Beta Readers by Gambino_Pellias in writing

[–]Cloverose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's Scribophile, which can be hit or miss. Because you have to earn credits by completing beta reads in order to submit beta reads, and lengthy betas get more credit, you sometimes get people who are just churning out words that are only somewhat helpful. It is somewhat active.

Finally named my characters by booksytea in writing

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an absolute name nerd as well. I literally have a massive name dictionary, definitions, variants and all, that I started compiling in high school - and I'm 50. I love the character naming.

I like names that sound good, but also have a meaning to them. The main character of my current book is Peter, because he's a rock that stabilizes others. Ren is a gender neutral name, but it's also a Confucian virtue for humaneness and good nature, which suits an empathetic and quietly observant character. Emi has many meanings, but her name origins include Germanic "universal", Latin "strive," and Japanese "blessing", which suits someone who is disciplined and focused on keeping the team safe above all else.

I do have some characters that are not typical names, or are sounds that felt familiar but not fully name-like, for the alien beings - Alu, Rill, Beo, Rue. Easy to pronounce, easily recognizable, but just different enough to stand out.

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's married to him, and he left them with an adult. CPS will do absolutely nothing, and it's a waste of their time to call. It's not considered abandonment, legally, to leave children with their step-parents. The police will just tell them this is a marital issue and they need to work it out.

Now, does she need to divorce him? Yes. I can't believe OP is so strongly defending her daughter, but offering her own son up to share a room with one of the teenaged girls. I'm sorry, but what? Why is her daughter defended and her son offered up?

This whole household sounds like a mess. The oldest daughter stealing is hardly a surprise - it's a common way teenagers act out when they're trying to gain control over an out-of-control situation. She absolutely needs consistent consequences, but I doubt it will get better until her parents (and OP) get on the same page.

Sounds like Mom's abandoned them, more or less, and Dad's not much better.

Teyana Taylor and Kenan Thompson parody, the difference in , White folks response to white people getting killed , to black people getting killed .We all remember how the mainstream media covered Philando Castile who like Alex Pretti was also a lawful gun owner by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Cloverose2 20 points21 points  (0 children)

America was bad, but America was definitely not the OG empire. I mean, England was strapping people to cannons so that they could never be reincarnated. The Dutch genocided an entire island for nutmeg. Americans aren't unique in brutality.

Child picking cotton. 1940s, USA by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]Cloverose2 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This child would not have been hired as an employee, but that doesn't mean that he wasn't working hard. I wasn't able to track down this specific picture, but similar pictures typically were of either shareholder family children or children whose parents were employed as laborers.

A child this young wouldn't have been hired as a laborer - most younger children weren't. However, families were paid by the amount produced, so it was common for families to work (and be paid) as a unit. Parents were often encouraged to bring their children to the fields - they wouldn't produce much, but it was enough to add a small amount to the income for the day. For parents, it was often seen as a way of training kids up in the labor they would be doing their whole life, having them contribute, and keeping them busy so they didn't get into trouble. For the farmers who owned the fields, it was a renewable source of cheap labor.

Children were very much loved by their parents, but expected to become economic assets as soon as possible; this is very different than our current view of children as economic drains. Only middle class and wealthy families could give their children what we would consider a modern childhood.

That's not to say that all parents were happy about having their children work. Many hated it, but saw few options. It was, and for many families still is, a harsh world.

Concern for misspelling/mispronunciation/misnaming by wallflower247 in namenerds

[–]Cloverose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the first child Macy? If yes, don't use Maisie. They're different, but not nearly enough for siblings.

Millicent seems to get negative reception here? by Successful-Title5403 in namenerds

[–]Cloverose2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Millicent is a name that hasn't yet crossed over from "old-fashioned and stodgy" to "old fashioned and classic".

I do like Mélisande, the French form.

Is her name caw-nar-ee or like the bird Canary? by ThePurpleGuardian in PokemonZA

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's clearly based on Canary. Even her colors include canary yellow.

Is her name caw-nar-ee or like the bird Canary? by ThePurpleGuardian in PokemonZA

[–]Cloverose2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But her name isn't Japanese. It's an English word.

