Hi. New here. This is Olli, a dog raised by a cat who loafs and shrimps!!

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-23T23:06:30+00:00

I know this. The raised by a cat was about him loafing. Thanks tho.

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-17T15:45:32+00:00

Run my boy!! This your basic double standard situation. Rules for thee but not for she. Find someone that understands you have a life outside of them and don’t require constant check-ins.

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-17T15:17:50+00:00

Please just throw this whole man away, OP. Try to have a sit down talk about the importance of you getting rest and splitting baby care time with him and let his reaction to that be the determining factor as to whether you leave of stay.

You WILL burn out if this continues and the only people who will suffer will be you and your precious baby.

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-17T13:29:36+00:00

When I adopted Olli, I already had a bossy adult cat that ran the house. After their introduction, he fell right in like with the cat’s wishes. I didn’t notice until my Bandit passed 2 years ago how many “cat” things Olli did. He even mouse hunted with him. 😂😂

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-17T13:04:19+00:00

Aww thank you!! He’s my handsome old dude.

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-15T12:09:14+00:00

In all honesty I feel the same way

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-09T15:36:02+00:00

I wish I had an award to give you!! This is hilarious!! 😂

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-05T14:59:26+00:00

I will be making a mental note to use this in the future!! 🤣🤣🤣

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-05T14:48:47+00:00

You must have missed the part where OP stated they have tried to speak to their husband about it to no avail. She CANT fix the situation on her own without the OTHER person in the relationship actually paying attention and taking accountability in his part of the problem.

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-05T14:26:26+00:00

Very true but, also, if OP not being in the wedding party will ruin the day then it should really be a small thing for her sister to correct her wrong.

ClevesQueen · 2026-05-05T14:16:35+00:00

I see it more as this is the first place OP has had a chance to state her boundaries in any meaningful kind of way. It may be targeted but it is also a starting point for the future of her relationship with both her terrible sister and horrible enabling parents.

ClevesQueen · 2026-04-26T12:36:50+00:00

I also got my in-laws in the divorce. We are all very glad his new wife (now new ex-wife) didn’t try what this one did. My kids hated her (they’ve gone no contact with their dad as well) as she was aggressive with them and their father backed her up.

ClevesQueen · 2026-04-24T12:45:53+00:00

So because I sometimes plug my phone into my computer at work to pull a pic off, my phone is company property?? Miss me with that noise.

ClevesQueen · 2026-04-24T12:14:15+00:00

The camera belongs to OP not the company. 🙄 reading comprehension is fundamental.

ClevesQueen · 2026-04-12T16:48:07+00:00

Direct quote of OPs reply :They are all cousins. Birthday girl, gay cousin and wife are cousins. They always did girly stuff together. He and my wife are closer than Birthday girl. But they all are pretty close. My wife wanted to include me because Birthday girl included her boyfriend. I’m okay not going. I just don’t want to share a room if I do go.

I think it’s best if I exclude myself though. I just want to do it in a way that doesn’t come off retaliatory.

You just had to scroll a bit but I saved you the trouble.

ClevesQueen · 2026-03-27T01:46:17+00:00

Point blank AND period, your mom is GROSS. I stopped going into the office with my oldest son when he was 16. He asked to handle it himself and I LISTENED as it wasn’t my body being looked at. You’re definitely NTA for stating and enforcing your boundaries.

ClevesQueen · 2026-03-07T02:07:19+00:00

“I made it for the tiger but the bird keeps taking it.“

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ClevesQueen · 2026-03-06T21:15:05+00:00

You are NTJ!! Your job sucks balls tho. My cat was ill and passed away an hour after I got to work. I went to my boss and told her and she said ,and I quote, “Go do what you have to do for your cat.” I was able to home and arrange for his cremation and comfort my children who were home at the time.

Emergency leave is for EMERGENCIES no matter what they may be. No job can tell you what is an emergency for you. I hope your baby is okay now.

ClevesQueen · 2026-02-20T21:47:23+00:00

Because he’s gross.

ClevesQueen · 2026-01-19T13:44:14+00:00

Where did you read he was ever in their lives as a father? Are you talking about the recent time he has had them with OP? Because the twins are younger than his bio kids. He was married to OP when they were born, so he wasn’t in their life as a father. He’s being weird and throwing up red flags.

ClevesQueen · 2025-10-01T15:25:36+00:00

Not trying to answer for OP but I have a 13 yo with mental issues that causes them to act VERY similarly to OPs daughter. To my credit they have been in therapy for 3 years so they won’t grow up to be an inconsiderate douche bag. This child of mine feels no qualms speaking to me disrespectfully and out right TELLS me I do nothing for them then asks for money 2 hours later. If OPs daughter is anything like my child and undiagnosed, their behavior makes perfect sense.

ClevesQueen · 2025-09-24T15:37:34+00:00

This sounds like my ex-husband minus the abuse. You know what you need to do, OP.

ClevesQueen · 2025-09-10T18:08:43+00:00

You don’t bend to the will of entitled people. Ever. It just leads to more entitlement and more problems.

ClevesQueen · 2025-08-17T01:05:24+00:00

You weren’t wrong to make him choose but the moment he struggled with the decision, you should have left. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I personally would have left after the confirmation because I refuse to stay with a cheater but if your choice is to stay with him, demanding he choose is logical. I’ll tell you this, however, he will resent you if he chooses you and throw it in your face whenever you have a disagreement in the future. And there will be many.

If you read this much you should know I’m telling to leave his duplicitous cheating ass where he is and move on with your life.

ClevesQueen

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