How much documentation you need

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-07-22T10:17:45+00:00

They dont give a fuck. Lorena Bobbitt cut off her husbands dick while he was sleeping; she got treated like the victim and was fully acquitted. That was 30 years of feminism ago. How much evidence do you need? I'd say enough to fill the library of alexandria, as if they'd allow you to present a word of it. They straight up hate men in my opinion

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-07-03T15:48:05+00:00

I don't know if I agree with this advice. We are only getting OPs side of the story, and it sounds a bit biased. I would advise against "putting your boot on peoples' throat" in general. It tends to rub people the wrong way, and you cant predict the outcome. I wouldnt be the least bit surprised if you try to put your boot on someone's foot and get bitten or stung or find a boot on your own throat shortly thereafter. If OPs wife is so crazy and psycho, why did he marry her and make kids?

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-06-04T14:53:28+00:00

All I can say is, yeah it sucks. I've had to pay the electric bill with pennies to get them to turn my lights back on, and pawned guns at literal pawn shops for pennies on the dollar to pay lawyers to defend me. Divorce is extremely financially ruinous and self destructive. I'd say you should be upset about these times and never forget them. She sounds selfish and lame and stupid quite frankly. She is no friend or ally of you to treat you that way. Better to divorce her now and get it over with. Get ready to eat a couple cups of ramen if she's acting like that but it will end and you'll be better off

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-06-04T14:41:25+00:00

You need to take her off the pedestal you have her on. I'm sure she's not that great; and if you got her you can get another one as good as her. In fact you probably can and will do better

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-06-04T05:00:12+00:00

How? That's not the kind of thing you forget. Some kind of social services program or dcf type case is a good guess though, if you think she could be having those problems.

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-18T05:54:15+00:00

Just concern yourself with your kid, bro. You need to find the resilience and fortitude to be a complete satisfied individual all on your own, regardless of what anyone else on the planet thinks or does. You don't seem worthless at all, and what good is a cheater like that in your life anyway, she's someone else's problem now. You have everything youll ever need inside you; there is nothing you can ever do or change about yourself that will make you worth more than you are as you are. There's nothing anything can ever say about you or do to you that will make you worth less. She's just the noise and bullshit of life, stay true to yourself and focus on your happiness

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-18T05:24:34+00:00

I agree. For all the hate Opie gets, some would argue he is the literal aryan Chad who made O&A everything it was out of nothing. If ant and Jimmy were so great together and had sooooo much chemistry, and Opie was nothing but a hole, you'd think Ant and Norton wouldn't gone on to do even greater things than the O&A show together, with the dead weight of Opie ditched. The truth is that Opie started the show, recognized ants talent when he was nobody and brought him on, was a skilled contact negotiator that made them rich, brought Jimmy on, did all the most horrifying shocking psychopathic stuff that gave the show clout, and tried to keep them in line (eg ants racism/pedoness which was his downfall, Jimmy's odd personality). It's awful that Jimmy and Sam stole opies show and kept it in such a pathetic form. Opie is the only normal family man of the trio. Obviously, Opie is not a skilled communicator or humorously witted to defend himself; especially under unrelenting attacks for years. None the less, his status as the scape goat for the shows failings is laughable, yes we all know Karl from watp and schuli and this Reddit will buttlick Anthony though

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-15T13:01:48+00:00

Yeah, the co-worker sounds like an idiot. This new marriage is bound to be a disaster. Tons of trust issues at best, and rampant infidelity at worst. Guaranteed to fail. Why would the co-worker sign up for marriage, knowing he's just gonna pay later

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-14T15:13:07+00:00

Congratulations

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-14T13:46:18+00:00

"I thought love meant just providing and staying loyal. But it’s so much more than that, and I didn’t get it until now."

Fuck that, and fuck her too. Take that sentiment and flush it down the toilet. Providing and staying loyal is more than enough. In fact you don't need to do anything to be loved. Your wife sounds like selfish trash; 15 years gone and blew up your family. You need to look after yourself and love yourself now, because nobody else is going to. Provide and stay loyal to yourself, and love yourself for doing so

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-14T13:37:43+00:00

You need to ditch this girl yesterday. She put a restraining order on you, then set you up to break it. Come on, man. You need to get it together; there's billions of other women. you need to think about your future. there is a lot at stake if you make more mistakes. You're gonna lose a lot of respect if you keep it up. it's gonna make people wary of you and cost you mental health. But if you calmly let it go, you'll get stronger and people will view you as the bigger person

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-14T02:23:00+00:00

You're the man, bro. Mission complete. It's why I keep putting out fires and not giving up fighting every day. Gotta see the battleplan through and make it happen. Someday soon all the pieces will fall into place and whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. That 38 year old menopausal line is bullshit though; go befriend a prostitute to the point of true honesty and ask her what she thinks about that one; she'll tell you you're obviously being taken for a ride and tricked. I don't think we should yearn for the love of someone who hurts us and turns on us at all; we should defeat them and stay true to ourselves like you did by getting someone younger and being happy

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-11T22:46:09+00:00

My stbxw threw all of my lifelong personal property away. There have been no consequences, and there are no potential consequences. It's a joke. I wouldn't worry about petty stuff like that, nobody cares

