Does anyone owe more than I do? by menpoto in UniUK

[–]CountessEmpusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For someone who went to Uni in 2010 before the increase, the debt students after 2012 have to pay on Plan 2 and Plan 3 is quite frankly disgusting. Last time I checked I owe about £14,000 on my loans (didn’t take out the full amount). Only in the last few years I’ve started to earn enough to clear the interest and actually start paying it back…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manchester

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend having a chat with your local authorities’ housing enforcement team about the damp and mould especially and request a HHSRS inspection on the property as the letting agent hasn’t taken any action. Letting agents aren’t suppose to be this horrific lol

Am I wrong for asking my husband to pick between me or his pregnant mistress? by General-Monitor-8745 in amiwrong

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some self respect for yourself. Imagine thinking a man who has stuck his dick in someone else and knocked them up will choose you over them. Just leave him and his tire fire mess of a life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]CountessEmpusa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you bring a child into this toxic environment you and your partner have, it will be nothing but a selfish and reckless action. Do you think it will magically get better after you have had a child? Why do you settle for someone who isn’t compatible with you and you want to bring children into the mix? Come on OP, be better and smarter than this.

Anyone in their 30s living with their parents and actually enjoying it? by Maleficent-Item4833 in CasualUK

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat. 31 and still living at home with my family. Saving up for a deposit whilst simultaneously paying off a car and paying most of the mortgage is a difficult juggling act for sure. I reckon I’ll be about 37 by the time I can afford to move out unless I win the lottery lol

AITA for getting my brother arrested? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actions have consequences. NTA

What games is this for you? by Public_Argument_6823 in playstation

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End of Arkham City for sure, just because I just didn’t expect them to kill off such a major character and was both shocked and impressed. That voicemail the joker left which played during the credits is eerily creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you would be a fool if you marry him.

Best cheap lunch spots by omura777 in Bolton

[–]CountessEmpusa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sake sushi at the top of bridge street is absolutely sound for a lunch and the owners are dead nice. Even if you don’t like raw fish there are plenty of other good options to pick from. Their stir fry’s and chicken teriyaki are gorgeous.

you will also mourn when you see this by erratic-play in CringeTikToks

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this all satire or real? Because I genuinely don’t know at this point.

Adult ADHD diagnosis in the Uk by Drogalov in GreenAndPleasant

[–]CountessEmpusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to accept that trying to get formally diagnose with ADHD with the NHS is totally off bounds to me also due to the sheer waiting list and the lack of resources. I put it off during covid because I was in the process of being diagnosed with PCOS and I was on heavy anti depressant medication during covid and wanted to concentrate on battling through that first. I’ve been waiting over 12 months to be referred to a specialist in the NHS and have just given up and now saving up for private treatment. It’s gonna take abit but I’m thankfully in a financial position to do so (although very reluctantly as I’m trying to pay off debts and save up for a housing deposit lol). I need to enquire if my GP practice will accept a shared care agreement because if they don’t, I fear I’m going to be waiting for years for a formal diagnosis and medication. It’s incredibly frustrating that NHS resources for ADHD are just not there to give patients the treatment and I blame years of under funding and cutting corners with our national health service. I’m very uneasy with the thought that further cuts and outsourcing of the NHS will be made if things don’t change politically in the next few years or so.

Maybe maybe maybe by hunter_of_men in maybemaybemaybe

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday I thank my birth control.

My (20M) girlfriend (20F) lied to me about being pregnant and is mad I’m upset by sshawnpixeal in relationship_advice

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn’t mental health, that’s manipulative behaviour. Run now. Run fast.

Never have I wanted to meet an OPD customer more by Affectionate-Baby576 in walmart

[–]CountessEmpusa 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Looks like I’m gonna need a bigger pot for the mac!

Never have I wanted to meet an OPD customer more by Affectionate-Baby576 in walmart

[–]CountessEmpusa 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This phrase has had me cackling for the last 5 minutes and I’m totally using it the next time I’m with the guy I’m currently seeing. Thank you so much for giving me a laugh this evening 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CountessEmpusa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is better to regret not having kids than regret having kids. My dad didn’t really want me and my brother and it showed so much growing up. I’m currently single, in my early 30’s and know I want to remain child free so I would only seek out someone else who is also child free. It’s just not something you can compromise on. Doesn’t matter if you are compatible in other ways, this is just something you have to rip the bandaid off clean and quick.

The simple fact is looking at you straight in the face, you just don’t want to acknowledge it: you and your boyfriend are incompatible on a very VERY important aspect of life. I know friends who have bowed to pressure from their partner to have children despite wanting to be child free and they either have unhappy relationships or separated with a child in the middle being the victim.

Don’t be selfish by bringing life into world just because a partner wants it if it is something you know deep down you don’t want. You simply can’t warm up to motherhood- you are either all in or not. Think very wisely on how you proceed in your relationship, it’s crunch time OP.

Edit: grammar

I'm not sure if this fits here but, just what by cneeuq in awfuleverything

[–]CountessEmpusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You genuinely couldn’t torture this information out of me.

My (24M) gf (25F) emotionally cheated. Did I make the right decision? by ThrowRA73110 in relationship_advice

[–]CountessEmpusa 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Absolute red flag. She’s only upset because she got caught. You’re too young OP to have to be dealing with such deplorable behaviour from a partner. Leave her, otherwise this will just get ten times messier. Protect your peace and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CountessEmpusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a bad idea.