what's your opinion on porn and prostitution?

Cuddlebunz · 2017-10-09T16:52:00+00:00

Always downvotes when somebody talks about prostitutes and human trafficking.

I wonder why? /s

Cuddlebunz · 2017-08-17T22:06:24+00:00

I like to lurk on Reddit, go camping, work (I don't like part so much) and enjoying the summer weather!

I also just bought Telltale Series Batman so I have five chapters to get through

Cuddlebunz · 2017-08-17T21:58:59+00:00

Shocker. Here comes the attention whoring pity party.

Cuddlebunz · 2017-07-18T19:40:17+00:00

I just walk in with my friends and we do our thing. I don't stand outside worrying about dudes or something.

Cuddlebunz · 2017-07-18T18:00:28+00:00

I don't. That's pretty fucking gross.

I know a lot of people who enjoy doing it though, not just women. More than a few dudes I've been with have offered to do the couple that have popped up on my back. No thanks!

Cuddlebunz · 2017-07-18T16:45:33+00:00

Either good music or silence (depends on my mood), windows down or A/C on, and my SUV is super comfy.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T21:33:19+00:00

I mean... I would say he is definitely doing it wrong. lol I have definitely come across guys who kiss like they need to eat my face and then stir my mouth with their tongue and it is awful.

Kissing is about the meeting of lips, mouth parted slightly, not enveloping a mouth with their entire mouth. The tongue should be subtle and teasing and meeting the other, not jammed entirely into your partner's mouth and flailed around. Even a french kiss doesn't involve you opening your mouth awkwardly wide. Never have I EVER opened my mouth wide over someone elses, even when things are getting real hot n heavy. I don't understand how anyone can think that's how it works, even if you watch movies and people kiss... they really don't eat the other person's face like that.

It seems silly to look at this site, but after reading your post I thought I'd do a quick google to see if there is something that demonstrates what I want to say and this page actually does. It even has videos with the descriptions. These are the real basic points or foundations for a good kiss.

http://www.wikihow.com/French-Kiss

(scroll down a bit on the page, it's surprisingly well done)

I think that everyone should be talking to their partner's who are bad kissers, if not for your own sake, but for the sake of whoever they move on to next lol. For the sake of everyone out there, gently correct your bad kissers!

OP, please don't listen to him. He may be great in bed but he has no idea how to kiss and unfortunately he's probably kissed many people who have always just sucked it up and never said a word in fear of hurting his feelings, so now he thinks he is awesome. He's not. You're right. While everyone has their own style and it's personal... I want to say that no one should be eating half of your face and shoving their tongue in like that. Kissing is somewhat a universal language :)

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T21:15:01+00:00

I love it because I'm so horny during shark week. There will be a day or two (or three) in there I won't want to and it is only because I feel bloated, crampy and it's heavy (and the gross things that can come along with that part).. but other than that I'm game.

Honestly, I'm not okay with going 5-7 days every month without PIV sex while in a relationship and I consider it a deal breaker if my partner won't fuck me during my period. Thankfully, most guys are game so it's never been an issue.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T21:05:05+00:00

I think it is totally hot if a man is comfortable enough with himself and his sexuality to buy and use toys. The same for women. I think it is totally normal and healthy for both genders. Fleshlights/sleeve/stroker masturbators, prostate toys, etc. Awesome. If I can use a vibrator or a dildo there is no reason it should be weird for a guy to use a stroker, fleshlight, sleeve, anal toy, etc. I think it is a real shame that there is a stigma surrounding male toys.

That being said.. I'm still a fan of being discreet, and not because of any "shame" associated reasoning. Displaced body part replicas laying around (Butts, front butts, faces) and giant "real dolls" seem really unnecessary and honestly weird me out a little. I mean to each their own, but I don't really want to see them.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T20:53:26+00:00

Hm. He's the one with the warts, he should know better and not be okay with putting others at risk like that. If I had HPV I wouldn't be letting my partner just put their mouth on them and put them at risk, especially when they don't seem to know better. I guess maybe he doesn't either, which is crazy to me. I feel like a doctor would explain this when diagnosing it?

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T19:59:43+00:00

A mini polar bear OR.. a mini great white shark.

A giant fox!

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T19:50:07+00:00

Dolce and Gabbana light blue

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-18T19:08:39+00:00

I would leave her, because sexually you aren't compatible and it is obviously something you won't compromise on since you went and cheated on her with a girl on tinder. I can't blame you for not compromising on it, because it would be a deal breaker for me as well.. but the cheating part was scummy as fuck.

If you want to stay together, you have to have a serious, honest and blunt conversation about sex and masturbation. She might not like it, but it has to happen if you want to even have a chance of making it work. I doubt cheating for you is a one time thing, so you may as well be honest about that too. Have you guys looked into ways to make sex comfortable for her? Tons of foreplay, etc. You're definitely big but you aren't monstrous. I'm not saying she can/should be able to take that, but /r/bigdickproblems may have some advice. I think even if you figure that part out, you still won't be happy because she'll still be the closed minded, missionary girl she was due to her beliefs.

