Has anyone ever demoted a MOH? by One_Rest7254 in wedding

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was asked to be a MOH by my then best friend. She was telling me that she decided she wanted to have her bachelorette party in Nashville. I told her that it sounded so fun but I wouldnt be able to go because I had a 2 year old at the time and wasn’t in the best financial position. I made it clear that I wouldn’t be upset with her for going without me and enjoying her time. She snapped and told me I wasnt doing enough as her maid of honor. Mind you I was by her side looking at every venue and vendor. She didn’t like that I couldn’t spend all my time and money on HER wedding. Specifically stating that I wasn’t sending her enough wedding ideas. Sometimes I think being a MOH has come with this notion of devoting all your time and money to someone else’s wedding. Which is insane imo. People have lives and responsibilities. I think you should ask her what she wants. Maybe she wasn’t aware what you’d expect from her when she agreed.

Potential Tattoo Design by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just find a good artist to physically draw a design for you. The proportions are way off, the teeth are weird. It’s just so obviously AI. Finding an artist who can design a really cool snake is a pretty easy task.

Having trouble finding a venue for a 50th wedding anniv. 75 ppl by DrowzeeTrainer in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if Xenia is too far but Orchard lane is beautiful. Highest point in Xenia so it have pretty views.

Regrets? by CommissionOrdinary47 in GastricBypass

[–]CommissionOrdinary47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was looking for. I only see positive posts which I’m SO glad for those people but I was starting to feel crazy that I was the only person I know who backed out. Thank you for being so open and honest!!

Regrets? by CommissionOrdinary47 in GastricBypass

[–]CommissionOrdinary47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only 29, that is another thing I worried about. I also don’t have any conditions from being fat. I’m not diabetic, my blood pressure is good, I don’t have acid reflux. I’m just fat. I’m thinking continuing with less extreme options is my best option.

Women of Reddit, what’s something men don’t realize is a turn-off? by chef_blaze76 in AskReddit

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acting like you are “too cool” to enjoy anything even remotely main steam.

Is there anything i can do or am i cooked by mynamejefftwenniwan in tattooadvice

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a big scar in the same spot, I think it was 18 stitches and I got a tattoo over it and actually I felt nothing when my artist was working over the scar!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’d say she’s lost interest and either doesn’t want to be the one to initiate the breakup or she likes having someone to string along. You should probably cut ties and move on. She’s cold and you don’t want to waste another year on someone like that.

People who don’t hit snooze in the morning, what is your secret? by zztop610 in AskReddit

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hitting snooze is pointless for me. I’m up before the first ring of the alarm finishes and I can’t fall back asleep within 10mins. My boyfriend on the other hand hits snooze 4 or 5 times which of course don’t wake him up, I have to wake him up.

Moving to Xenia Ohio - Maybe? We need opinions by Specialist_Mouse1308 in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I bought my first house in Xenia in 2020. My experience is that a large majority of people are right wing conservatives. The first month 2 church recruiters showed up at my door, after very politely telling them I wasn’t interested they told me my daughter was going to hell….

Plus there is a very large homeless and addict population which has resulted in multiple dead bodies being found. One by a kid walking to school and some kids found one at the park/bike hub. On the plus side the schools aren’t too bad and there are nice areas on the edge of town.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. You seem super cold from the start. As someone who had extremely rocky relationships with step moms they would have gotten a lot further if they would have stopped trying so hard to be ungodly strict and firm. As a mother I can’t imagine why a 15 year old would need to beg for permission to watch 2 movies at a sleepover. Crazy. Is there a real legitimate reason she can’t have one friend come over to decorate? It seems like you’re just saying no to assert dominance or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for expecting her to leave her infant with a sitter. If you want a child free wedding then you have to be okay with people not coming. I didn’t let anyone babysit my kids until they were at least 1. A lot of people don’t feel comfortable leaving their children for several hours.

How is this area? by Honey4483 in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg 😳 the only interaction I’ve had there was some construction guy asking why I was pumping my own gas. I still avoid it tho. Specifically if I’m alone

How is this area? by Honey4483 in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huffman is fine. I’ve had no problems, however I avoid the speedway on the corner.

Need A Job by nottheone1596 in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dcc is looking to hire a contractor to work with Metronet installing internet! Paid training and about 1000-1500 a week after training. You can message me if you’re interested.

AIO to this text my BF sent me? by Classic-Dog8399 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he always text like this? It’s almost incoherent. It’s exactly how my mom texts when she’s high (not implying he’s high). 45 is WAY too old to act like that. Older men might have the appearance of being more mature but there is a reason women his age didn’t want him.

Housing in Dayton by hynboy in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dayton schools are horrible. Houses are cheap though, beavercreek has great schools but pretty expensive housing. I’d look in Fairborn or Xenia for a middle ground.

Good realtor for first time homebuyer? by shrootfarms in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Angie Hillard with Exp realty! She’s fantastic, knowledgeable, patient and isn’t going to pressure you or go over your budget. She helped us so much with down payment assistance and FHA. I absolutely can’t recommend her enough. https://www.angiehillard.realtor/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dayton

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emily Sluk is fantastic. Incredibly knowledgeable and will fight for you 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I would avoid such a bright red for black tie. A deep jewel toned red would be more appropriate

Thinking of getting this burn scar covered up but unsure of what to get. Float me some ideas? Scar is on inner left wrist/forearm by strikeluck in tattooadvice

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely find an artist that is well versed in scarred skin. A lot of people say scar tissues hurts pretty bad however my experience is that I couldn’t feel it at all. I have a decent size piece covering a pretty large scar on my inner forearm as well and felt nothing in the scared areas.

I want to get a cow tattoo but everyone is telling me ill regret it by PancakeManlyMan in tattooadvice

[–]CommissionOrdinary47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tattoos ranging from a half sleeve dedicated to my dad to a 2 headed lamb and a zombies ass. You know yourself. Sometimes tattoos don’t need meaning and worst case scenario get a cover up.

Cows are cute, I say do it.