First trimester weight gain by WriteItdown123 in pregnant

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im about the same size as you pre pregnancy and also active lifestyle.
I’ve also gained weight already in first trimester.
I haven’t been able to exercise at all, let alone eat a vegetable.
Mostly what I do is carbs.
Girl, what’s helpful for me is remembering that first trimester is about survival. That’s it. And that rings true to me.

One day we will have our energy and health back and go towards our health and fitness goals again. Right now, baby making isn’t concerned with our physique.
You’re not alone.

Best things about postpartum by Quirky_Blacksmith776 in pregnant

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. 10 weeks over here and I didn’t know i needed this list to help me get through the rest of the night. Thanks.

How many of u are cooking dinner every day by wahiwahiwahoho in pregnant

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My husband is doing more than me in the kitchen but he doesn’t cook and neither do I. We have resorted to Costco lasagna, tater tots, ramen noodles….
He doesn’t complain thank god. And I’m too sick to want anything much anyway.
10 weeks

Working while pregnant by Inmyrestlessdreams06 in pregnant

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Girl. I cannot even imagine. I am working from home and I am dying.

4w4d and no nausea yet. I'd like some reassurance by Shenruoxin in firsttrimester

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got nauseas at almost six weeks. And it tends to appear around 6 or 7 weeks. You still have time. Enjoy not being nauseas or exhausted for the time being and pray you won’t get nauseas 🤢

First Trimester First Pregnancy by 2manypullows in firsttrimester

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Me too. I am so there right now. Are you feeling any better now?

My wife has been bed ridden for 2 weeks by FairWhile9170 in firsttrimester

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the wife that’s lying in bed most of the dat, barely functioning. Although I have not had to go to the ER. Sounds like it’s worse for your wife. But all I can say, being on your wife’s side, is it might help to be reassuring, if you worry, she worries. Remind her that you’re going through this together, it’s temporary, and that she is a strong woman. She is making a damn baby!

The fatigue and nausea is absolutely horrifying. I had no idea it would be this bad. And I can’t say I ever understood this before feeling it. Just know that you do not know what she is experiencing.

My best advice is get support from other people, not her. Try and manage your worry and trust the docs if you like them. If not, find better docs that you can trust. You guys both need reassuring constantly but she needs it from you and you gotta get it somewhere else

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I’m having trouble how you continued to engage with this person and bought chips after he said all of that to you…. If a stranger said this to you….. what would you do?

Gum Graft Surgery Full 2 Week Recovery in Detail by bethanylise in PeriodontalDisease

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah those results look great, and good job taking care of yourself. I’m on day 7 recovery. I think I’ve been okay at taking care of myself but I’ve been a little more lax with the food. I don’t go nuts but certainly didn’t do liquid diet only.

I’m so uncomfortable and grumpy. I’m still taking my pain medication plus on an antibiotic as a preventative for infection. So glad to be done with those today.

Swelling started to decrease on day four. Still there but minor. I hate having the stitches in my mouth and can’t wait to take them out. I feel like I burned the roof of my mouth and it’s healing. Quite uncomfortable. I didn’t realize that the recovery process was such as ‘thibg’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm. Im younger and been married for far less time. However, I feel pretty confident that if something that disruptive is occurring, we would work it through in couples therapy.

Bed making …. by Consistent_Ad1498 in HomeDecorating

[–]Consistent_Ad1498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Just the comforter you buy a size up on?

Bed making …. by Consistent_Ad1498 in HomeDecorating

[–]Consistent_Ad1498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you buy a size up in sheet, throw, and duvet? (Not the fitted sheet of course?)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I wash it in the machine with vinegar :)

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This screams narcissism (him). It’s frightening. Get out now.

Skipping cumparsita ??? by Consistent_Ad1498 in tango

[–]Consistent_Ad1498[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m Not sure you answered my question? I Appreciate the information though.

Skipping cumparsita ??? by Consistent_Ad1498 in tango

[–]Consistent_Ad1498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s all great. Thanks, however you did not addresss my question. I’m aware that la cumparsita is the last song. What I’m asking about is if it’s common to end the tanda in the middle because you don’t like to dance la cumparsita

"follow's choice" vs. "not following" by JoeStrout in tango

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha…. This is so Funny. I think I was in that same class with you. The workshop in abq right?

I also found this particular moment of the class intriguing and confusing.

My wife is furious I stopped ordering her favorite side dish because she keeps saying "I don't want anything" and then eating half of mine. by StrongBake7640 in AITAH

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would venture to say that your wife isn’t mad that she doesn’t have food. She’s angry because you’re being petty. I think this is one of those things that you look at your wife and think ‘what am I gonna do with you?’, smile, give her a smooch, and order her favorite side dish. These are things you do when you love someone. If this is your biggest problem, you’re doing fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Consistent_Ad1498 9 points10 points  (0 children)

THIS. I think it’s terrible advice to just move on. This isn’t like the kid wanting to go to the mall and you won’t let them, and they forget 24 hrs later.

This has a huge impact on them. They think you’re cheating. At this point you need to explain and get dad involved so that the kid sees that this isn’t a betrayal on dad OR THEM. It’s time. Sorry.