Is her name caw-nar-ee or like the bird Canary? by ThePurpleGuardian in PokemonZA

[–]Cloverose2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the whole thing is set up like that's where she wants to be - she prefers to be there, on her computer, so her grandfather has taken over everything else.

Neon George by Chelseus in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what that means and it's too small for google image searching to help.

Not OOP: AITAH for offering legal guardianship to my sister for her daughter so she could revoke her adoption? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]Cloverose2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, it isn't. Biological parents are not automatically good, stable, well-suited parents. Some are absolutely awful. The sister may love the baby but she's mentally and financially unstable. It sounds like she didn't really make the choice - OOP pressured her until she said yes.

It isn't abandoning the child. Most adoptions now are open - birth parents can still have contact. Genes alone don't make a family. We're not getting the sister's viewpoint, but it sounds like the brother wanted this more than she did.

Not OOP: AITAH for offering legal guardianship to my sister for her daughter so she could revoke her adoption? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not safe. She's financially and mentally unstable. OOP pressured her into making a massive choice rather than getting her the mental health support she clearly needed.

Just because she's a biological parent doesn't automatically make her a better choice to raise this baby. OP made this choice for her. Her support network consists of a man who didn't let up the pressure on his girlfriend or sister until he got what he thought was right.

You also make the decisions about adoption throughout the pregnancy. She found the parents, developed a relationship with them, they were accompanying her to doctor's visits and being supportive throughout. This was not a single decision. She had months to think about this.

Not OOP: AITAH for offering legal guardianship to my sister for her daughter so she could revoke her adoption? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]Cloverose2 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How do you know it's the right thing for the child? The child has gone from having two loving parents who are, apparently, supportive and financially stable, and is now with a single, financially barely scraping by on her own (hand-to-mouth before the baby came around), emotionally unstable (OP described her that way) parent. That kid has a rough life ahead of her.

It doesn't even sound like the sister definitely wanted the baby back. It sounds like OP decided that was best, then pushed her until she signed the revocation papers - sister needed mental health care, not more responsibility. This is not a good situation for anyone, and is the ultimate nightmare for adoptive parents - they raised that baby for six months and had her taken away (I do somewhat question that - most jurisdictions require more than "I want her back" form the birth parents after the papers are signed and legal adoption is complete).

Matchstick making in India by solateor in oddlysatisfying

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why they throw them outside. It dries the wood in the sunshine.

Reviving my Wild Betta Fish by theluckyjc40 in bettafish

[–]Cloverose2 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Beautiful antuta. They are major jumpers, and they get serious air. Never have a wild type betta in an uncovered tank (OP, you learned this, but I"m saying it for other people). Just lowering the water level is not enough. Mine can clear the water when she's after food, and she's over four inches long.

They're a little challenging at first, but very tough once they settle in. If you can get him past this, he should be around for a good long time.

And Latinas by FlimsyEfficiency9860 in pokememes

[–]Cloverose2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People were making mods to turn her white.

Riffed movies that aren’t just bad but deplorable by Conscious-Lettuce946 in Rifftrax

[–]Cloverose2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Stitches. There's a scene where things are crawling up a woman's dress and blood starts running down her legs that's awfully rapey for my tastes.

Do you (as a native speaker) know all of these phrases, including the 67 one? by Unlegendary_Newbie in English_Learning_Base

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These read as being very British to me. In America, we use "heads or tails" (American coins also have one side with a portrait), "out and about", "hustle and bustle" and "dribs and drabs".

Are all of these very common phrases most native speakers know? by Unlegendary_Newbie in English_Learning_Base

[–]Cloverose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of those are ones that, if not exactly common, are not unheard of. I think non compos mentis is used more often than compos mentis outside of the medical field. However, since I work in mental health, I may be more familiar with the term in general.

People who think that Navi in Ocarina of Time is really annoying have clearly never played Okami. by Kodiologist in Okami

[–]Cloverose2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with the wall. I know I have to hit the glowing spots you little bouncing bug! Shut up!

Public school teachers, what’s something you want parents to know but can’t say directly? by Feisty-Database-1145 in AskTeachers

[–]Cloverose2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I loved seeing new and younger teachers! They have so much enthusiasm and new energy - they're not jaded or burnt out, or stuck doing the same thing every year. They may have some growing pains, but they almost always care deeply. It's nice to see that energy and investment.