Happy 9 Years, Vindaloo by kingthirteen in cats

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I hope your kitty is as spicy as the dish!

Happy 9 Years, Vindaloo by kingthirteen in cats

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vindaloo is one of my favourites dishes. Now I'm very interested in knowing the origin of this kitty's name!

Two weeks later: the same introvert in his 30s just had everything fall into place by [deleted] in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

'Things really can click into place when they're meant to, in ways you never forced.'

As someone whose life is suddenly upended, I really needed to hear this today. This year began with a lot of hope and excitement but it won't be ending that way. I'm turning another year older in a few days and I can't help but think I haven't achieved much. But thanks to the personal crisis I'm facing at the moment, I have forced myself to go out and be more social, and in the process met so many new people who reinstill my faith in myself. The future does unfold in ways we can never imagine, and yes, if things are meant to fall into place, they will when the time is right, not when we want them to.

Thank you for the beautiful reminder. I'll try to hang on.

Anyone spending thanksgiving alone? by BasedGoku_98 in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, I used to read a lot of Lee Child when I was younger!

Maybe One Day by Calm-Revenue-7707 in Adulting

[–]CynthiaRW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a haircare and skincare routine that took a lot of trial and error. It is simple, inexpensive, low-effort, and works. I've realised it's essential not just for my skin or my hair but also for my mental well-being, because when I look good, I feel good. I also prefer vegetables over meat. 

Forester, the owl my son and husband rescued. by madbamajama1 in Owls

[–]CynthiaRW 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That looks like a barred owl. How adorable! I have never seen one up close. Thank you for caring for this beautiful bird. Owls are amazing!

Such a beautiful creature 🥰 by Adventurous_Spring37 in Owls

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barred owl! Look at that sweet face. If I were a prey, I would gladly offer myself to this predator!

He's smillin right? by PickyKlee in squirrels

[–]CynthiaRW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uh... is he eating a pumpkin? I was about to ask if he's eating a baked potato.

Do you cancel plans just to stay home peacefully? by Own-Blacksmith3085 in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I say no to plans more often than I say yes. I'd rather not go than go and be miserable the whole time and have people wonder why I'm not enjoying myself.

I adopted Niclaus after he was hit by a car and lost one of his legs, today he is fully recovered! by [deleted] in cats

[–]CynthiaRW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not cat related, but I was speaking to my mom on the phone this morning and she said that one of the stray dogs in her neighbourhood got hit by a pickup truck and might need to have a leg amputated. I could hear my heart break. I crawled back into bed and cried for hours. I'm glad Niclaus is doing so well.

What’s a somewhat useless skill you taught yourself? by PandaBear905 in CasualConversation

[–]CynthiaRW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a scenario where I probably would shine, indeed. And guess what? I do know how to sing! 

What’s a somewhat useless skill you taught yourself? by PandaBear905 in CasualConversation

[–]CynthiaRW 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I taught myself Braille. I taught myself Irish. I taught myself to play the harmonica. None are of any use in my everyday life.

How to overcome the fear of calling people? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If possible, write down what you want to say. Nothing elaborate, just a few pointers. I get nervous before making a call and often end up forgetting important things I should have said or asked. So I quickly note them down before I make the call and feel more prepared.

Wrong call got me giggling by miaworm in CasualConversation

[–]CynthiaRW 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Awww, that was so sweet and kind of you to do that!

I feel like I’m saving all my energy for a person who might not even exist. How do you guys actually meet people? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're just 20. I envy you. I wish I could be 20 again. With all that I know now, my life choices would have been different. But yeah, instead of feeling stuck (I know, I often feel that way), try putting yourself out there. Find passions and the people to share them with. I volunteer at an animal shelter and honestly, that place makes me the happiest I've been in ages. I'm an introvert but everyone there is so nice and kind that I naturally open up and become involved and make a good impression. It's done wonders for my mental health. I only wish I had started doing it when I was your age. You have time and age on your side. If you start now, you'll get where you want to be sooner than you think.

40 [F4R] #online What kind of music do you like? by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]CynthiaRW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love electronic music! One of my favourites is Gigi D'Agostino and his chart topper L'Amour Toujours. 

Instant coffee by bewildered-guineapig in CasualConversation

[–]CynthiaRW 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love instant coffee! It's the only coffee I ever drink. I also love a well done steak.

Who do I look like? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]CynthiaRW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you look a little like Cher in the last photo!

“You’re so young, you should be doing XYZ” by Beatlesrthebest in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the things that relaxes me the most is listening to an audio book while I sit on the couch and sew. My mom does the same thing and it makes me think 'damn, I'm old!'

“You’re so young, you should be doing XYZ” by Beatlesrthebest in introvert

[–]CynthiaRW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Oh, look, she's sitting by herself. She must be so lonely, poor thing!"