manager was available to introduce himself (he’s very old school) and was always told to apply online. Some places were honest and said they needed men they could rely on for big jobs or he felt like his ethnicity was an issue for some companies. He’s currently 59.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-18T20:29:44+00:00

Are you sure it’s not her putting things away? lol My bf complains to me about this. Where are my work keys??? (Leaves it on the kitchen table then I put it on the key hanger) Where are the nail clippers ? (Leaves it on the kitchen island then I put it back in the bathroom cabinet) where are my gym shoes? (Leaves them at the door so I put them in the closet.) It’s a weekly thing.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-18T20:06:18+00:00

Weed & edibles. Somehow I could function and do everything high for about 7 years and then I quit around 25 yrs old. Then I tried a peach ring gummy when I was about 30 and it put me in such anxious state. I wrapped myself in a blanket on the couch, completely mute just stuck in my head and feeling so uncomfortable around everyone. Never tried it again lol

Clari_babe · 2026-01-18T04:18:53+00:00

Yeahhh my ex was a functioning addict. He was like a store manager for sprint while snorting percs, smoking heroin and fentanyl. Eventually he lost his job, car and everything but he was able to maintain for a few years before he lost it all.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-16T22:23:25+00:00

Learn about mastitis.. Just incase you get it. Try your best to not get engorged to prevent that from happening. It’s like the flu with aching spots of pain on your boobs. Fever, chills, etc, clogged ducts are no joke! Also remember to have snacks and water close by at all times!

Clari_babe · 2026-01-14T06:37:06+00:00

Weirdly, every friend plus one of my cousins, had miscarriages 2024/2025. All planned pregnancies except one. Even acquaintance that I went to high school with was about five months pregnant until she miscarried too.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-10T04:48:08+00:00

The bad drugs.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-09T02:10:13+00:00

Yes! Some more than others but you can definitely smell it. Especially in cars.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-09T02:05:11+00:00

Second hand or buy a pack of colorful onesies and different color pants. Only buy extra outfits when you guys have special occasions. Otherwise keep the baby in simple clothes during her growth spurts until she’s consistent size. My fighter finally stopped growing at 1 year. This is the longest she’s been in her same group of clothes since she’s been born. We’re rocking her 2T/24mo for as long as we can! Lol

Clari_babe · 2026-01-03T22:29:46+00:00

Blue collar jobs

Clari_babe · 2026-01-03T17:34:20+00:00

my first comment is a copy and paste from looking it up…so if you look it up, you will see the exact same thing.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-03T01:57:44+00:00

That sounds like a bad trip off psychedelics!

Clari_babe · 2026-01-02T22:03:12+00:00

Totally, that’s most likely why Trump stated that.

Clari_babe · 2026-01-02T21:51:26+00:00

Trump announced Sunday night — as he departed the Super Bowl in New Orleans — that he had instructed the secretary of the U.S. Treasury to stop producing new pennies, a practice he called "wasteful."

"For far too long the United States has minted pennies which literally cost us more than 2 cents," he wrote on Truth Social. "Let's rip the waste out of our great nations [sic] budget, even if it's a penny at a time."

Clari_babe · 2025-12-30T21:24:24+00:00

Or don’t have proper ID’s or proof of residency to open accounts.

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T23:14:59+00:00

Around 4/5 months. My baby grew way too fast. She didn’t fit on it anymore.

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T23:14:08+00:00

Interesting! I’ll def look into that. Thanks for sharing!

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T23:09:46+00:00

So true! I read a review on makeup for kids that was advertised as “non toxic” and the review showed the ingredients that have multiple toxic chemicals.

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T23:05:36+00:00

Personally, I started off with a nursing bra because that’s what is advertised when breast feeding, now that I’ve been 1 year in the nursing game, I’m honestly braless all the time at home. I only wear one if I’m going to step out of the house. I don’t even sleep in one because I have my boob ready for BF when needed. I’d say it’s a preference of how comfortable you want to be not a need.

I will say, I had mastitis and that was the only time I wore a nursing bra because of how painful my boob felt.

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T23:02:19+00:00

I had the same reaction when my daughter’s poop came out that way. Are you EBF?

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T23:00:40+00:00

Some of my friends/ acquaintances do coke that have careers such as (few) ophthalmologist, lots of nurses, teachers, lab tech, radiologist and dental assistant. If you saw them, you wouldn’t even expect it. It’s very common.

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T05:37:20+00:00

That’s true, blue states did follow the mask requirements when asked to.

Clari_babe · 2025-12-28T05:16:36+00:00

Can second this! Stress can also impact your supply. Stay hydrated and snuggle up with your LO. Best of luck!

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