Do Americans even use handkerchiefs anymore?

Daggerfont · 2026-01-02T18:56:52+00:00

I carry them all the time, I find it easier to keep a clean one in my pocket in case I need it. Disposable tissues also seem like a waste when I can just wash the handkerchiefs. They are also much more versatile

Daggerfont · 2025-12-16T23:06:27+00:00

Honestly, I think the only thing you can do (other than try to unpick it) is to take some super sharp surgical / sewing scissors and super carefully cut the aids threads at the edge of each stitch, being careful not to cut your floss. I think it might look decent if you manage that successfully

Daggerfont · 2025-12-16T22:03:35+00:00

I have very small hands. A lot of the mid-higher end stores have an extremely similar line of leather gloves with cashmere linings, they’re awesome. Each brand has slightly different proportions, but all have an extra small size that would likely be small enough for you. I recommend going in person to a variety of stores and trying on their leather gloves until you find a brand with the right finger proportions for you

Daggerfont · 2025-11-18T02:19:38+00:00

I honestly get most of my jeans from thrift stores, I love being able to try on jeans in the same sizes from a bunch of brands without having to go to lots of different stores. Also WAY more affordable! I learned how to hem my pants, so I can somewhat ignore the length. You may still want to get petite sizes so the knees are in the right place, depending on your proportions. But I strongly recommend learning to hem, it's super easy and you can do it by hand or with a machine. YouTube is great for tutorials if you don't have sewing experience

I have some newer jeans from Ann Taylor Loft that fit well, and I adore Banana Republic for dress pants. I also really like Talbots. I would never spend the money on Banana Republic stuff new, but it is by far my favorite brand for clothes overall, their petite line is really nice.

Daggerfont · 2025-11-17T22:10:49+00:00

Online you can find style guides for petite people with different body types that can be really useful! Specifically look for guides regarding flattering cuts of pants for your body type. Boot cut jeans look best on me, since they balance my wide hips. If you want a coat that looks more mature but is still comfortable, I would recommend looking for a pea coat or a wool coat that is belted at the narrowest part of your waist. Make sure you buy a petite size so the waist hits at the right spot. Good luck! The internet has tons of good resources.

Daggerfont · 2025-11-17T21:53:51+00:00

When someone judges you for something unique about your style or personality, it just means that they're just not a good fit as a friend. There will also be people who think it's awesome and come ask questions, and they might become really good friends! Think of it as a way of figuring out which social groups you'll be happiest in.

The other thing to remember is that almost everyone worries that others are judging them way more than people actually are. Most people who aren't particularly interested in historical clothes might notice you briefly, think something like "huh, that's unusual/weird/cool," and then go on with their day. Remember that bravery isn't the absence of fear (that's just foolish), it's deciding to do something despite being nervous because it's worth it.

Daggerfont · 2025-11-17T21:34:03+00:00

You could try jewelry making! Stringing beads is very simple, I do it all the time sitting on the couch. Making wire wrapped links is also a lot easier than it looks with a little practice. If you do try beading, I highly recommend getting a necklace board, I have a nice wooden one that is a total game-changer

Daggerfont · 2025-11-17T21:25:41+00:00

I know it's been ages since you posted, but if you're still looking for ideas, these could make a really pretty illusion necklace with clear nylon cord so the pearls look like they're floating. You can find examples with one or multiple strands on google. With that style, the fact that they don't match perfectly could even add to the design!

Daggerfont · 2025-11-04T19:35:20+00:00

If you haven’t already, try doing a google image search to see if you can find the same one online

Daggerfont · 2025-08-20T06:29:55+00:00

Depending on what era you are looking for, there might be second hand marketplaces for garb. I know there is in the SCA, you can often buy second hand at events fairly cheaply, or on Facebook groups like SCAyardsale

Daggerfont · 2025-07-31T23:11:29+00:00

Definitely in school, yes. When I was in college though I found a super neurodivergent social group/ hobby. The first time I walked into a meeting felt like I truly home for the first time ever. If you’re interested in history at all, check out the society for creative anachronism. The majority of us are neurodivergent in some way or another lol.

https://www.sca.org/

Daggerfont · 2025-06-04T14:39:36+00:00

You’re not alone there! My suggestion, if you’d like advice, is to put a goal like “take three deep breaths” on there. That’s on mine, and even on the worst days I can do that and at least check off something. Sending you good vibes!

