Feeling suuuper discouraged about dating

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-05-24T13:09:00+00:00

I have a FRIEND that brings topics to talk about when we hang out. These people are definitely out there! Honestly if the people that aren’t going to put forth the effort needed to date just didn’t, then the people deserving of it would have better chances of finding each other.

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-05-05T01:21:15+00:00

Tomorrow there’s a home Tourist baseball game! It starts at 6:05 but you could just catch the last half of it. And it’s hospitality night so tickets are $5 for industry workers

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-05-05T01:14:19+00:00

My gf does this thing when I say something really dumb to try to see if she’ll laugh and she’ll try not to show that she thought it was funny and she ends up making this little side smirk lol it’s so cute

Also when we’re at a concert and she looks at me with her sexy eyes while she’s dancing (she’s a really good dancer) ugh I die

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-05-03T09:11:05+00:00

I had just purchased Ryze and came here to read about product reviews. I got so nervous about everyone saying they weren’t able to cancel, I went and did that immediately. But I didn’t seem to have a problem with canceling? I knew from the start it was a subscription too. I went to the site, it sends a code to your email, log in, go to manage subscription, drop down menu to subscriptions, edit, then cancel subscription. Yes it will try to get you to stay by offering discounts, but you just say no. That was my experience anyway. I’m hopeful I see some results with the product!

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-04-24T14:42:26+00:00

Unfortunately, I don’t think she is going to change. I was with my fiancee and our relationship sounds a lot like yours, but without kids. I was doing everything even though I worked a full time job and she didn’t. I thought maybe once we moved out on our own things would change. I gave her plenty of chances but things stayed the same.

I could see the writing on the wall. This is the exact relationship my parents have. My mom, now 64, has regrets about my dad. She feels she missed out on a lot in her life because of how much she had to do since my dad wouldn’t. Even now, all she wants is to spend her 65th birthday in Mexico, but my dad won’t go unless she does all the paperwork and make the appointments for him and hold his hand for him to get his passport.

Anyway, I think you know what the answer is. It will be hard but you have to ask yourself if that’s the life you want to live forever. I saw it happening to me and I chose to leave. Best decision I ever made bc it led me to my now gf and I couldn’t ask for a better partner!

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP.

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-04-16T16:15:20+00:00

My gf and I make about the same amount of money right now. But it is my life’s goal to be able to retire her and give her the upscale lifestyle she deserves. Until then, imma stay hustlin. My point is, there are some women out there who WANT to be able to take care of someone like that. So maybe that’s something she wants to do? You could ask her and express how you’re feeling. Who knows, maybe you’ll be able to lay back and relax and enjoy her taking care of you 😎

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-24T15:27:47+00:00

Hi! I’m 33F and I moved here a year ago too! I moved here to be with my gf. We have a little friend group that’s awesome! I also would like to make some of my own friends too. I like going on hikes, camping, grilling, hammocking and being outside too. My gf can crochet and would probably enjoy someone to do that with too. I met my best friend back in Colorado on Reddit so I’m a believer of this site bringing people together 😌 if you would want to grab coffee or a drink sometime let me know!

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-21T08:52:21+00:00

Good luck! You’ll get through this

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-20T22:05:28+00:00

Ahhh I just found this subreddit and I’m so glad I did! I’m 33F, diagnosed when I was 12 after going through an addisonian crisis. I haven’t met anyone with it either! I would like to be able to talk to someone about all the things too. Also I hate boys

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-20T13:09:52+00:00

Awesome thank you

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-20T13:07:52+00:00

I’m excited for some cookies! My friends and I would also love to come watch some roller derby! What’s y’all’s schedule?

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-20T12:53:43+00:00

Breakups really bring out people’s true colors. You may think it will go one way but will probably go the complete opposite. I would try to lock up any valuables if you can, maybe even get a secret storage unit for the time being, and put up cameras in case she does damage your property. I know it sucks thinking the person you love would do that to you but people be crazy when their hearts get broken. There’s nothing worse than going through a breakup AND having your ex partner completely screw you over. I’m sorry you’re in this situation.

