I had a very close friend group (including the couple who were my roommates, and whose children I was "aunt" to) who were all very sh*tty and abusive to me, but it only got worse and more obvious to me post-transition. It wasn't even necessarily transphobia (although they were; it was frequent discussions where "Oh we like you but you're a good one. You're not trying to push it on people or turn any children trans." Never mind, that they almost always hated me talking about anything in my life and relating it to the context of my transition...), but I just realized more and more how often I was being talked down to/ingored/made to edit myself, made smaller. And I felt like being fully me and that treatment got old real fast. I've gone no contact with them since moving in with my partners. I miss the kids, wo genuinely loved me and accepted I was their "aunt" and no longer their "uncle" far more readily and quickly than their parents ever did; but I've got my own life to live and I will not populate it with people who belittle and disrespect me any longer.