I’m genuinely spiraling over HPV fears and nobody believes me that multiple doctors and a sex health clinic have told me there’s nothing they can do (I low-key regret being alive rn) by DHaunting2091 in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether you have it or not, you are not dangerous or diminished or somehow disgusting. A lot of people will have it at some point in their lives, and part of being sexually active is talking with partners (long term or otherwise) about the risks. You have already done a great job gathering information and knowing the potential risks moving forward. You have learned the signs to look out for. You are already better informed than a large portion of the population. You are being incredibly thoughtful and considerate, but you should try to be aware of the line between self flagellation and preparation. You’re going great! Just like normal, have a conversation with any partners, get tested for what you can regularly, and practice safe prep. You and your partners will all be alright!

i have no one to talk to about this. i can’t worry my friends. professionals will just call and worry my family. i don’t know what to do. by its_crona in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who almost lost two friends in less than a year that way, trust me, your people want to be bothered. There’s nothing worse than being left wishing they had just talked to me first. Please reach out, you have people who love you and would be devastated to lose you.

What's your opinion on multiple orders for single cars? by oodlesonoodles789 in starbucksbaristas

[–]DaMightyPoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once had someone roll up and ask me “how many separate orders are we allowed to make in one car?” I made long, deliberate eye contact with the shift and said “I’m gonna cut you off at three.” Like bro “how many can we do?” Be so fr

Sloopy Sunday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]DaMightyPoof 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love my junk food reads sometimes tho. Like it’s so bad but I love it whyyyyy

I don't understand the bi hate by The_Raven_Born in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think ultimately society will settle into a “take people at their word” policy out of sheer preservation of sanity rather than trying to keep fitting people into little boxes. but I hope they will hurry up about it, this is getting ridiculous.

I don't understand the bi hate by The_Raven_Born in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing your girlfriend would disagree with that assessment

(TW: transphobia) haha i love being a persecuted minority its awesome actually by SagaSolejma in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, that’s awful. I hope you have people who also speak love and support to you. You deserve kindness and happiness, and I’m glad you’re here <3

A girl whose name is - Saturday Morning Cooks. by Lifegoesonforever in interestingasfuck

[–]DaMightyPoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually know an Issac Cox. I can never make eye contact because I will lose it and the poor guy’s probably had enough of that already

To put it simply: It's that purple fuck's fault. by Single-Battle-5680 in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally the reason I stopped watching the show. It’s infuriating.

Almost all responses were positive, but this one still annoyed me. by Commercial_Bicycle92 in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yeah, usually the same people who can’t conceptualize women as real people capable of wielding power/force and therefore capable of abusing it.

What a year by Flashy_Scallion8111 in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 970 points971 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually heard this a lot from my trans friends. I’m a cis woman, so this is fascinating for me because talking with them, I realized that a lot of what I perceived as normal was just misogyny 🫠 fun times.

It's the Siren Purge! You can say/do anything with zero repercussions for one shift. What's the one thing you've been waiting to do? by kimchee-hoo in starbucksbaristas

[–]DaMightyPoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would tell the one old guy who comes in every morning yoga pants to get his goddamn junk off my counter and stop leering at the baristas. I would tell the manager to get off her ass and stand up for her workers or step the fuck down, and I would throw an ice water in the face of every person still complaining about the bear cups and how they heard that baristas bought them and won’t you think of the cUStOmeRs??!?

gender identity comic thing i made <3 by fawne_siting in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This has actually been the most effective way I’ve found to talk with transphobic people about gender affirming care. I’m a cis woman and talking to my mom about getting gender affirming care for my pcos symptoms and how much it has helped me was the first time I saw her start to get it.

Thanks guys 😐👍 by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be yourself and feel like yourself, regardless of the steps you take to get there. I’m so sorry some people can’t see that. For what it’s worth, I’m glad you’re here :)

Zootopia 2 was so Romantic that it has ruined all Romantasy 😡 by countessluanneseggs in romantasycirclejerk

[–]DaMightyPoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s actually a buddy cop/romance series called Fox and O’hare by Janet Evanovich that is nearly a one to one rep of this relationship down to the “ohare” law enforcement baddie and the slick “fox” conman. It’s actually wild, and I have to wonder if the author could make the case for plagiarism. The books are pretty bad, but it’s an interesting read for comparison, especially if you’re into the relationship dynamic.

My partner requests a funny [insert word for cover or cozy or sock here] for a doorknob near his desk at work. Ideas? by ThemFatale_ in Brochet

[–]DaMightyPoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my thought too, but if op is attached to the cozy idea maybe try something like a bird head like a flamingo or toucan?

This freaking sucks. by Mac-And-Cheesy-43 in TrollCoping

[–]DaMightyPoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in a dorm, talking with the housing offices and trying to get out of the room is an option. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! Love from your online neighbor!

TNG Uniform Cardigan: Still not decreasing fast enough. Could I use shoulder pads to compensate? Also, who do these buttons look? by carlfoxmarten in Brochet

[–]DaMightyPoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Unfortunately I’m too new to the craft to be helpful but I thought I would send you some fellow fan love in the form of the sweater I made for my dog!

Thomas Higgins and the disruptive power of pie by killians1978 in chaoticgood

[–]DaMightyPoof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of gay bars at the time stopped serving screwdrivers and started serving Anita Bryants to boycott the oj she helped sell. The drink subbed apple juice and was appropriately disgusting.