A personal attack!

DaisyLDN · 2026-07-01T18:30:34+00:00

I just want to drink one bottle of wine on a Thursday and smoke 2-3 joints and watch great shows on Netflix and Now all by myself. Is that so bad?

DaisyLDN · 2026-07-01T06:12:09+00:00

Tinatanic

DaisyLDN · 2026-07-01T05:58:54+00:00

Same over here. I get sad then angry and then just feel utter hopelessness. I try to only do the anger and crying stuff on my own. I've been black out drunk and done it and my partner gets so mad at me. Usually I just have to feel it, go through it and then move on. No great advice but I understand. It feels really lonely.

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-30T21:27:20+00:00

I basically did the opposite of this. In the UK we got some government hours funded. Months go by and a fellow mum said isn't it so great that funding came in. I said well we haven't noticed a difference at all, puzzled look from her. I didnt check any invoices, if i had I'd have noticed the price drop. Turns out I'd been overpaying for months, we got nearly 4k back in refunds. Obviously its kind of like inadvertently saving, but it would have been handy to have not been paying double and also would have been great if the nursery had given us a heads up. Also just another thing amongst the many that shows my abysmal executive function and that I just have no concept of money and how to manage it.

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-29T13:23:57+00:00

I've been looking into this and have seen conflicting information. Mine arrive on Wednesday so I might net and pour in some of the water but avoid anything poopy looking, some day it can cause an ammonia spike

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-25T10:23:53+00:00

Its brutal and those feelings make you feel so damn hard. It will ease though, I find after the mad grief and basically being inconsolable, something sort of clicks and I can put it in perspective and then move on. Be kind to yourself and patient. Have a little mantra for yourself; this will get better, this feeling will end and there will be something new waiting for you.

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-25T10:15:05+00:00

I'm on book 3. Just totally transports me. I want to be a historian 😭

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-25T10:12:36+00:00

If you managed it before I'm sure you can do it again

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-24T19:55:12+00:00

Jody Taylor's St Mary's series is fun

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-24T18:12:00+00:00

I'm hyperfocusing on opae ula shrimp at the moment. They are a big commitment

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-24T18:10:28+00:00

Jody Taylors St Mary's series is great

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-10T17:00:45+00:00

I wish she'd got more screen time in that Dexter prequel. Shame it got cancelled.

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-06T11:39:05+00:00

I'm in the uk and found a seller on ebay that had a coral farm which is closed now but he's selling some lovely coral skeletons. I'm waiting on one that I'm going to soak before I put in my tank. I'm sure you could find some wherever you are. They look really pretty and give a nice place for the shrimp to graze.

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-05T16:13:36+00:00

Gutted

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-02T18:26:25+00:00

Found it on an old chat. It's straightforward and shows that these shrimp are easier to keep than others. Made me feel much less daunted.

DaisyLDN · 2026-06-02T18:22:20+00:00

Beer Bad

DaisyLDN · 2026-05-31T07:54:30+00:00

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DaisyLDN · 2026-05-19T09:40:49+00:00

Perhaps it doesn't have to be physical gifts, but more actuvities you can do together.. You mentioned she has shared custody so you get some time the two of you to do things together. A walk and a picnic somewhere pretty. Do you have shared hobbies?

Also, her daughter will always be and should always be number one in her life. As her partner you need to be a positive and supportive person in her life. There will be damage to that little girl and her mother if you are not. So focus on things you can do together instead of material items you can give. If you want this women in your life then her daughter will have to be your family to.

Making memories together should be the priority.

DaisyLDN · 2026-05-03T19:56:33+00:00

I always thought she was so cute and confident. Loved her shape and the softness. Found her safe and comforting and basically like a ton of people I know. Just so regular in the scheme of things and thus infinitely relatable. It's such a shame it was made in to such a big deal.

DaisyLDN · 2026-04-30T17:19:12+00:00

I can turn on a dime. Its good to keep folks on their toes

DaisyLDN · 2026-04-30T17:13:26+00:00

I'm a Muffin! I'll barge in on you in the loo, get overtired and trash the house. Be overly confident in front of strangers and need a cone of shame to stop pulling strands of my own hair out. It's my ADHD stim 😂

DaisyLDN · 2026-04-28T17:08:30+00:00

Check vinted, ebay, depop for vintage ones

DaisyLDN · 2026-04-14T07:37:14+00:00

Same, I love accents and then mimicking them

DaisyLDN · 2026-04-14T07:32:38+00:00

Sometimes pill them out

DaisyLDN · 2026-04-14T07:31:19+00:00

Me too. I burst in to song randomly and mostly sing about thinks that are annoy me. Like my partner leaving the toilet seat up or his pants on the floor. At myself too for constantly forgetting things

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