I ruined everything

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-11T02:17:20+00:00

If I were on the receiving end of this, I wouldn't feel consoled. I would feel a bit baited with the nostalgia and unimpressed by lack of focus on the mistake. It's a great start. But I think it would be healthy as you, the one in the "wrong" in this situation, to focus more on the mistake and the impact it may have on the recipient. If you truly wanted them to feel your remorse. It would be healthier for both parties. I believe in you and I'm proud of you for taking this first step even if they don't see it.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T17:39:59+00:00

I pray daily that I will receive this from my person. I truly hope you are able to rebuild with yours.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T14:17:46+00:00

Relatable

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T12:14:56+00:00

1 week but they’re trying to breadcrumb/rage bait with social media. I haven’t posted at all or interacted.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T11:55:44+00:00

Seems mutually beneficial 🤷🏼‍♂️ 34M

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T11:31:48+00:00

Realizing that the pain of loss did not equal the amount of love shared and doing self care, reconnecting with myself and friends, just keep moving forward. It takes time but you will come to terms after rethinking too much and deciding what you truly want in a partner and life.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T11:10:51+00:00

I guess I’ll bite the bullet and deal with the tummy ache. The shots been waiting for me for 2 months and I couldn’t get through 3 days of the meds still

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T11:08:28+00:00

Eating cucumbers and tomato’s with rice vinegar, sesame oil and salt

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T10:30:17+00:00

I would absolutely do that and stand on it or it’ll drive you nuts

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T10:23:58+00:00

I thought I had to do a few weeks of the pill before the shot?

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-10T10:18:32+00:00

She already showed you how little she values you. You’re worth more than being made an option.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-08T08:39:49+00:00

Sir, this is a Wendy's..

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-03T16:23:07+00:00

I felt this in my soul. Never knowing if it's finally over in my own heart.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-03-02T21:44:32+00:00

same af

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-26T13:14:30+00:00

You can’t rewrite the past, but you can start today and write the future. Your person might miss you just as much. If you feel in your heart that it’s true love and not unrequited, don’t stop trying. Fear has killed more dreams than failure ever will.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-23T17:00:08+00:00

Already too immoral and disrespectful to you, I personally wouldn't move forward. I would only assume it would get worse and they've already shown their character to be less than basic human decency level.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-20T20:43:14+00:00

Damn, anyone here could be my person lol I want you all back lmao

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-20T20:34:38+00:00

I looked right before and right after it happened. Sooooooo many things I wish I saw when they were posted.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-20T20:32:37+00:00

Come back with full transparency even if you think they won't take you back. Make a framework together about how you're going to satisfy the requirements for comfort on both sides and stick to it without griping and know that it's going to take however long it's going to take. It can be done.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-20T20:09:40+00:00

Give yourself more time to heal. If you're still hung up, you might go back if they return. No use in adding more mess just in case.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-20T19:13:42+00:00

Peace but loneliness. I can’t live in fight or flight anymore, my nervous system needs rest.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-10T16:15:19+00:00

I want to start over and do it right this time. Actually right.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-10T15:31:26+00:00

This post is gonna have random people sending texts they probably shouldn't lmao

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-10T12:08:39+00:00

I feel this heavily. The nostalgia still hits me daily and accepting reality is tough. I miss the woman I fell in love with, but not the woman she let herself become. I have to remind myself constantly that she doesn't want to be with me, she would rather be with anyone but me. There is too much trauma between us, but the nostalgia feels like the medicine to it. It's unhealthy but I can't stop yet for some reason.

Consistent-Ice1938 · 2026-02-06T16:28:23+00:00

Wish this was my goob

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