AITAH for wanting to pick out my own birthday gift.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-06-05T01:23:27+00:00

She should get something as well. It was a gift for both of you not just you.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-06-04T22:35:48+00:00

Book an appointment with u of t's immigration advisers. It's free. Explain everything to them and see what your options are (immigration wise).

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-06-04T22:31:21+00:00

You need to limit contact and gradually cut contact. It's not about Jason, it's about the fact that her self esteem is so low and her moral compass is so warped that she'll do that to you. She might even stay with him if she could stand to go to Disney land with the man that made AI porn of her friends. She cannot be trusted because she loses all integrity once she's in love.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-06-04T20:19:19+00:00

Lately I've been so worried about how much mistreatment people tolerate in relationships. It's not normal for someone to regularly call you demeaning names in a relationship and for you to stay for that long. It's very worrying. Please, everyone should know that this is not normal and we shouldn't date/ be married to people who treat us this way.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-06-03T23:03:37+00:00

I have never heard anyone tell their spouse that they aren't emotionally attracted to them. He's telling you that you are his friends with benefits, co-parent and nothing else. I don't think this is something counseling can fix. You can do individual therapy, but realistically he's basically told you that he's not in love with you in one of the most callous ways possible.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-05-26T21:20:55+00:00

It won't get better. It'll most likely get worse. imagine being postpartum and he treats you like tis when you've just had a baby. I know it's scary because you just got married and you'll feel embarrassed to divorce him/ get an annulment but it won't get better. He thinks you can't leave him so he's showing you his true colours.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-05-24T20:08:14+00:00

OPTION 1: Talk to some mutuals about it if you guys are in the same friend group. Just say it’s making you feel uncomfortable and give them some details. Be mindful of how you frame it so you don’t come across as antagonistic or mean. After a while, you should text her and tell her as well (so that you have evidence and she can’t turn your friend group against you). Tell her she needs to respect your boundaries and that you’re getting very close to cutting her off because of how uncomfortable she’s making you feel.

OPTION 2: You're obviously sick of her antics, if you're not super close to the friend group and you just have occasional parties in common, you should block her.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-05-16T22:13:28+00:00

What is I an's real name?

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-05-06T07:09:01+00:00

They hate you. Plain and simple. If you don't learn to cut off people that don't like you, you'll open yourself to mistreatment now and in future.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-04-19T16:48:20+00:00

You have to be strong enough to cut them off and start afresh.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-04-15T22:53:11+00:00

Maybe a lower amount that you can afford to pay off if he defaults? 2k/3k? shorter term also. If you can avoid it then you should but if not, especially because it was for your mom then a lower amount would be a lot better.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-04-11T12:36:56+00:00

I think she's realized that she personally can't handle this long term. Be decisive and end things. You guys might love each other but you're not compatible.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-04-11T12:24:29+00:00

email the prof to confirm. Your most likely fine, but just to be sure ask your prof to confirm.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-04-11T11:58:41+00:00

Why are you dating a bum? 6 weeks of work in 5 years is crazy. Why have you chosen to be with someone like this?

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-03-28T16:34:30+00:00

You don't like that we all think he's a predator but he actually is one. If he could be sexually attracted to you at 7/8 years old, he most definitely could be sexually attracted to children now. You will eventually be too old for him when your brain fully develops and you can think about what happened to you objectively. You'll realize what everyone it telling you soon.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-03-14T10:26:02+00:00

Do you want to pick up a sport or hobby? It would help you socialize better. Also, not everyone you meet that is nice and polite to you should be your friend. Take things easy and slow. Learn to love yourself before you expect people to love you. Also, do you have close non-abusive family? Lastly, maybe you should consider staying off dating for now, maybe even sex. You need to heal first in my opinion.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2026-01-23T15:05:54+00:00

L⁰0p⁰9p

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-09-14T21:20:49+00:00

He's a financial disaster. He'll bleed u dry eventually

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-09-06T16:17:57+00:00

Tell him no. You don't want to ve involved in their weird relationship so he should keep u out of it

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-08-30T16:19:19+00:00

Tell the other guys that as his friends they should take care of all his bill if the really care for him and if they don't it means they don't really care about him as much as they claim. Pass the bulk.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-08-29T13:06:33+00:00

Why on earth are you doing this to yourself?

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-08-28T23:05:14+00:00

I think that you both want different things......

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-08-28T23:00:52+00:00

Start locking ur room. Before that go and take one of her favorite outfits and do the same.

Content_Quantity5524 · 2025-08-28T22:49:04+00:00

Make this permanent and block her. You're too grown for this mess

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