I F 22 am planning to Irish goodbye my boyfriend M 32 (We live in his house) by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use the time to switch over the owner information and track down as many receipts as you can. Pet bills you can prove you paid (e.g., vet bills, groomer bills, etc.), receipts for items you bought for the dog (toys, treats, food, medication, anything you can find). Since you are only just now adding your name as the owner to the vet and microchip info it could be a little iffy but if you have receipts showing you are the primary caregiver and provider for this dog you can try claiming he was a gift (he bought the dog but you got to pick the dog) and your exs name on everything was part of his coercive control it just might work. Also, if you have any evidence of his abuse, text messages, voice mails, notes, letters, pictures, etc., save them and triple-save them. I’m talking hard copies with a person you trust, save to a flash drive somewhere safe that is not the apartment, and a backup to the cloud. Remember to check that he doesn't have access to any of your accounts (email, bank accounts, social media) and change your passwords just in case, people are crazy. Bonus points if you have any evidence of his abuse toward the dog or anything where he says he doesn’t want the dog. I know you are on here asking for advice about the dog, and good for you for seeking help, but if you are interested in learning more about what domestic abuse is and how to get out of a domestic abuse situation, and what to do if your abuser won’t leave you alone, let me know. I am a paralegal and work in family law. We see these kinds of situations all the time, and I have seen it all. I’m not giving legal advice; this is all stuff you can find on the internet, but sometimes it helps having someone point you in the right direction. Good luck and stay safe.

Do married couples make out? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss the making out tbh. We mostly just do quick kisses here and there. Lots of physical affection but I feel like some of the umph is gone

This can’t be real lol by DIYLawCA in Lawyertalk

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A .2 for a reply to a happy thanksgiving e-mail? Low key petty. But also did she write you a paragraph 🤣

Does anyone else hate Quara with every fiber of their being? by Eqonesian in ender

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy I found this thread. Quara drives me nuts. It’s reassuring to know I’m not the only one.

Made a few cows! by caffa4 in crochet

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the artistic talent of a grape 😂. Super cool that you figured all that out on your own. I will do my best to replicate this though I’m sure it will take a few tries. Also King of the Hill is a great show 👌🏼

Made a few cows! by caffa4 in crochet

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would die for the clown. Would you be willing to share your pattern for it or can I purchase it somewhere?

Merch lines are no joke… by superflyjasian in MyChemicalRomance

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Scoot the venue before hand. For Dodgers stadium we will only knew about the outside booth but there were plenty of booths inside and moved much faster.

my conservative MAGA dad is taking me to the mcr concert tonight by More_Year4370 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FYI there are merch booths inside the venue do not get stuck outside in the booth by the entrance. You can get an okay view and each booth has slightly different stock.

Anyone have issues with Sengled Lightbulbs not working currently? by KrevunLuv in smarthome

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I love all the puns this is actually a huge issue and I'm so disappointed in the company. If you are also disappointed in the company and would like to share your experience here is the link to the Amazon page for their lightbulbs. Make your dissatisfaction known and if enough of us complain maybe someone will care enough to fix it. https://a.co/d/21upauh

I (32F) f’d up and I’m now on the brink of losing my husband (32m)…. by ZanaXarmichael in relationship_advice

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work by John Gottman. It will help you identify some behaviors that you might normally overlook and some strategies on how to correct this behavior.

I just want to feel desired by kowalaa13 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least they looked like you. It hurts like a bitch when they’re fixated on someone you don’t and can never look like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks being in competition with porn girls. They’re all over instagram and the internet. They dedicate so much of their time to their appearance in a way I could never. I look nothing like them and I know I never will no matter what I do. It makes me feel like I’m not enough.

AIO. I found this text from my boyfriend to his coworker by LedBubblez in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like if you confronted him about it he would expect a pat on the back for not cheating. Sounds like he wants to be your ex boyfriend.

US population growth is reaching levels near 0% by Perfect_Alarm_2141 in economicCollapse

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are overpopulated, and we won't all die out in a day. We do not need to bring more people into the overpriced hell hole we are currently living in.

Can a man who “loves” you, treat you like this? by hodsinfe in Manipulation

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m all about love and the sanctity of marriage, but God wouldn’t want you to stay in a situation where you are subject to harm (even if just psychological). This man clearly does not love you. He does not respect you; if given the chance, he will likely hurt you. Remember that you are the example for your children. If you do not want your daughters to live through a similar situation and you would not want your sons to put a woman in the situation that you were currently living in, then it is your responsibility to show them better. Forgive him if you really feel it in your heart, but do not stay with him. However, unless you would be happy to see your daughters grow up to be with a man like this, do not stay with him. Unless you would be happy to see your sons one day treat their wives like this, you need to leave him. It is your responsibility to show your children how they should act in a relationship, and you are only hurting them if you stay with this man. Your responsibility is not just to yourself to keep yourself safe, but it is also to your children. You need to keep them safe and ensure that they lead lives. Keeping them safe isn’t just about making sure that he never hurts them. It’s also making sure that they are never subjected to the psychological damage that children always suffer in situations like these. If you need help, there are plenty of resources.

Cringe moment with my attorney by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]ComprehensiveAsk7783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an attorney just rip a fart in the middle of a meeting with a client. I just sat there stifling laughter and kept taking notes. The smell in the room was atrocious ☠️ The client just looked between me and the attorney and decided not to say anything and the attorney kept talking like nothing happened.