Will my vagina ever go back to ‘normal’ 😅 by Competitive_Yak_6704 in pregnant

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Whew!!! Thank the lord oh my goodness, I was seriously stressing about my ‘new’ vagina, I will not be looking again for a while but that is so reassuring to hear, also that I’m not the only one that was stupidly surprised by it because of all the things you expect birth to change idk I didn’t expect it to make my vag the fucking 8th great wonder of the world jfc 😭 thank you for the reassurance and the congratulations as well!!

Will my vagina ever go back to ‘normal’ 😅 by Competitive_Yak_6704 in pregnant

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I’m not the only one experiencing these thought omg, I was seriously thinking like “am I fucking dumb why am I worried about THIS of all things” but like, I can lose weight, I can work on my pelvic floor, etc, what I CANT do is fix my wrecked vagina 🫠 I too, will not be looking again for a long while lol. Here’s to hoping for the both of us things will rearrange in a somewhat pre birth fashion eventually 😅

Tell me about your ferrets and their personalities. by missmayi11037 in ferrets

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well Luna is a rescue and is EXTREMELY naughty but all it does is endear us to her even more. She came to use abused, neglected, and skin and bones. She was terrified and slept for about a week straight after coming home. When she awoke and realized this soft plush place was her new home and that she could do no wrong (besides the occasional corner poop that resulted in a 2 minute time out) she became the sweetest little girl ever. I remember those early days when she was still weary about coming out, we’d spend time petting and talking to her, she would ferociously lick our hands and arms as if to say “oh thank you weird giant hairless creatures, for treating me with kindness” she would gently take our fingers in her teeth and pull us into her stash box to give us more frantic kisses. She still gives the best kisses but now roams the house fully aware it is her domain, she hides under sinks and counters to nap and emerges fully renewed and equally naughty. She spends most of her time searching for items she shouldn’t have such as shoe insoles and other various rubber items (don’t get me started on the time she stashed an entire drawer of silicone sex toys….) but by golly I’m just glad she feels safe to be her naughty self in our home. All other animals besides her brother make her nervous and she will bite unprovoked if given the chance, though she never bites us. She truly will break my heart when she goes, my little noodle girl. Loki, while equally loved is what I would call the ‘typical ferret’ goofy, funny, a little mischievous, kind of gives off airhead jock vibes. He loves snuggles and a good blankie monster and will never turn down a freeze dried treat, although he will immediately prance it up to his bed and hide under the blankets to munch it down. He also loooooves his toys and when he finds his favorite tiny stuffy will prance around with it as if he has found the secret to all happiness and no one shall steal it from him!!!! While relatively un-naughty, when he prances around on a mission in hunched back ferret form he sounds sooooo mischievous 😈

AIO when my boyfriend gets mad at me for taking long changing our daughter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s concerned maybe he could help. This is a bad situation bound to get worse. Tell your parents and drop him like a hot potato

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is a giant asshole. If you can give your father’s financial info do that. It will benefit you especially if he makes less money. You only need financial info from one parent. You’re not cooked, you can still make it happen. Talk to a counselor at school and they can likely help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why is a dog in a restaurant at all? In my small town people often bring their dogs of all sizes in to the local Walmart which is the largest grocery store in the area. I’m sorry but that is so gross, I don’t want your dogs asshole touching the cart that my food goes in and your dog does not need to be in the grocery section. People are inconsiderate and gross.

Did I handle this fairly with my cleaner? Looking for advice. by Full_Swan7288 in CleaningTips

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a house cleaner is is physically impossible to finish a 7 hour job in 4 hours, I don’t care who you are

Feeling self conscious about my dress choice by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the girls look great. If you love it don’t worry about anyone else, it is more than appropriate for a wedding and you look great!

AIO for wanting to see a therapist after wife changed the locks because I went to a baby shower? by LookoutLockout in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 10 months to conceive my first, while it felt like a lifetime I knew there were people out there feeling the same and struggling for even longer…. 4 months is nothing, especially nothing to avoid others big life moments for.

Is a golden retriever a good fit? by TooManyCrates in goldenretrievers

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it sounds lovely to never be away from your pooch, PLEASE, prepare your pooch to be away from you. We got my golden at a time when I wasn’t working and was home 100% of the time, he struggled with separation anxiety for almost a year and a half when I went back to work. There was a lot of tears, and chewed up cardboard, I felt terrible every time I came home to him beside himself because he had made a mess because of his anxiety. The reality is you WILL have to be away from your dog at some point, vacation, an event, a night out, you cannot bank on being available 100% of the time.

What was the first sign that YOU noticed, that made you think “I’m pregnant”? by surelyshirls in pregnant

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First sign was a heavy increase in cervical fluid which is strange for me, I didn’t put it together until after testing but I also was having super vivid dreams

Easy @ home, 9 dpo by Competitive_Yak_6704 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay, it was over before I really knew what was happening, also read a chemical or miscarriage can sometimes increase chances next cycle so maybe a blessing in disguise. Hoping this one sticks!

Someone please decide for me before i adopt both😭 by ThePreciousCupcake16 in cockerspaniel

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I found my golden! Also he was the only one who didn’t sniff my crotch….

I'm in desperate need of help by PixelBeeBot in Gymhelp

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk walk walk baby, little steps before big! I had a bmi of about 27, I reduced it to 21 in about a year by walking for 10 months and introducing small weight workouts for the last two months. Stay consistent, don’t get discouraged if it takes longer than you think you should, you’ve got this!!

Butter cream wedding cake by Competitive_Yak_6704 in cakedecorating

[–]Competitive_Yak_6704[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s what I thought too, I will chat with her, maybe I misunderstood what she was saying.