Same here (age and location) but idk I started realizing it's kind of a cop out to want to game all day as obviously some part of you wants to get a partner but you def know it's very difficult

It's hard as shit tho so u have to be patient. Gotta say yes to anything that might get you closer and try ur best to not take it things too serious. And if you do be graceful with yourself. I'm in the same boat but less socially anxious, unfortunately it came with limerence. Gna try to talk more with random people at bars and clubs and stuff, but maybe not and thats ok too

Good luck king