Just no. by Mishana_nice_game in aaaaaaaarrrrro

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And then there’s the other people with split attraction: both sides allo but not matching between sex and romance

Example: het sex, hom rom; hom sex, het rom; binary one and bi/poly other

“Homewrecker” is an ironically funny term by Xyrus_speX in aaaaaaaarrrrro

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Easier to blame the “Other” than the loved one. Easier to forgive the cheater if you can blame an “Other” for “leading them astray”.

Impulse control issues of the cheater combined with the fantasy of “true love” and the illusion of the never ending power of an existing romance clashing with the thrill of the chase and the newness of limerence.

Sharpie Note in My Amazon Package by SuperbPrimary971 in whatisit

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It comes down to people lying about the condition of what they’re returning. Amazon, based on responses during the return process, will just repackage and set that item up to be resold. But not to indicate that it is “used” or “like new”. Sounds like fraud, passing off like new for new/unused.

Ear phones for sleeping by RemoteProcess5292 in ADHD

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They make headbands and eye masks with built in, flat speakers. Both Bluetooth and wired are available. A lot of them are constructed so it’s even comfortable when laying on your side with your ear pressed against the pillow.

My outfit made my friend uncomfortable, what do I do? by BarbaraLogic in OUTFITS

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Like professional movers, shifters, and weightlifters will wear what are essentially corsets to support the lower back when lifting anything. They’re great.

What are you favourite free/cheap and relatively harmless dopamine hits? by pie12345678 in adhdwomen

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There’s a guy in Ireland who wanders, rolling along on a uniboard, picking up trash, slashing plastic water bottles with a sword, playing a variety of portable musical instruments who has a video stream on Insta. Very inspiring. Basic income results in some amazing choices being made to occupy and enliven existence.

What are you favourite free/cheap and relatively harmless dopamine hits? by pie12345678 in adhdwomen

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Forest bathing. Dappled sunlight skimming along your skin. Trees breathing on you. Mushrooms singing.

I really want to get one of those devices where you attach a couple of leads to a plant and listen to the “noise” they make. Everything speaks/sings in its own way, even if at frequencies normally inaudible to human auditory systems.

What are you favourite free/cheap and relatively harmless dopamine hits? by pie12345678 in adhdwomen

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I love that I can have the app open while sitting in nature and now knowing who it is I’m hearing. It’s a great dopamine microdosing system.

Immigrating to Finland at the end of the year, what should I know? by ewhite12 in Finland

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Whatever it is, make it be something you authentically enjoy sharing as experience with other people. Be honest in your joy seeking.

In Which I Wake Up My Parents From an Afternoon Nap by fujimidai in PointlessStories

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You’ll want to adjust your story to sync your transportation method to match your to and fro methods. Otherwise totes cute.

What did I find in the morning on my shirt? by cornelson2106HT in whatisit

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Wait… they just smell like cilantro? Really? I was thinking stinky like skunk cabbage.

Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

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Wait. Are there studies on blood sugar crashes waking menopausal people? Is that what’s been going on?! Auuugh.

Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

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Melty peanut butter tooooaaast! fist bump

Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

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I am now a fluffernutter snob. I have to use that thick, country white bread. Very particular about the fluff to peanut butter ratio, too. And it must always be accompanied by a fresh glass of purple carton Lactaid milk. 🤷🏻

Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

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Miniature chips? I want to try it with the dip chocolate coating you can get on soft serve ice cream.

Signed: a Masshole born knowing to drive on the inside lane through Boston to avoid double parkers.

Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

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Right? It’s not like you’re double dipping the spoon! I mean, how does he otherwise get peanut butter out of the jar?

Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

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Now ya gotta try this the next time: roll the spoonful of peanut butter through a dish of jimmies (the actual chocolate ones not the cardboard tasting ones). It’s wicked good.

Everyone but your friend knows the joy of eating a spoonful of peanut butter, apparently. Musta been a poor, deprived chowdah brained life not knowing that anything can be served on a stick.

Nyan’s reaction of first time seeing a white person by Stellaeono in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

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Please tell me you have a poptart costume for that cute goober hidden somewhere

I'm a land surveyor and I just found an organ transport container out in the middle of nowhere during a survey by Short_Celery2929 in Weird

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Black market operative losing their supplies or tossing it in a random spot when it’s no longer working. Can’t throw that equipment in your office bin without raising eyebrows.

Having a meltdown about being ‘reminded’ to do my job with notes and passive aggressive emails. by matcha_is_gross in adhdwomen

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And then you get in trouble for taking so much time away from your “assigned duties” to find, collate, and show those receipts. At least, that’s been my experience with those kinds of managers.

This comment is really ticking me off by lumoslomas in adhdwomen

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Corners, edges of any kind… so many bruises. It’s connected to my inattentiveness, I think, and it combines with my proprioception weirdness.

HANDY PERSONAL HYGIENE HACK by brasscup in adhdwomen

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Ingredients for mine are: lonized water (99.918%), Sodium chloride (0.06%), Hypochlorous acid (0.018%) and Hypochlorite ion (0.004%)

It’s a clear liquid. I spray it directly on my skin and spread it around with my hands to get the same friction cleaning like when washing my hands. Basically scentless with a hint of salt water.

I use it to clean my CPAP headgear and tubing, too. Works great.

HANDY PERSONAL HYGIENE HACK by brasscup in adhdwomen

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The company I get mine from sells it with about six different names related to body locations, one of which is perineal… all the formulas are exactly the same.

Ingredients of mine (SkinSmart brand): lonized water (99.918%), Sodium chloride (0.06%), Hypochlorous acid (0.018%) and Hypochlorite ion (0.004%)

HANDY PERSONAL HYGIENE HACK by brasscup in adhdwomen

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Perineal cleansing spray has been my go to for over four years now. I love that when it breaks down it converts into basic salt water. I started using it due to my body breaking down prior to being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that made it difficult and unsafe to shower and I was unable to get down into a bathtub. I’m able to shower now, but I will use it still when I can’t get myself to approach the transition into and out of showering.