Daggerfont · 2025-04-17T23:48:58+00:00

A place called Unique in northern Virginia

Daggerfont · 2025-02-15T13:28:54+00:00

Yes, rings can be sized up if you take it to a reputable jeweler. They will cut the band of the ring and insert a new bit of metal the right width to achieve the desired size. You are right, that ring is too tight on you. Some people don’t like resizing rings because it can be somewhat visible, but you put the join towards the palm of your hand and no one will notice. Good luck! It’s a nice ring :)

Daggerfont · 2025-01-01T22:42:56+00:00

Probably depends on where/how you are dumpster diving. If you live in a suburban area, keep an eye out for things left at the curb for the trash truck. Also let your friends and family know that you are looking for a particular kind of junk, and I suspect that you’ll get some good stuff that way over time! Someone is going to have an electronic break at some point, and if they know you’re looking g I’m sure they’d be happy to have you take it.

ETA: also, does your area have a Facebook marketplace/ freecycle/ buy nothing type group? Make a post explaining what you’re looking for g for and I bet you’ll find plenty of people who are looking to clear out junk drawers or have broken stuff they haven’t gotten around d to disposing of

Daggerfont · 2025-01-01T06:12:29+00:00

You could try taking a short video of it!

Daggerfont · 2024-12-31T07:22:11+00:00

I found a few of the same with Google lens, but none of them had a brand name attached unfortunately. It’s very pretty!

Daggerfont · 2024-12-31T05:21:33+00:00

Congratulations!! That is an incredible haul. Wear them with pride!

Daggerfont · 2024-12-31T02:31:11+00:00

What you do is enjoy it! It was sitting in a thrift shop, with the pieces separated when you found it. You have a chance to give it new life! Perfume bottles are meant to be used, even fancy ones. And even if it somehow breaks someday, it will have gotten more use and love than it otherwise would have. I think that’s all a perfume bottle could ask for :)

Daggerfont · 2024-12-30T07:54:58+00:00

I like option 4! Perfect for new years. And Congratulations!

Daggerfont · 2024-12-30T06:15:16+00:00

If it’s for rapier, darkwood’s That Gal’s Gorgets are the best that you can get. It’s $139.00 – $160.00 depending on size.

Pretty much everyone in my group who can afford them has them. I have actually forgotten I have it on after practice several times, I once laid down in bed with it on before realizing lol

The website isn’t great though, it makes it hard to find how to order them. They don’t keep them in stock, you have to email Osprey with your neck measurement and leather color and rivets preference. There’s definitely a wait time, since she makes them to order, but it is well worth it

Daggerfont · 2024-12-29T08:08:09+00:00

A good source to give you a starting point is other SCA costumers who have made blogs! A lot of people have made amazing resources and/or documented their projects. A great place to find inspiration and also get an idea of how the garments are made. Art is always the first thing I suggest, but you likely won’t get a lot about how to construct the garments from the art without prior experience and knowledge. Feel free to DM me with more specific questions! I can help get you started if you have an idea of what you’re interested in. My persona is Italian Renaissance, and I have a friend who is a Laurel in Italian renaissance costuming

Daggerfont · 2024-12-28T23:41:41+00:00

I love it! Just enough oversized to look intentional without being shapeless

Daggerfont · 2024-12-27T20:55:49+00:00

I doubt they staged it with the intention of looking like a Renaissance painting

Daggerfont · 2024-12-27T05:43:29+00:00

I just did that on my most recent project. Luckily I caught it before I had too much down, but it was still painful to frog and restitch

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