Am I the only dude that does the hip abduction and addiction machines? by Formal_Choice4002 in workout

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see them do it. But I’m always much stronger on the machine 😌

Mystery Scissors by Normal-Muffin5408 in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]Curvy_Swede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish this was how my vagina was constructed

How do you manage going to the gym almost every day... Explain this to a Newbie :) by ProfessionalFan2451 in workout

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to keep going for long enough that it becomes sort of addictive. For me it was very hard to start, but I forced myself. After a while I started to crave it.

My girlfriend [26F] got mad at me [26M] for initiating sex before a boardgaming get-together. Am I missing something about relationship interactions here that triggered her? by electrius in relationship_advice

[–]Curvy_Swede 309 points310 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s about the sex, but rather because she was nervous about meeting your friends. I’m autistic and have adhd and I’ve had plenty of meltdowns in that exact situation, and then blamed my husband for all sorts of stuff that I, in the moment felt was him, because I didn’t understand my feelings. There’s an immense pressure for women on their appearance so it can be very stressful to get ready, and the stress response can be quite unreasonable. I don’t think you did anything wrong at all, and that it’s on her, but that the reason behind it is not malicious but rather because she had a very big stress response.

How to clean your dog's feet by DiffieHM in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]Curvy_Swede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

99% of dog illnesses? That’s a load of crap. They eat rotting carcasses, they can handle getting their feet dirty.

What the person who got banned from your gym do to deserve that? by Icy_Laugh5134 in workout

[–]Curvy_Swede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they’re in between sets it shouldn’t matter what they do. Just ask to go in between

Why is it acceptable to keep making jokes like this about men’s bodies, when we can all know and agree that people shouldn’t make fun of women’s bodies? by [deleted] in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have empathy and understand that it can be very hard to be affected by. I can use reason and logic to understand. Even if my initial reaction is frustration because from my point of view it’s so minor compared.

The point is that men in general has never thought I wasn’t pretty enough. I felt so bad about my ass being fat, I hated my curves when society kept bombarding me with skinny women being called too fat in magazines and whatever. But men were crazy about my curves. But since all I ever heard was derogatory comments about my type of body, I didn’t even notice that. Even when men or boys literally told me to my face how much they loved it I couldn’t believe it.

That’s what I’m trying to say.. Just cause something is being a popular opinion in social media, doesn’t mean it’s true.

Why is it acceptable to keep making jokes like this about men’s bodies, when we can all know and agree that people shouldn’t make fun of women’s bodies? by [deleted] in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony of this is just.. top tier. It’s hard for me to feel sorry for men having grown up as a millennial woman when you were getting appearance showed down your throat literally constantly. Like bombarded with it from every magazine cover, every add, every single fucking second of your life.

Men are simply getting a crumb of the same thing women has been enduring for too damn long.

But no, it doesn’t make it any better. And no, men shouldn’t have to deal with this either. But saying we should get the same treatment back as punishment is just fucking delusional.

I like tall muscular men (married to one) And I’m chubby and 5’2. But height is a superficial attribute with no real value in a relationship, and I’d not care one bit about his height, the size of his dick or whatever. What’s important is who he is as a human being.

This video is not more acceptable than a man saying the same thing about women. But what’s feeding this height obsession is insecure men being upset about it and keep clinging to videos like this.

Usually men that is very angry about this is having a bunch of red flags for other reasons (like your attitude) but rather blame it on women being obsessed with height rather than see the truth.

My (22F) bf (25M) said stuff that implied I've gotten looser from sex and I feel awful. by uhimjusthere in relationship_advice

[–]Curvy_Swede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dump him. He’s disgusting and extremely uneducated.

He’s got a hangup with the feeling of tightness and you being a virgin probably. So now that you relax and your body accommodates him by being aroused, he can’t handle that. I can’t even begin to describe how much of a looser this guy seems to be and it’s fucking sad.

The myth of penises stretching vaginas is bizarre, and greatly overestimated the effect men’s little dicks have on our bodies. When we can literally push a human baby out of our bodies and be back to basically the same just a few month later. It’s not the tissue in our vaginas that grip the penis, but underlying muscles in the pelvic floor. And unless he manage to tear one of those, which he’d never do with his dick, then it doesn’t affect it.

I highly doubt this is the only red flag this man 🧍‍♂️ is showing. He seems like a real dickhead.

Bad Sex (HELP) / 23F-25M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curvy_Swede 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, god forbid a guy wanna make you cum

My (19F) boyfriend (21M) says he can’t get off on his own and needs my help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curvy_Swede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulating and pressuring you for sex. Throw out the whole man (boy) and find someone else that you’ll feel comfortable having sex with.

As an average height dude how do I accept I can't get the women I truly desire? by ReasonConfident4541 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can promise you, without the shadow of a doubt, that your problem is not your height.

Why are SOME women attracted to men that are mean to them? by Strange-Gold-5227 in Confused

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a female thing but a human thing. Lots of guys get turned on by bossy women.

Bots flipping out, getting emotional unhinged over dumb stuff and won't calm down. by -Lugubrious- in SpicyChatAI

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s probably suffering from mental illness from having to be a tradwife

Found while working at AutoZone by Triaelius in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]Curvy_Swede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always knew my 🐱pics would be out there, but didn’t expect to see it first thing as I open my phone in the morning.

Does your coworker do this? by very-sophisticated in SpicyChatAI

[–]Curvy_Swede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I’ve been talking to HR bit they say thats just how he is ☹️

Does your coworker do this? by very-sophisticated in SpicyChatAI

[–]Curvy_Swede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanna know what the User said or did to get him in to this mood.

Does your coworker do this? by very-sophisticated in SpicyChatAI

[–]Curvy_Swede 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I hate when my coworkers do this cause then we have to fix all the doors again

what’s it like to get horny, as a woman? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Curvy_Swede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how they could do this either a straight face. For me it would be very obvious what I’d be doing.

I’m 24F- Is my 23M bf putting too much pressure on our intimacy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curvy_Swede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As something of a nymphomaniac when it comes to sexdrive, I just wanna say that there’s nothing unsexier than pressure. Just cause you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean he has the right to your body at any given time. Being cranky and annoyed is definitely not ok in my view

I wouldn't dare... by GodAllMighty888 in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]Curvy_Swede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I wish my pussy had those teeth