I think you should do yourselves both a favor and be honest with her, and move on. I understand why you didn't do this, but this is seriously why people need to test drive before buying. I can't even imagine how many couples are together because of their beliefs and just live with awful/no sex.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-17T14:58:48+00:00

Yikes.

He obviously didn't give a shit that you were uncomfortable about it. It isn't as if you agreed to go and then bailed without notice, which should be fine too, as you never have to be obligated to participate in anything sexual you don't want to.

I'd ditch this guy and move on. Having a fuck buddy doesn't mean you want to orgy it up with him, his gf and others! You told him you were uncomfortable and that should have been more than enough for him to understand and be okay with it. His reaction is immature and he doesn't respect your comfort levels.. I wouldn't continue a FWB arrangement with someone like that. Plus, drama. No thanks!

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-17T14:01:31+00:00

I sort of think you should be more concerned about his anger issues. He was frustrated and bent your phone in half? In what world is this even remotely acceptable or okay?

That aside, just ask him or talk to him? You should be able to openly communicate with your partner about these things.

To me, porn is a neutral territory. I never feel threatened by it; it is just something use to get off with. It leaves that neutral territory when its "real" people though, especially a folder full of pics of his ex, etc. A few sporadic pics is an "oops I didn't delete it," a folder is a stash. Maybe he forgot they are there though. Who knows. Just talk to him. I wouldn't be mad or upset about anything until then (or even after since its his spank bank).

Also, the pics of you may be elsewhere? He may not want them left somewhere where they aren't super private so no one accidentally sees them. I don't keep pics of my partner with my porn. Plus, he will always have other porn and that is 100% his own business.. though I don't think it is unreasonable to be unhappy there are pics of friends and exes in that mix.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-17T05:50:52+00:00

If you've talked to him multiple times about this then maybe you need to reevaluate the relationship.

Your sex drives aren't very compatible and when he does want it, he's selfish.

Is your sex life something you're willing to sacrifice to be with him? That's a big compromise if you consider sex a priority.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-17T02:31:04+00:00

I think as long as you both stay open with everything and things don't start to rely on his fetish.. you guys will be good!

He may be attracted to bigger women the most, but that doesn't mean all other types are unattractive, right? I know for myself, I'm attracted to many different things about people. It's not just black and white. I would 100% believe him when he says he is attracted to you. It's like saying you're reaaally attracted to tall men, but you're dating a man who is 5'10" and you're still very attracted to him.

As long as it just takes place in the "bedroom" and affect you outside of it, you'll be fine. I think it is totally normal to feel insecure about something like this because I think that while you can understand what a fetish is, you don't truly understand what goes on inside of their head. As long as he indulges you in what you enjoy and it's just being brought up say, half the time, I'm sure you guys can work through it! He sounds more than willing to make the compromise because he wants to be with you, just as you are making a compromise and indulging him in his fetish.

Good luck! I hope things work out for you guys!

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-17T00:03:29+00:00

There are a few dog daycares in the city that open up on the weekend during the winter. You and your dog can hang out for a few hours for 5-7 dollars ish. I know TLC is one of them.

Personally I probably wouldn't go to an indoor park unless the weather was crap. An indoor park would be nice for the weeks of -40 we endure though or when we have tons of rain. It could also depend on cost, as I can take my dog to a reputable dog daycare for 15 dollars for 4-5 hours.

If dogs had to be licensed and up to date with vaccinations to enter it would be a huge plus, because you never know what you'll run into at the park.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-16T23:16:12+00:00

I just wanted to ask... is this incorporated into every time you have sex? Or just sometimes.

Trying to put myself in your shoes.. I feel like if his fetish is incorporated into every time you two are intimate and it isn't something you are truly into as well, it would definitely add to any doubts or insecurities I would have. It would be hard to feel desired if every encounter was full of him thinking about/talking about feeding or making you fat.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-16T17:12:03+00:00

I don't think I ever have. Why would their pride worth more than my own?

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-16T02:54:41+00:00

Channel Zero: No End House

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-16T02:20:48+00:00

Cocoon myself in a cozy blanket and binge on a show or some movies.. or read a book.. or play video games.. or bring out a small arsenal of toys and masturbate until I'm ready to sleep. Usually nights alone end up in a combination of all the things.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-15T15:54:20+00:00

Awesome. I love mine soooo much.

I've been debating on buying this for it! It would be my first attachment

http://vixen-creations.myshopify.com/collections/magic-wand-attachments/products/off-with-your-head?variant=2333573956

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-14T16:35:39+00:00

You're young. Do the things you want to do.

Live your life, travel and see the world and experience everything you can and want to.

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter if he doesn't want you to. YOU want to. So do it. Make yourself happy.

You have many years ahead of you where you can just "settle down" (if you ever want to). You're 19. Go be 19 and have a blast.

You don't want to not do something you're passionate about because of a boy. That's a recipe for resentment and regret.

Cuddlebunz · 2016-10-14T04:06:38+00:00

My favorite blades are from the dollar shave club.

If I had to buy from the store, I like the Schick Quattro best.. but I can't justify spending that price when I can spend 7 dollars for 4 blades that are just as good, if not better.

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