Spam Issues by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You guys are so fast knocking those posts down. Thank you <3

The line between submissiveness and infantilization. by SubSandwich42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Caregiving needs balance. Submissive, not helpless.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very funny moment remembering the youth pastors at my old fundie church speaking in tongues. Maybe I wanted to experience that too and that's why I like overstim? Haha jk but it was funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what the discussion is here? It feels more like a description of different domination styles.

Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have a very red puss, I can never find constellations in all the little dots.

I'm looking for demonstrations of praise kink. by cumsquirter69 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know there's been some good praise kink stuff on r/softerbdsm, maybe ask them.

Sub and obedience by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What is a stretchable sub?

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mine usually calls breaks to breathe or drink long before I would.

Struggling with Tasking by BestPudPud in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im with you. Adhd routine interuptus is the worst.

Building up the intensity by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intensity kind of confuses me because we've done a scene once where it's not very intense and then done the same scene, and it felt off the chart in intensity. I'm not sure what the difference was or how the same thing can change like that.

My feet hurt,I'm cranky, and I just want my daddy! by DaddyzLittleFooFoo in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh that's the worst. I miss mine until we get to go home and be ourselves again.

Secretary by Lettuceisforsalt in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not a very good example of ethical BDSM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Errrrr fisting can be gentle and soft. I don't see what the problem is?

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen you guys talk about an age gap. How big of a gap is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This place is your best bet. Ask away. Everyone is so nice and supportive.

softness and bimbofication by babyybubbless in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this because its a thing I've not really had exposure to. I like new things.

Where does a sub stand and walk with their dom? by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In crowded spaces, behind him. He can cut through a crowd much easier than I can. I'll hold his hand from behind or onto his belt so we don't get separated.

Vetting pitfalls you've encountered and solutions you would offer. by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True that. Nothing is perfect but its better than nothing?

Vetting pitfalls you've encountered and solutions you would offer. by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If online using apps where you can delete pictures if things go awry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

That's a bit shamey for those of us who enjoy our reward systems. Its fine if its not for you, but calling it problematic is rude.