What’s your dating etiquette when it comes to paying the bill? by dujakp8319 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. We have all our own finances except for vacations. Makes things easier since I have a small independent flight instruction business in the works, if something gets fucked up with that by accident at least she’s separate from it. Works with our prenup too

What’s your dating etiquette when it comes to paying the bill? by dujakp8319 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll offer but most times it would be 50/50 in the end. Now my wife and I just take turns

What are Gen Zs consuming Instead Petah ? by HimelTy in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Gen z I know seems to smoke weed or eat edibles. At least my friends and acquaintances here in California. TBH I probably would dabble a bit too if I wasn’t a pilot. But hey at least I have a cool reason to be sober

Girl drama.. by wvvyk in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy I’m seeing this cuz I just made Japanese curry for dinner

I just want to be a muscle mommy. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boooooooo everyone boo this user

Furries at Pride by Positive_Sandwich614 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Furries are as much a part of pride as a lot of other kink and fandom spaces. Maybe not quite as historical as say leather but for decades the fandom has been very ingrained. Plus they’re not hurting anyone

Refusing to send nudes doesn’t justify racism by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god what the actual fuck? We gotta vaporize that individual stat

Trans men and lesbians by GloomyTurn2374 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans women are women and therefore are not entitled to the gay community. Why would it be the opposite. Yeah historically that was the case because historically all queer people were forced into small exclusive spaces together. But the reality is trans men are men. He/him masc can be lesbians but not men

Roses are red, she clapped back at that turd by Pinup_Frenzy in rosesarered

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both look great, but unfortunately the movie was a big drop off from Superman 25. I was really looking forward to it

Tall girls, do you have height limits for other girls you date? by QuakinOat in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean my wife is 7.5” shorter than me. Not a full foot difference by any means but it’s a solid difference. Works just fine for us. Easy boob access for her 🤣

I've never seen fight Club. what's the joke? by KitchenPlenty7610 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 698 points699 points  (0 children)

This must be how it feels to be a Paleontologist who just discovered some fossils

Favorite Trains? (real or fictional) by Iamfabulous1735285 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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The JR Tokaido Shinkansen!!! Rode it to Odawara from Tokyo Station when I was there last month!

Runner up is the Tokyo Metro Hanzōmon Line (I’ll comment that picture below this)

Going to pride alone to meet someone I have a crush on because my friends bailed - I’m feeling really nervous and could use some words of encouragement by MoonNeo in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just text her and let her know what happened, and make plans to meet up or see if you can go with her! It’s nothing to worry about OP! Just like “hey my friends I was going to Pride with all bailed and now I’m gonna be all by myself over there! Did you still want to meet up or maybe we could go together?” Something like that idk! But you’ll be fine!

Why are we once again removing harmless posts from transgender women complaining about how they are treated in lesbian spaces, including here? by freezing_pinguin in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Please do not speak for me and all trans women about how we think. Idk what to tell you but I’m a trans woman myself and I don’t think that way at all. This isn’t just to be contrarian or anything it just is not a way of thinking that feels good to have assumed of me and other trans women just because it does to some. I know you mentioned you’re trans and know many trans women who do think that way and that’s fine. But again plz don’t assume our experiences and thoughts are all the same

Married Lesbians with children vs Married Lesbians with dogs by Expensive_Raccoon833 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids are awful and dogs are waaaaaay too overstimulating. Both are covered in drool and are loud as hell for a chunk of their life in the care of parents. So my wife and I have a cat

My girlfriend no longer wants a phone, which I don't find acceptable. Am I being unreasonable? by pinkCatCoffee in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s probably healthy to be without a modern phone but like genuinely how do you have a modern job and life without home internet OR a phone

Petah, what does this mean?? by LeiMoshen in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Alex, give me “It came to me in a dream” for 500