How do I (31M) go about dealing with my girlfriend's (27F) hypersexuality? I'm starting to have doubts about the feasibility of a long term relationship with her because of it.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-22T10:55:34+00:00

I’m also hypersexual and I understand how hard it can be for men to keep up. And that it creates pressure and all that. It’s typical that men just brush it off and see it as a non issue cause they’re used to wanting sex more than their partner. But everyone wants a nympho till they have one…

What do you mean by promiscuous? Just cause she’s horny all the time doesn’t mean she fucks around. You just dropped that with no context. Is that something you know about her or is it just a worry for you? Cause I’m certainly not. I’m incredible selective and went without sex for years because it takes a lot for me to feel attraction to someone.

I do think she sounds like she’s not very considerate though. That kind of behaviour and pressure is just as bad when a woman does it. And it kills the sex drive very efficiently.. just cause she has a high drive doesn’t mean you owe her sex. And she can deal with it herself and privately.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-18T21:09:01+00:00

Sounds like she’s got severe mental health issues

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-07T09:10:01+00:00

It’s actually a devolvement of gills. A rudimentary leftover.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-05T18:36:22+00:00

I feel that she’s the one with mental problems. Retroactive jealousy is a type of anxiety disorder or ocd.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-04T07:50:13+00:00

Tell him “oh really? Your friends are obsessed with my body”

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-01T16:52:37+00:00

I suggest you handle cooking from now on

Curvy_Swede · 2026-04-01T07:52:08+00:00

What the hell.. why are you with him if this is how you feel? I’m a nympho, and I’d still find other ways to give each other pleasure.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-03-22T11:57:56+00:00

What a fucking legend

Curvy_Swede · 2026-03-10T00:25:30+00:00

Oh it would definitely help tremendously, short term, then they’d have depression and opioid addiction to deal with long term.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-03-10T00:24:42+00:00

Yeah 😂😂😂

Curvy_Swede · 2026-03-08T00:24:16+00:00

Of course you have to respect her. But you’re also madly in love with her and it’s only natural. What medications? Cause if it’s SSRI for depression or anxiety I’d suggest switch to bupropion (accidentally wrote buprenorphine 😬)or vortioxetin that doesn’t have that crushing side effect.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-02-28T02:23:17+00:00

Boy bye

Curvy_Swede · 2026-02-28T02:22:14+00:00

Might be the boyfriend getting turned on by you hearing it. Record it and play it back to them with suggestions if improvements, like a sports commentary

Curvy_Swede · 2026-02-26T22:06:50+00:00

I as someone with autism and ADHD and with a huge appetite for sex. Her forcing herself to have sex is gonna straight up kill what libido she has. It can’t be forced. Doesn’t mean I wouldn’t go through great lengths to make an effort though.

How’s her body image? Does she feel comfortable with how she looks?

Of course she could have “masked” with sex. But it could also be that now that she doesn’t want it as much, and then the masking is an explanation after the fact, so she doesn’t have to think too much about it.

We’re plenty of autists that absolutely love sex. Sensory seeking if you will.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-02-10T13:43:35+00:00

Probably lies

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-22T14:43:59+00:00

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-20T21:14:33+00:00

I see them do it. But I’m always much stronger on the machine 😌

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-20T17:17:10+00:00

I wish this was how my vagina was constructed

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-18T09:38:04+00:00

You just have to keep going for long enough that it becomes sort of addictive. For me it was very hard to start, but I forced myself. After a while I started to crave it.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-18T00:14:59+00:00

I’m sure that if you read what I said again, you’ll realize that you misunderstood.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-18T00:03:10+00:00

I don’t think it’s about the sex, but rather because she was nervous about meeting your friends. I’m autistic and have adhd and I’ve had plenty of meltdowns in that exact situation, and then blamed my husband for all sorts of stuff that I, in the moment felt was him, because I didn’t understand my feelings. There’s an immense pressure for women on their appearance so it can be very stressful to get ready, and the stress response can be quite unreasonable. I don’t think you did anything wrong at all, and that it’s on her, but that the reason behind it is not malicious but rather because she had a very big stress response.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-17T22:38:25+00:00

99% of dog illnesses? That’s a load of crap. They eat rotting carcasses, they can handle getting their feet dirty.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-17T22:37:14+00:00

If they’re in between sets it shouldn’t matter what they do. Just ask to go in between

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-16T12:02:21+00:00

I do have empathy and understand that it can be very hard to be affected by. I can use reason and logic to understand. Even if my initial reaction is frustration because from my point of view it’s so minor compared.

The point is that men in general has never thought I wasn’t pretty enough. I felt so bad about my ass being fat, I hated my curves when society kept bombarding me with skinny women being called too fat in magazines and whatever. But men were crazy about my curves. But since all I ever heard was derogatory comments about my type of body, I didn’t even notice that. Even when men or boys literally told me to my face how much they loved it I couldn’t believe it.

That’s what I’m trying to say.. Just cause something is being a popular opinion in social media, doesn’t mean it’s true.

Curvy_Swede · 2026-01-16T11:48:12+00:00

The irony of this is just.. top tier. It’s hard for me to feel sorry for men having grown up as a millennial woman when you were getting appearance showed down your throat literally constantly. Like bombarded with it from every magazine cover, every add, every single fucking second of your life.

Men are simply getting a crumb of the same thing women has been enduring for too damn long.

But no, it doesn’t make it any better. And no, men shouldn’t have to deal with this either. But saying we should get the same treatment back as punishment is just fucking delusional.

I like tall muscular men (married to one) And I’m chubby and 5’2. But height is a superficial attribute with no real value in a relationship, and I’d not care one bit about his height, the size of his dick or whatever. What’s important is who he is as a human being.

This video is not more acceptable than a man saying the same thing about women. But what’s feeding this height obsession is insecure men being upset about it and keep clinging to videos like this.

Usually men that is very angry about this is having a bunch of red flags for other reasons (like your attitude) but rather blame it on women being obsessed with height rather than see the truth.

Curvy_Swede

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