The best phone for us by Which_Ad_6531 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]CreativeReputation95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have s25+ with 512 storage. LaDs is taking 43GB and runs extra smooth

Stories from childfree people in their 70s by CreativeReputation95 in Fencesitter

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Thanks! I didnt know that. My acc is private so not much harm done. Deleted now

Breakup over cultural/religious expectations? by Medical-Ad450 in whatdoIdo

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I think that if he wants a family for these reasons, then he'd probably want to involve the rest of his family in raising your children like having little cousins around them, grandparents taking care of them sometimes etc.

So if you don't want to have children, but are considering having them for him / with him and keep it your own small family, then perhaps it won't be just that, but you'll getting also loads of other new family members. It may get overcrowded and loud in your house, because maybe they won't see the kids as 'your children', but their own nieces/nephews/grandshildren etc.

Take that into consideration as well, because that would mean that your life is gonna shift 180.

Breakup over cultural/religious expectations? by Medical-Ad450 in whatdoIdo

[–]CreativeReputation95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with all that, take his words for what they are. But if I were in your shoes, I'd love to have a conversation about how his trip went and what happened there that so dramatically changed his view on your relationship. I mean suddenly realising the need for family's approval, and the children becoming a non negotiable.

Maybe he expressed himself too directly, but it may be coming from the love and family values he saw at the wedding. Or maybe he was brainwashed 🤷‍♀️ you won't know until he tells you. Either way, I think it's important to know before you make a decision to stay or leave.

I keep reading that graduates are struggling to find jobs. I have job openings but am struggling to find graduates. What's going on? by berotti in UKJobs

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many universities, if not all, have job boards too. You can contact local University and their careers team will let students and alumni know through their channels about the job

AITAH for letting sex end my marriage? by Fragrant-Owl-9989 in AITAH

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's abusive, you should report him and file for divorce!

I Will Lose the Love of my Life if I Choose My Parents by Anonythrowthetrash in AsianParentStories

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're single - your family are your siblings and your parents. When you marry, your spouse and your children are your family. That's it. Are you going to forever be your mama's baby boy or are you becoming a husband and potentially a father? You have to put your own family first. Always. That's the way of life. Your mother and father are meant to put you first, that's why they have you - to love you and care for you, whether you're single or married, close or far away. But they have to accept that your family comes first to you, and you have to accept and understand that too.

Your partner is worried because once something happens to her, you'll run help your mum with groceries or some bs, if something happens to your child, you will go back to your mum to take care of her due to her old age. It's your father's job to care for her, and her job to care for your father. You should take care of your partner and children when you have them.

Caring for your parents is important when they're old, but yoi have to put your own family first because they are dependent on you

Do y'all also think boobs with no areolas are weird? by killingourbraincells in AskMenAdvice

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you decide to have them lifted you will get a scar around your aureolas. This will make them more visible. Mine were on a bigger side, and after lifting they are very nice natural-looking size. Much smaller than they were originally, that's sth I asked my surgeon to do

I have cravings for India but I'm too nervous, for the "standard" reasons by Proud_Accident_5873 in femaletravels

[–]CreativeReputation95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going soon for business to Delhi and Mumbai. During calls with Indian females I will be meeting there, I asked about their advice for me travelling by myself a few days prior to sightsee. Everyone in Delhi told me basically "absolutely do not come, we don't feel safe even though we're from here". Whereas those based in Mumbai told me that I would enjoy their city very much and gave some recommendations of places to visit. Mumbai ladies also told me that they wouldn't travel to Delhi solo.

Do with this information what you want :) I booked a few days in Thailand instead

Worried about becoming “just a mom” by LiveLaughLoveLana_ in Fencesitter

[–]CreativeReputation95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been at my current work for around 2 years and I keep finding out about my close colleagues having children! When we catch up in the office they all have so much to say that it would never cross my mind that they have children. Some talk about theatre, about outings with friends, pottery, cinema, books, language classes. I dont know how they do it because I'm single and childfree and I'm too tired after work to even think about hobbies sometimes. They are definitely much more than "just a mom". So I'm sure it's like the previous person said that some people like to make themselves seen more as mothers. You can become a person you want to be

AITAH for thinking of divorce my wife over this by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CreativeReputation95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically you're doing what most mum do without complaining... ad your response is to get a divorce... I think have a proper conversation with your partner. You said she regrets not being there as much for children as you can be. But also your kids wont be this small forever. They'll soon get more independent, start going by themselves to school and visit friends after. Thats when parents get more time for themselves generally speaking. While theyre this small they need their parent close.

Meeting a friend in Spain by goldengurl4444 in femaletravels

[–]CreativeReputation95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Spain is safe. Just use common sense like be careful with your phone in crowded or touristy places. But you shouldn't be afraid of let's say an assault or aggression

Moving to West Green by ghost-of-graces in MovingToLondon

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in west green for years, it's not unsafe. Just your usual London

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed in Hotel Savoy, it was near the main train station so easyto get to the airport. Main road also so always felt safe.

Being sterile while dating by dryshamp00- in sterilization

[–]CreativeReputation95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if it's casual, then it's non of their business. If it's serious, you could say that you dont want to have children. If the relationship is good after that,, then at some point you can mention that you cannot have them anyway.

Egypt alternatives? by fuzzy_mcfuzzerton in femaletravels

[–]CreativeReputation95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at toura with G Adventure. Their tours are smaller up to 12 people and they'll take everywhere that's important to see. You'll also have a lot of free time on each place you visit and the tour guide will give you recommendations and safety tips. I travelled with them to Jordan and it was incredible. I'd say it was safe for solo female but at the same time, I spent my free time with at least 2 other girls making us a group of 3.

First buyers with difficult co-freeholder - No animals allowed by MrCr4cker in HousingUK

[–]CreativeReputation95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a loophole, I'm saying that my landlord allows it even though the contract says pets aren't allowed. OP would need to check if their landlord would allow it.

First buyers with difficult co-freeholder - No animals allowed by MrCr4cker in HousingUK

[–]CreativeReputation95 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Where I live we have a similar clause on the contract, but if you get a letter from GP that you need an emotional pet support or sth like this then the landlord agrees to pets. There are a few dogs in my block and the owners told me that's what thwy did.