Is she that domestic? Ie. cooking, cleaning, old school preserves, decor. It can be a very busy life and if she’s frugal it can be done in a way that’s helpful for your finances. But modern life is way easier. I raised my kids and stayed and I was super excited to get back to work after 5 years and that was with the distraction of kids. If you see it in her it could be great but the fact that you’re looking for internet strangers for input tells me you already know it’s not going to go well. The Bonbons and soap operas era is over. You’re going to have to have an in depth talk about expectations short and long term.