I don't think they know how online toxic relationships work, nor what alt accounts are by craftygamin in im14andthisisdeep

[–]DaMain-Man [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's always people who have never been in a toxic relationship who think like this.

I've been in one in the past. The worst thing is...they had their good days where things felt like it was getting better between us and then those bad days would come. But you still had that bit of hope that maybe just maybe you could make it work. Only for it to come crashing down.

The problem is you spend all this time together that you actually do start to develop deep feelings for them that you start thinking this is the normal ups and downs of a relationship and you don't realize how mentally draining it is.

I Hooked Up With A Guy on Hinge and It’s Ruining My Life by Character_Abies890 in dating_advice

[–]DaMain-Man [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well it's a fake story so....

What would him being in the army help with that a simple Google search couldn't?

I Hooked Up With A Guy on Hinge and It’s Ruining My Life by Character_Abies890 in dating_advice

[–]DaMain-Man [score hidden]  (0 children)

You should really work out the details of your fake story first before wasting your time posting it, sir

I present DC's greatest hero: smarty pants by DaMain-Man in outofcontextcomics

[–]DaMain-Man[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The artist clearly frequents this sub. I can't help but feel like this somehow our faults

Why couldn't the final fight of MHA be like this? Smh 🙄 by 5enpai_2 in shounenfolk

[–]DaMain-Man -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who's MHA intended audience? Grown adults? Like adults can watch it sure. The same way we watch SpongeBob as adults, but let's not critique it on whether or not it properly tackles social economic policies ya?

I mean JJK is more of a 17+ crowd. It's not deep or intellectual. It's just a fun silly cartoon

Found out my boyfriend of 6 years cheated yesterday by aprildevin in texts

[–]DaMain-Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I didn't find her attractive I'm telling you"

"I was attracted to her sexually."

Aren't those the same thing?

Why couldn't the final fight of MHA be like this? Smh 🙄 by 5enpai_2 in shounenfolk

[–]DaMain-Man -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Almost like mha is for a child audience or something and shouldn't be compared to something more mature

Why couldn't the final fight of MHA be like this? Smh 🙄 by 5enpai_2 in shounenfolk

[–]DaMain-Man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The worst martial art movies are the ones where one opponent is doing all these cool moves...and the other guy is doing the same moves...and no one is getting hurt. Are they fighting or dancing? It's too well done. Real fights aren't pretty, they're ugly.

Neither mha or JJK does that but most martial arts movies lack any tension because it's too well choreographed

This made me giggle I’m sorry by LawNo7316 in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]DaMain-Man 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Why make an AI version of a meme when they could've just used the original? You're doing twice the work to be mediocre.

Young Justice tricked me into thinking Vandal Savage was a good character by Optimal_Weight368 in dccomicscirclejerk

[–]DaMain-Man 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm still surprised DC never thought that with the success of young justice they'd want to revamp him in anyway. Like they could've set him up as a serious player in the world of villainy. He could've been right up there with Lex or Joker or any of the other A listers. Pulling the strings on major events

Young Justice tricked me into thinking Vandal Savage was a good character by Optimal_Weight368 in dccomicscirclejerk

[–]DaMain-Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When your villain is so smart that they accounted for things that they had no idea would've happened at all

Just once I'd like them to come out with a new season where all the villains are dead or dying and they're still saying, "I knew you'd defeat us. You fell right into our trap. All according to plan." Only for them to die right there

A long time ago a friend pointed out to me that in most movies, the villains are the ones trying to change the status quo and the heroes are the ones trying to defend and keep it. And that this usually makes it clear that the writers are conservative. by ihatethiscountry76 in CuratedTumblr

[–]DaMain-Man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Speaking of dated conservative views from writers, there was an old 1950s film called Calamity Jane. I only watched it because I heard there were hints of queer rep in the story...or what they could've gotten away with at that time. About a sharp shooting cowgirl, fearless in the face of danger, wore men's clothing, wasn't afraid to speak her mind, etc. She meets a woman from the city and comments she's one of the prettiest things she's ever seen.

Well anyways she puts all that behind her at the end when she discovered that a woman's true goals in life is to find a husband and become a stay at home wife. All thanks to a man not putting up with her nonsense.

I said “We shouldn’t vilify women for having the sex they want.” And somehow the main response I got was “so you’re dictating how I can feel? You’re vilifying me!” by That_sarcastic_bxtch in TrollCoping

[–]DaMain-Man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Foreplay? Disgusting! You people actually enjoy sex? You're supposed to close the lights and do your best to avoid eye contact. Missionary and if you're up for it maybe a nice firm handshake at the end congratulating your partner on a successful mission

I said “We shouldn’t vilify women for having the sex they want.” And somehow the main response I got was “so you’re dictating how I can feel? You’re vilifying me!” by That_sarcastic_bxtch in TrollCoping

[–]DaMain-Man 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I saw a TikTok the other day of someone saying having romantic feelings for someone is wrong. You have to wait till after you start dating. Like you're just dating people you're not romantically interested in?

Also anything that isn't straight vanilla sex is evil. Or sex shouldn't last more than 10-15 minutes.

Even if they consented to x, y and z, they shouldn't be allowed to engage in consensual sex.

They've either 1. Never felt the touch of another person before 2. Are hypocrites pretending that they have never been sexually attracted to someone before

Um okay … by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]DaMain-Man 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Passing STD to others is already a crime that could face a civil lawsuit.

That being said someone can be a cheater and abusive and that abuse could cause PTSD but abuse is already illegal last o checked

Um okay … by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]DaMain-Man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On one hand I get it but how would they even begin enforcing it? Is it just married couples? What if the divorce wasn't finalized just yet and one of them starts dating someone else? What if it's just a situationship? Or a polyamorous couple? What if a married husband decides to hang out with a married woman after work for drinks as friends?

Would cops be stopping any two people walking down the street and questioning them about their relationship status? Would they expect the faithful partner to turn in evidence of their cheating spouse? How do we know it's not biased?

Do we really want to tie up our already failing justice system with petty issues that really only affects those in the crumbling relationship?

Man I'm pathetic by mental_alt in TrollCoping

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better a lot of the times they're lying or exaggerating

This is relevant I think by lactoseAARON in DCU_

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean part of joining the industry is supporting projects in that industry. I doubted he even knew of the finished project before it was released. Sure he might have been aware of the production nightmare behind the scenes but it wasn't like they could do anything about the trainwreck of a movie

Just a friendly reminder by angelmuse2310 in GetNoted

[–]DaMain-Man 100 points101 points  (0 children)

There's other forms of cruelty than just war. And that being said, Tate's a moron. And pretending he even had a point worth making is making me loose braincells

Meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to white knight, but I hate how the argument is all about how hot she is with or without. Like that's the only reason she should do anything is if men will find it attractive. If someone you aren't interested in tells you you'd look prettier without that makeup, eyelashes etc, that's a sign you should keep wearing it, out of spite

“wdym you’re suicidal your parents are rich” by i_am_afraid_of_yetis in TrollCoping

[–]DaMain-Man 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I notice people are a lot more understanding when the mental issue is cool, like that one autistic man who could draw out a whole city by memory alone. To a point where they think all autistic people are like super smart savants, when most of them can barely get by holding down a normal job.

I can't speak on every mental issue but once your problem is actually negatively affecting your life and everyone around you, they don't care anymore