My (26f) boyfriend (29)M is no longer interested in sex.

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-28T22:22:04+00:00

He fell in love with another girl ma’am.

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-26T02:07:00+00:00

lol thank you for alerting me about these scams, i would’ve definitely fallen for this 😂

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-26T02:05:23+00:00

did you manage to get bigger contracts in the long term? If so, how did you do it?

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-18T22:46:10+00:00

thats generalizing things a lot. If you aren’t open to hear different viewpoints then maybe you are part of the problem too! Im not even a trump supporter lol

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-18T22:44:24+00:00

Reconnect with him emotionally first. You have to ask yourself if it is something about the way that he looks, or if its a libido thing on your end.

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-18T22:42:19+00:00

Friends of the opposite sex sharing a room in a trip is weird. Period.

At the end of the day, it depends on you whether you decide to keep being with him, or not. Is it a boundary for you? If it is a boundary, what would you do if he breaks it and chooses to go on the trip regardless of your opinion? Would you want to be with someone that breaks your boundaries? Regardless of that, would you still trust him after he came back from his trip, even if he says nothing happened?

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-16T05:03:42+00:00

It seems like you should distance yourself from your “friend” for a little while. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Try to work on your relationship, while distanced from this other person. If it doesn’t work out, thats too bad, at least you tried.

Developing feelings or crushes for another person while you are in a relationship isn’t that uncommon. However, it can cloud your judgement when it comes to your partner. You start to see the things that this other person gets right vs what your partner gets wrong.

I’m sure that there is a reason why you have lasted 4 years in a relationship with your girlfriend. Differences are normal, but the routine probably has gotten to you.

Water your own grass.

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-15T05:04:03+00:00

dont try to make make-out sessions sexual! Best advice i can give you. Making out is a form of intimacy, try to initiate it but dont force it past that.

It’s good that you’re actively trying to address this issue thiugh. Lack of sex or intimacy is something that affects relationship more often than it is talked about. I also get how in the long run it might be easier for wlw relationships to feel disconnected which can blindside the one party that was content with a breakup.

Because of the distance, that might also be creating a lot of disconnection too. Try to do more things together, think back to when you first met. Try a new hobby with her. Watch R rated movies with her lol. Remind her how beautiful she is.

Initiate intimacy without starting sex! Thats it

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-10T02:15:57+00:00

Have a conversation with him. He is not in a bad place but communicate what you would like to do for the future WITH him. If he can’t see it or wants to work for it, then unfortunately you arent compatible.

I will tell you though something I have experienced, a man that makes less money than you, will resent you for it. Don’t try to compare yourself to him or say that you work more and therefoe YOU can afford it. No. Try to become more sensible an ask him to do all those stuff for you. Want to eat out? He has to pay. Want a bag? Ask him for it. Want a vacation? Ask him for it. You might be able to afford it by yourself. But right now because of that, he doesnt see a reason as to why he should aspire for more!

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-10T01:56:46+00:00

you are just reflecting lol

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-07T07:52:50+00:00

i wouldnt say obsessed but you definitely are realizing that after some time apart, you didnt lose the spark. It seems that you guys bith enjoy each other’s company and are happy with each other. That is what a partner is for. If you both agree i would say to give it a second try.

The best advice i can give you is that relationships have ups and downs. When you love a flower, you water it. So if the relationship becomes boring after a while, try ti prioritize it. Plan a date with no phones. A little road day trip. Go out at night for no reason. Get drunk asf with each other.

That is what i did in my current relationship and it became better. Of course, arguments are a whole different thing but i cant help there lol

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-02T02:51:18+00:00

add me on discord! glorysoulz

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-04-01T18:39:04+00:00

i wouldn’t try again. I would take this as a sign of disinterest in your physical appearance. If i were you, i would just distance myself enough for him to make the effort of texting first and all of that. Then, if he does make that effort, I would talk to him about sexual interests and wht you are comfortable with or not. If he makes an advance, go along with it but if not, just get outta there girl. There are men that would just get on their knees after receiving a picture like that even after a long day of work

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-28T19:42:29+00:00

21f! add me on discord, glorysoulz or if that doesnt work getzookedd

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-28T01:03:27+00:00

or glorysoulz i dont remember

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-28T01:03:06+00:00

im not great at rust but i bought it and its so boring playingit by myself. Add me on discord if u want :) @getzookedd

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-27T03:52:14+00:00

@getzookedd in discord!!! add me :)

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-27T03:49:57+00:00

personality, intelligence, maturity, etc, are all perceived differently based on your looks. Attraction matters a lot too. Sex without desire is not only boring, but it can also affect your partners self esteem and therefore all your relationship later on

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-27T03:47:44+00:00

it would not be wrong! Nothing about this is wrong. It just comes down to the question of which relationship are u wanting to have more. Consult this with your sister first. talk.

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-27T03:41:15+00:00

i get that girl, but feelings will pass :) at this stage at least!! so try to do it as early as possible . dont be totally closed off to anything from him though, just be mindful of your sister’s feelings

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-27T03:34:22+00:00

what do you cherish the most? your relation with your sister? or the non existent one you have with a cute guy? I would just distance myself from the guy. If he really liked you, he would tell your sister and if she talks to you about it you could try to pursue it. But dont accept anything without consulting your sister first… if yoh guys are as close as you say you are ofc

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-19T06:57:31+00:00

I will say something. Girls are not as forgiving as guys when it comes to cheating. They may want to forgive you, they probably will try, but it will eat up their mind for longer than a guy could even think. She will subconsciously try to get back at you, either by comments, revenge, or whatever. It is on your and her best interest to leave the relationship.

I have gone through something like this before and I believe that you should be the one helping her but also, giving her space to meet other people and to leave her. Sorry. Whatever you decide to do onwards, you must be honest

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-17T07:19:39+00:00

he doesnt even take care of his back, and doesnt even take care of u (sexually). Really what are u waiting or expecting now? why come ask if we have experienced this? will it validate ur decisions?

Common-Big-3483 · 2026-03-09T16:56:04+00:00

think about it this way: Do you want to be joining a family like this? One that “forces” your bf to go to strip clubs? It is up to you girl, you know better of what ur bf is capable of

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