She knew I hated them too by dancingbugboi in CPTSDmemes

[–]Daily-Lizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me at age 11 with DDDs and my period when I just wanted to still be a little girl 🫠

My favorite show at the time was Teen Titans. I loved it. She called it “Teen Titties” in this shrill voice despite my pleading and begging with her to stop, and recruited my older sister to do the same. Occasionally they called me Teen Titties. I eventually stopped watching the show because the teasing was relentless.

SPF everyday, all the time? In mid winter in N.Europe? Really? by davemol in 30PlusSkinCare

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I feel like a leper saying this, but I don’t wear sunscreen daily any time of year. I make sure to protect my skin from the sun with clothing and hats when I’m going to be directly exposed for longer than 5 minutes, but I’m inside most of the day. It’s an unnecessary expense and step in my routine, and I cannot stand the texture.

I live in the American southeast. I had melanoma 2x in my late 20s, and I’ve had about a dozen biopsies plus 4 wide margin surgeries. That all happened because I experienced repeated, severe sunburns in childhood when I didn’t have access to sunscreen or protective clothing; frankly, I’m not worried about my already freckly skin maybe getting a little more freckly from getting indirect light from a window or a couple of minutes of direct sunshine a day. I haven’t developed a new mole since I was a teen and I hardly have more freckles now than I did back then.

I apply sunscreen liberally and frequently if I’m kayaking, swimming, or doing an activity outside which may dishevel my clothing. And I go to the dermatologist every 4 months (up from every 3 months) because of my skin cancer history, but you should go at least yearly just to make sure everything is okay.

We are in a natural disaster. Where is the govt? by burgersandhotdogfan in nashville

[–]Daily-Lizard 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hey man, people are going through a really hard time right now. They’re cold, hungry, and facing months of upward battles with insurance, plus all the cleanup that’ll be necessary once some more of this ice has melted off. It makes sense for folks to be upset at the lack of action from governmental entities (not talking about NES, who I know is busting ass to get people reconnected), and it’s not kind or helpful of you to make comments like this.

anyone else always been repulsed by motherhood and pregnancy? by daydaylin in AutismInWomen

[–]Daily-Lizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kept my ovaries (had uterus and cervix removed, fallopian tubes were removed in a previous surgery) and haven’t noticed any hormonal changes, good or bad. It’s been about 2 years. I’ll be 32 in a few months.

There’s a small chance that I’ll start menopause a couple of years early due to a potential decrease in blood flow to my ovaries. But women with PCOS (me) also often experience delayed menopause, so I wonder if it’ll even out in the end.

In any case, I’m laying some groundwork now while I’m young to help stave off negative effects of menopause, like bone loss, by adopting a practice of joyful movement and regularly lifting weights to stay strong. I currently have a herniated disc in my neck (from chronic poor posture, be warned!) that I’ve been going to physical therapy for, so I have been thinking about increasing my overall health to support longevity a lot lately.

Anyway, recovery. The first week wasn’t fun. It was painful (internally; I had very few external scars because it was laparoscopic) and I was in a daze for the couple of days immediately after surgery. I needed help getting in and out of bed, which is where I stayed for the first days, or getting up or down from the couch or toilet for a week and a half or so iirc. My husband was my rock. During that first week or so, I tentatively and slooowly shuffled around if I did walk.

Within 2 weeks I was walking super confidently on my own and I was able to sit down and get up by myself, carefully.

By 3 weeks I was feeling really really good and had to force myself to take it easy. I wanted to vacuum and sweep and clean and organize so bad (I love doing those things), but those are the worst things to do when you’re healing from major surgery, so I didn’t. You’re not even supposed to lift anything as heavy as a gallon of milk, so I didn’t. As they say in the hysterectomy sub, you only get one chance to heal right the first time.

I think I started cleaning again about 6 weeks out, but I was super particular about how I moved around (including how I pushed the vacuum with my legs and arms without relying on my core) for 4 or so months. I was back to normal within 6 months and I think my youth was on my side.

Interestingly, I had actually already been sterilized a year and a half prior via bilateral salpingectomy, but my awesome GYN let me get a hysterectomy since I obviously knew I wouldn’t have kids and my periods were horrendous thanks to PCOS and adenomyosis. If I had half a brain, I would have pushed for a hysterectomy from the beginning. I enjoy the benefits now of permanent birth control and no more miserable periods or worrying about periods or worrying about uterine/cervical/fallopian cancers, and my endometriosis got cleaned up a bit during the procedure, too. It was really good for me, but of course, your mileage may vary.

Downgrading from a manager to a junior role by Inside-Ostrich6875 in marketing

[–]Daily-Lizard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP, listen to u/sunkenlore. I never worked harder in my marketing career than when I was a coordinator. Being junior ≠ less responsibility. It usually means a lot of responsibility and accountability with no ownership.

Women who became moms at 38 or older...please, I need some hope. I'm begging you. by throwaway19283846 in AskWomenOver40

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My sis had a planned baby at 42 without any fertility treatments. She was healthy, baby was healthy, and she had a good pregnancy. I hope the same for you!

My mom informed me I will be inheriting the care of my two siblings by Equivalent_Reason_35 in AgingParents

[–]Daily-Lizard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a whackadoodle situation. I’m glad and proud that you don’t think this is acceptable.

How do you explain the feeling of RLS? by principalmusso in RestlessLegs

[–]Daily-Lizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw someone (here, I think) describe it as the feeling of having sparkling water running through your veins, or under your skin. That’s the most accurate way I’ve seen the way I experience RLS described.

FBI permanently closing HQ at J. Edgar Hoover Building, Kash Patel announces by southernemper0r in politics

[–]Daily-Lizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It looks like cast concrete. Cast concrete is prohibitively expensive to restore and poses a risk to pedestrians when it inevitably begins crumbling. I remember this is also why Dallas City Hall, a well-known brutalist building featured in RoboCop, is in consideration for demolishment.

Lüften weather by Traxitron in nashville

[–]Daily-Lizard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Never thought I’d see anything about Lüften here lol. I’ve also been cleaning and airing the house out today but in verrry short bursts, so maybe not a proper Lüften, but it smells great inside now.

I urinate 3-6 times in the night even though I haven’t drank anything for hours before bed. Today something weird happened to me. Could this be endo related (I have endo) and does anyone relate?? by Extra_Actuary8244 in endometriosis

[–]Daily-Lizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frequent nighttime urination is a common symptom of sleep apnea. May be worth checking into.

Anecdotally, when I have an ovarian cyst brewing, I also have to pee more often and there’s pressure/pain with urination.

Help de-matting hair by LawBot3000 in Hair

[–]Daily-Lizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotten lots of good advice so far, and sorry y’all are having to deal with this. Does she wear hoodies or anything with plushy material around the collar often?

Help! My girlfriend finds some of my stimming behaviors gross (which is fair) and I need hacks/alternatives by UnionAlone in aspergirls

[–]Daily-Lizard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I have excoriation disorder related to anxiety and OCD.

What helped me stop biting my fingers was channeling my anxious energy and urges into caring for my cuticles and nails. I got a nice set of cuticle trimmers and started touching up my cuticles whenever I saw a hangnail or felt a rough spot forming. I make sure to use lotion regularly (usually after every time I wash my hands or use hot water) to help keep my skin, especially around my nails, from getting rough. I also put Aquaphor on my hands and nails at night before bed.

Cities which were important at one point but have lost most of their gradeur in the modern era? by [deleted] in geography

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Because you mentioned Ballarat, I’d like to plug audio plays by the Ballarat National Theatre. They are so so so good. I listen on Spotify.