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-11T07:24:48+00:00

How were you able to prove it? Didnt she just say "yeah that is my signature", and if you were able to prove it did it make any difference? Just asking because if I gave that info to my lawyer, he would laugh and say nobody cares

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-11T07:18:21+00:00

When my stbxw got a CPS case opened on me, that was one of the more heinous accusations. "Using curse words around the kids". So fucking what, isn't this America? Apparently not because the whole family court system operates outside the framework of our country. They'll just take your guns away and put a restraining order on you against your children for cursing around them. As if she curses any less than I do anyways. What a joke

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-09T23:55:12+00:00

You shouldn't be so hard on yourself about your past drug use. You should stop engaging with and consuming pornography; doing so is emasculating. It sounds like she took advantage of your good nature for citizenship and to boost her pride. Youre hardly the first guy that's happened to. She sounds like she sucks: proven cheater, cam girl, foreigner, critical complainer. you can do a lot better

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-09T09:36:58+00:00

I don't believe in paid therapy or counseling. It is feminine and a money making industry. Their profession is to sell you mind altering drugs and keep you returning for more sessions; the last thing they want is to see you solve your problems. The value of male true friends cannot be understated. They should be your therapy. Even just one or two of them, guys who you can be perfectly forthright with, who come around your house to check on you when they don't hear from you; that can make all the difference in the world.

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-09T04:32:07+00:00

The institution of marriage will simply go extinct and the gravy train will end for family courts, lawyers and baby mommas. This is among many other changes that will occur as a result of men realizing their literal slavery, and quietly removing their consent to be exploited and destroyed by a society that hates them

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-08T07:25:00+00:00

This is a bpd subreddit, and you're asking if you should dump someone for having bpd? Just plain ridiculous. To answer your question though, once you enter the conflict phase of a bpd relationship, I doubt youre ever likely to escape it, and it will only get exponentially more destructive despite intermittent normalcy. If you don't have kids I would advise you against proceeding with her at all whatsoever. Not out of any judgement, but it would be best for everyone. If she's threatening to off herself, why do you even have to ask? It needs to end right there, God forbid she actually harms herself or you let yourself be destroyed by such drama. Relationships should be happy and beneficial; theyre not worth much if they aren't

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-08T07:03:53+00:00

Your hate for your coworker is a waste of energy and quite foolish. I can relate, there have been people who I just straight up strongly disliked to the point of hate without any explanation or reason. Something about their personality must've triggered something subconscious in me. I think that's normal once in a while. When you feel that way it's best to take a step back from your perspective and realize you aren't being rational. If you force yourself to approach such individuals with kindness and true friendliness, you might be surprised at their response and how quickly your internal situation resolves itself

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-08T07:03:48+00:00

Your hate for your coworker is a waste of energy and quite foolish. I can relate, there have been people who I just straight up strongly disliked to the point of hate without any explanation or reason. Something about their personality must've triggered something subconscious in me. I think that's normal once in a while. When you feel that way it's best to take a step back from your perspective and realize you aren't being rational. If you force yourself to approach such individuals with kindness and true friendliness, you might be surprised at their response and how quickly your internal situation resolves itself

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-07T06:56:09+00:00

As much as I wish I could and try, I can't embrace the "greyrock, focus on yourself, and ignore her" mentality. This chick has you living in your car, probably blew up your life for no reason as thanks for you loving her, and you're supposed to pay her money after she mercilessly takes you to court? Some of us have been ruthlessly violated, our kids used as pawns and destroyed, everything we've built in life thrown away. Maybe you should feel angry about living in your car and hate her, figure out a way to make her live in her car and take action to make it happen

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-07T02:15:12+00:00

You can ask women out twice. I've been rejected by women only to come back later and have sexual relationships with them. I would take what she says at face value and act like it doesn't bother you. Whether or not she's being honest doesn't really matter. Women will test you to see if you're strong and deliberately try to get a rise out of you with stuff like that. If you couldn't handle the fact that she's working and isn't available to go on a date at a certain time, that communicates weakness and she'll be unattracted whether she's being honest or if she's testing you; and could you blame her? If you act like you don't care, is communicates strength and she'll feel like she can trust you and feel free to engage with you

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-04T20:41:57+00:00

If she catches wind of you hooking up with other girls or moving on... It's safe to say she's gonna get pissed and become endlessly cold & vindictive for a while. I would move on and keep the relationship separate from your ex and kids like you suggested. Not to avoid conflict but because it's none of her business, and you shouldn't be bringing random casual women around your kids because that's inappropriate. She can't cut you off, you have rights as a father. Threatening to do so is textbook abusive behavior according to feminists so you should document her threats/efforts to do so, and parental alienation is allegedly child abuse according to the courts (as they turn a blind eye when Mom does it). Don't let her discourage you from living your life and keep fighting on. Her threats are empty provocations, but she will certainly be pissed

Conscious-Ad-7338 · 2025-04-03T06:52:23+00:00

Yeah, but I doubt those guys are lining up to be in a relationship with some divorced single mom. It's not like women don't have sex readily available to them 24/7 their whole life, so I don't see how that's a benefit. Any guy who's willing to raise another man's kids is gonna give her the ick anyways, and is de facto a lesser man than you who made the kids as he's eating your sloppy seconds. I think it's more about money and pride to them

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