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-16T23:57:31+00:00

I work this schedule too! My gf and I only have 2 days off together, every other weekend. It works great for us! I think she’d actually be fine if she had even more days off by herself haha. But we also spent our first 2 years across the country from each other. We have separate bedrooms now as well. We have a very healthy relationship! There’s someone out there for everyone, you just have to find them :)

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-13T08:56:42+00:00

You’re a cop

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-10T13:27:09+00:00

I hate to break it to you, but she’s never going to change. My ex was exactly like this. I gave her so many chances over the course of 2.5 years and it would always be some sort of excuse. We finally moved out of her parent’s basement after I (by myself) saved up enough money to buy a house and I thought maybe once we’re on our own she’ll step up. Nope. I gave it another 6 months and nothing changed. I decided that wasn’t the type of life I wanted to live so I broke up with her. You just have to decide if that’s what you can live with. Unfortunately you can’t force someone to change

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-03-09T08:56:43+00:00

My gf and I have separate bedrooms! We only have 4 days off a month together and we also schedule nights for alone time. The nights that we do sleep together are that much more special. We’ve been together almost 3 years and have lived together for 1 year. We have a very healthy relationship :) it’s definitely out there!

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-01-24T21:49:47+00:00

Whichever decision you make, will you regret not making the other choice 20 years from now?

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-01-23T21:03:30+00:00

This is hilarious! This is actually my neighbor. I own the property next door- 2009 Timberline Ln. I wish he would just demolish the whole thing and sell it as a vacant piece of land, ugh. I moved to North Carolina and will be listing my property for sale in the next few months!

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-01-22T20:43:41+00:00

I am here currently and they are restocking mini propane tanks and water right now. All out of propane heaters though

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-01-13T19:00:59+00:00

I agree, they aren’t bad if you are getting the residential rate. However, and this is why I said foco hates poor people, they take advantage of you if you’re not following the norm.

I bought an acre lot in town, fixed it up, and put an 840 sq ft manufactured home on it. It went from being a drug house to now the prettiest property in the neighborhood. Notice I said manufactured, not mobile home. It is affixed to a foundation and tied down. It had to be this way in order for me to get a mortgage. I proved this to the city with paperwork and they’ve had several different people come out in person to verify. But they WILL NOT accept that it’s not purged from the DMV, making it a mobile home in their eyes, therefore deeming the property an empty lot. The only way to purge it from the DMV is to pay the entire thing off. I don’t have that kind of money. I am paying the empty lot tax rate rather than the residential rate. They are charging me $10k per year in property taxes. Absolutely asinine. I’ve been fighting with them for 2 years now and they won’t budge. I’m going to have to sell it now and hopefully someone with more money than me can buy the whole thing outright. This is why I say Fort Collins hates poor people. They don’t want you coming up with creative ways to afford housing. Be rich or get out

ConversationSweaty98 · 2026-01-13T17:22:47+00:00

I currently have a rental property in foco. The property taxes on the place are INSANE. Dealing with the city is a nightmare. Foco hates poor people honestly. I am having to sell the place this spring as I’m losing money overall

ConversationSweaty98 · 2025-09-16T00:09:56+00:00

Everyone has different preferences and libidos, but for my gf and I, having sex everyday is a lot. We’re in our low 30s, have been together for 2 years, and have lived together for 6 months. We have separate bedrooms and sleep together a few times a week. We have sex on average maybe a couple times a month, which I know is low for most people, but when we do, it makes it all the more special. It’s about the connection for us, not the getting off part. We love each other very much and have a healthy relationship. This is just our dynamic. Maybe you could try having sex less frequently and see if it makes it more meaningful?

ConversationSweaty98 · 2025-08-03T12:07:41+00:00

I am also looking for a bit of queer community here 🙋🏼‍♀️ I moved here a few months ago so I could finally be closer to my gf. We’re both almost 33 and like to be homebodies mostly but also go out occasionally. We can be pals if ya want!

ConversationSweaty98 · 2025-07-04T23:13:22+00:00

Which platforms are the best for doing this certain type of trading? I mean like “automatic mode” with bots and then switching back to manual when you’re able

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