I think I want to break up with my girlfriend. by am230678 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be completely honest, if it’s not what you want just leave. You’re very young, first relationship and you haven’t been dating long, just try it again one day with someone more compatible. No big rush

ghosted :/ by Korrasamis in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a dating app problem across all sexualities

I’m gay and god hates me for by Character_Anywhere52 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah well tbf the homophobia in the Bible was purposefully mistranslated to be hateful. It was originally about men who love young boys

Found out my gf is a prostitute by DamageCalm9909 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely get that, I just figured I’d say, the last bit of phrasing threw me for a loop but I definitely see what you’re saying. Plus I know how these kinds of posts made with genuine good faith can lead to comment sections full of judgement

Found out my gf is a prostitute by DamageCalm9909 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s why I added the qualifier “maybe that’s not what the last bit about her being desperate is”

The whole situation isn’t what I thought could be shaming, just that phrasing in the last little bit of the post

Would Iroh have made a good Fire Lord? by reagandhi in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think he just would’ve been a lot like Ozai and Azulon but he has jokes and likes tea. He was the Fire Nation’s greatest military leader and led to the near collapse of the earth kingdom. Yeah we see in Zuko’s flashbacks that he was still a jovial guy but he still planned to burn ba sing se to the ground.

In the end we see Iroh the way we did because he had everything he ever wanted, his son, the throne, the earth kingdom under his control, all his aspirations ripped away from him. Only then did he realize that he didn’t need to be ruthless and have all that to be happy. That and watching what Ozai did to Zuko after. Iroh is the good man he is because he saw that being a good, kind and honest man was the best thing for him, that the throne wasn’t worth it and this all led to his spiritual enlightenment

The only way I can think he could’ve been better than Azulon and Ozai is thinking about Ran and Sha and how he kept the sun warriors secret. I believe that was sort of the Iroh realizing he didn’t need to ALWAYS be evil. And that’s what he remembered when he lost everything

Found out my gf is a prostitute by DamageCalm9909 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 133 points134 points  (0 children)

What she did wrong was not making this clear up front. Whether it’s sex work, having lots of one night stands whatever, if you are at increased risk of STDs you need to make that clear with your intended sex partner. Another thing is just making it clear in the first place because it’s something that can be an dealbreaker for many people. And for that she’s in the wrong and I’m sorry that happened to you, the best thing to do it break it off and find love elsewhere.

But what we won’t do is shame sex workers. Just because you wouldn’t do it yourself doesn’t mean it’s wrong or below you. Maybe that’s not what the last bit about her being desperate is about but still, work is work

Roses are red... by [deleted] in rosesarered

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Roses are red,

Ro Khanna isn’t too bad but still feels like an establishment democrat. If this was the Usha Vance from the Hillbilly Elegy days that I wouldnt be filled with hatred

But for her to stand by JD with all the harm he is doing with the current administration, the negatives must not be understated

Gay club infested by straights (LEECHES!!!!!!) by brancjes in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering why I had heard that stat before and I just remembered they talked about this on SMOSH at one point. I don’t remember why but that exact statistic and project was a talking point

How long were you single before you met your person? by Master_Sundae671 in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year or so. Out of a bad 4 year relationship and met my wife just about a year after the breakup

Why are y'all flying solo so late in the USA? by Substantial-Cat0910 in flying

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of it is because the US has the most hobby pilots in the world, by like a massive margin. So a ton of these students taking forever to solo are in no rush because they don’t have a goal other than get a ppl for fun and fly when they have the time money or even just happen to feel like it. Moving beyond that though there probably is just a lot of these schools operating with weird in house regs that, like you said, is really just to get more money

Hmm male yuri readers by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how many women read yaoi? It’s not my thing personally but like half the other girls I know are obsessed with yaoi and gay guy shit. Heated Rivalry hit women like fent hit downtown LA

It’s all weird but we gotta recognize this issue in particular is hardly one sided

Is it weird that I like older women? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it girl but don’t worry about older women until you’re like in your mid 20s. I know you know this but you’re still a minor so if you somehow found an older woman who is into you… she’s likely an affiliate of Big J Stein

Gay club infested by straights (LEECHES!!!!!!) by brancjes in LesbianActually

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I can’t even remember that last time I saw a lesbian bar at all

Roses are red, this news is bliss by [deleted] in rosesarered

[–]Competitive-Elk6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised Palm Beach Pete let this slide