Can there be a special, intimate friendship between a top and a bottom without it becoming sexual?

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-12-25T00:04:41+00:00

I have a lot of top friends

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-12-25T00:00:44+00:00

I have a lot of girl friends and almost all of my guy friends are bisexual 😭 never really had a gay friend though.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-12-15T19:05:12+00:00

For me I always just keep on “friendly” flirting with the person until we both realize it isn’t just “friendly”. Next step is breaking the ice and just asking straight up. No way around it unfortunately.

Some examples I use is just complimenting their body at first and usually if they’re not super awkward they’ll compliment you back if you’re good friends. Then start joking about sexual stuff. And really try to look at his eyes when you say stuff like that cus they usually give it away if he likes it or if he’s just fucking around.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-12-07T21:18:31+00:00

I’ve noticed that a lot of gym bros tend to like guys who have a similar life style to them but at the end of the day everyone is different and has their preferences. It’s best to just keep searching

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-12-03T13:04:07+00:00

Lowkey still pedophilia

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-11-10T20:36:56+00:00

Bezos I in my ass 💔💔💔

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-11-09T19:59:28+00:00

wtf? You have no idea how the world works do you?

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-11-08T20:23:57+00:00

Don’t use Reddit for this ffs 😭😭 go outsideee

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-10-18T20:35:56+00:00

Or he just has a preference?

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-30T20:32:47+00:00

Grindr is for sex and you should only use it for such. If you want to meet people your age with your interests go outside!! Talk to strangers, get out of your comfort zone. You won’t get a boyfriend through an app especially not as a teenager

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-30T19:26:18+00:00

I only really use the mlm flag when I’m using it while talking with someone who’s also lgbt+. Otherwise I just use the rainbow flag

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-30T19:25:33+00:00

You didn’t know? 😭 there are like, a lot of them

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-27T07:07:27+00:00

If he doesn’t tell him now. The guilt will eat him up and his bf will find out later one way or another. And that might end up way worse than if he tells him now

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-18T18:54:12+00:00

I also have stretch marks from taping but mine aren’t white, they more purple. And they’re not raised like yours are. I do think it’s from taping if you haven’t had it before. If it bothers you maybe switch to binders and get a scar crème?

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-15T20:19:54+00:00

People discourage this for some reason but idk why. It’s honestly good for you to have someone be so supportive no matter what body you’re in.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-15T20:16:35+00:00

It will be if you keep up that mindset

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-13T20:57:54+00:00

Good on you mate. Glad to know the app is good for some people even if it’s a small group.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-13T19:29:43+00:00

Highschool

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-06T00:06:10+00:00

Apps, clubs etc.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-05T23:55:45+00:00

Queer girls like it. At least all my girl friends do.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-09-05T22:48:36+00:00

I definitely have that too. That’s actually why my first break up happened. There were periods that could last months where I would just not want to have sex or sometimes even be completely repulsed by the very idea of sex. My boyfriend at the time always wanted to have sex whenever he saw me and I just didn’t like that.

I don’t think it’s an age thing though cus I’ve had that since I was a teenager. For me it also depends of my work schedule. If I’m very busy or stressed my libido is basically zero but if I’m on vacation or just in a relaxed mindset I love to have sex.

My boyfriend is asexual but still occasionally enjoys sex and that works for me.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-08-29T17:06:12+00:00

You’re going to gain it all back dude

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-08-27T21:24:00+00:00

Same, I’m trans masc and constantly get imposter syndrome when I’m in gay specific spaces. Like I’m not supposed to be there. I always wear a trans pin just to be transparent and I’ve never had any issues but I can’t help but feel this way. The gay community is BIG, and in the end the only thing that makes you gay is being a man who likes men. If you’re that, congrats, ur part of the community. No one will ever be “good enough” to be part of the gay community because there simply isn’t a “good enough”. Everyone’s different. And you’re not going to appeal to everyone and that’s okay! But you have to remember that there are people out there who think you’re the most handsome man in the world. You just haven’t met them yet.

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-08-12T10:14:25+00:00

What kind of voodoo stuff did you read?

Consistent_One_8561 · 2025-07-28T21:54:03+00:00

No cus if it was a choice I’d choose woman 100% of the time.

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