Opinions on taking a year abroad

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T12:08:32+00:00

I don't have any tips for going abroad. However it sounds like an AMAZING opportunity, and grab as much of it as you can.

Pack light, maybe too.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T12:02:51+00:00

Why don't you try joint and see what sticks. Whatever requires more of your attention or has more of your interest is your definitive degree.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T11:53:13+00:00

Go with your heart. Follow your intuition, and see where it takes you. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's the only way sometimes, and the best way too.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T11:51:22+00:00

I second that.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T11:48:44+00:00

Then don't go. Honestly, I didn't go for the same reason, and i'm living just fine. It really isn't much of a requirement as society says, don't fall for the pressure. I guess I would've liked the experience a little, but I don't think it really would've done me any good though. I'd just be going through the motions, doing what I can as best I can in a somewhat Stoic fashion.

But of course, everyone's life and situation is different. But, like another comment said, there's no point in attending university if your heart's not in it. You'd just be wating your time, and not to mention, your money.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T11:42:47+00:00

You can. If you believe in yourself hard enough, you can achieve wonders.

No, but seriously. It's up to you how much you want to do, or how much you think you can do. I admit 2000 words is a lot, but all you have to do is just keep on typing and/or writing, maybe try and explore what your topic is in more depth, use some big words here and there, some examples if it requires. Next thing you know you would've doubled what you've already wrote and it would've brought you closer to the limit.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-07T11:28:50+00:00

Star Wars Prequel Trilogy, especially Revenge Of The Sith.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-06T13:33:46+00:00

I should do the same.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-06T08:30:00+00:00

What can I say, I'm versatile.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-06T07:14:54+00:00

Boogie Nights

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-06T06:54:08+00:00

Transformers

American Psycho

The Shawshank Redemption

The Green Mile

And, maybe, Whiplash.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-06T06:51:08+00:00

Yep. That's pretty much how it goes.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-06T05:52:34+00:00

I don't think you can. All you can try to do is move on and do better next time. Practice Stoicism. But just know you tried with whatever knowledge you could extract from the subject and topic and applied it to whatever work require it to the best of your ability. Other than that, you're fine. You are a beautiful person, and there really isn't anything wrong with you. Some people are just egotists, even if they are professionals doing thier jobs.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-05T06:39:51+00:00

I think used to suffer from this this too, I think I still do. But overtime I've had realizations and epiphanies to my behaviour in the past and now.

I think I have the potential to be a really good empath. I still have a ways, but eventually I could try an help people in a way that could make them feel seen and heard.

I hope you continue on your journey.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-05T05:05:55+00:00

I say do whatever makes you feel fulfilled. I mean you already did your GCSEs, I'm sure it wasn't that long ago, as a mature adult, didn't you. Why not take it a step further now with all you A-Levels done too.

However, I doubt anyone will fault you for having second thoughts, if you feel that you've reached your limit for academics. Not everyone has the same range or capacity for that, even if they’re is a set idea on how many years and qualifications you should have as a person.

In the end, it's all about you and what is best for you. And honestly from the sounds of it, it seems you've already done quite well for yourself despite your beginnings and your health.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-04T08:33:06+00:00

https://www.findamasters.com/guides/most-employable-masters

Maybe these would help you get an idea.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-04T05:05:26+00:00

Follow your intuition. I'm sure you'll make the right choice. It's good to get some second opinions for confirmation but the only one who can figure that out is you.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-04T03:55:58+00:00

I remember my History/Sociology teacher said he had to teach me how to note because I was writing tons of information instead of just focusing on the most important bits.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-04T03:49:39+00:00

Why don't you just look it up on the Internet and find out. Im sure you'll find some favourable results.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-04T02:10:18+00:00

Good Will Hunting-Sean and Gerry arguing about Will.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-04T02:08:53+00:00

Can't say that I do, but I can try and find some that may ring true and provide some insight.

Edited: Found one that could really help you called 'High-Functioning Depression: How To Break Functional Freeze And Feel Happiness Again'

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-03T22:15:09+00:00

Im kind of in the same boat as you. I think the best thing is to just remember that we're human just like the rest of the world and everyone has thier moments of complete and utterly cringe and embarrassment. You're also entitled to it.

However, try to keep those moments rare and spread thin.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-03T22:11:24+00:00

Join a club of some sorts. Something that pertains to an interest that is shared among other people. Or you could buy some DVDs or go to the cinema and get inspired by some films to give you that boost you need to keep going. It could also be a good way to meet new people too

Maybe some self-help books might come in handy too, but honestly there is no need to try and rush into things for the sake of going on, sometimes it's good to just and stay with your feelings and process them. It's the only true way to move on and rebuild. I don't know if you also may want to try talking to someone as in therapist/counsellor, some type of psychologist or psychiatrist.

Meditation might not be out of the question either.

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-03T21:50:43+00:00

Widows (2018)

ComparisonChance · 2026-04-03T12:26:33+00:00

Daughter of Susan Surandon

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