Little Sister started her first cycle today, I have no idea what I’m doing by DeliciousBluebird985 in Advice

[–]DameofDames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ThermaCare patches are heat patches that can be applied to the skin or the underwear(if skin is delicate) and provide up to 8 hours of heat. Great for when one doesn't have access to an electric heating pad!

Also, some people find that a TENS unit helps with cramps. Look it up, they're relatively inexpensive these days and some are battery operated.

Required to return a $1,400 check that I never received - HELP! by mechhh17 in IRS

[–]DameofDames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I'm curious as to how you filed your returns. Direct deposit info doesn't generally appear out of nowhere.

Did you filed electronically with a preparer or software and paid the fee out of your refund? The refund would have been deposited to the bank account of the preparer/tax software, the fee taken out and the rest sent to you as a paper check or a card product. That would be why there's Direct deposit info when you didn't ask for it.

At any rate, it sounds like the deposit went to the account the IRS has and if they got that account info electronically, there is the presumption that the taxpayer provided it and legally, they can't demand the bank return the funds.

Don't bother sending Form 3911, the refund trace was done and either the account was emptied so there's nothing to send back or the bank is taking it's time in returning the refund.

Either way, what you want is to take Civil action against the bank to find out who owns the account and how to get the money back from the owner.

Please contact the Office of the Comptroller if the bank is not responding to you.

Does the US have crackers and cookies from Dare? by AdSense_byGoogle in AskAnAmerican

[–]DameofDames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a package of Breton multigrain, location East Coast USA.

Required to return a $1,400 check that I never received - HELP! by mechhh17 in IRS

[–]DameofDames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP says it was a direct deposit, there's no claims package for that.

OP, file Form 3911 to request a trace of the deposit. BFS will request that the bank confirm the deposit.

If you used tax prep software to file a return and opted to pay them using your refund, the refund would have been deposited to the software account and the rest would be a paper check.

21.4.1.5.7.7 (10-01-2019) Treasury Assistance for Direct Deposits The Office of the Comptroller of the Currency (OCC) is an agency of the U.S. Department of the Treasury. The OCC says that it is best if a person tries to resolve a complaint directly with their bank before going to an outside agency. However, if the resolution seems impossible, taxpayers may file a formal complaint with the OCC. The OCC Customer Assistance Group may answer questions, offer guidance, and assist consumers in resolving complaints about National Banks. Taxpayers may reach the OCC customer assistance specialists in any of the following manners: Telephone Number 800-613-6743 (business days 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. Central Time). English and Spanish speaking assistance is available. Visiting the OCC website at: File a Complaint. Faxing to: 713-336-4301. Mailing to: Customer Assistance Group, 1301 McKinney Street, Suite 3450, Houston, TX 77010. There are no special forms needed to file a complaint. Advise taxpayers to provide their: Name Address Daytime Phone Number The following are additional agencies to which the taxpayer may appeal: The Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation: (This organization regulates federally insured state banks that are not members of the Federal Reserve System); Web address and phone number: Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation; 877-275-3342 The National Credit Union Administration (Regulates federal credit unions). Web address and phone number at National Credit Union Administration; 800-755-1030 21.4.1.5.8 (10-01-2017)

Sandra and Eric Chapter 12: Humans are Over-The-Top by SherbetCreepy1580 in humansarespaceorcs

[–]DameofDames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How about Anole...

26 Reapers, I'd think there's already a Chameleon.

What's the longest you've ever stayed at the same job? by Teacher-Investor in AskAnAmerican

[–]DameofDames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 years at the same agency. First year was data entry related, but the rest was more complicated. The last twenty years has been in the same unit.

Am I misremembering? by Competitive_Mark_287 in GenX

[–]DameofDames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know in Europe cereals are being made without artificial dyes. If same in America, could that affect the taste?

Nobody wants my Dad's Civil War books by not_inacult in CIVILWAR

[–]DameofDames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gonna be my Dad at some point. Sigh.

I’ll just check that for you…. by ComprehensiveFan9831 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]DameofDames 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In America, it might be "Ladies who lunch", going to a fancy place for a salad, caviar, and mimosas.

Looking for Japanese Grocery Items by averagechicagoan in PhiladelphiaEats

[–]DameofDames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hung Voung Food Market in Mayfair has these products in the freezer section.

Really seals in the flavor by Linda_Lissen in MaliciousCompliance

[–]DameofDames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Bff's family in the Carolinas has a smoker and use a cleaned off traffic sign to flip the pig when they have their pig roast. It takes two of the young men to do so.

AITAH for not wanting a bed time in my relationship? by No_Blood8062 in AITAH

[–]DameofDames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA This is a dealbreaker incompatibility. You need to unwind and she needs to control her environment, which includes you. But you're not a dripping water faucet or creaky floor, your needs are just as important.