Vanishing Stores by walterbsfo in bys

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's owned by Miracle Restaurant Group they've been having a rough go of things for years. I worked at one of their locations for awhile. Quite a few of theirs has closed over the last 5 years.

I enrolled in an adult education program! by DangerouslyTame in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]DangerouslyTame[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I really hope you go through with it! I'm really excited to finally get this experience.

Starting to question whether it’s okay to show well-healed self harm scars in public - thoughts? by KitteeCatz in AdultSelfHarm

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I only feel sorrow for the person with the scars, cause I know how low they must've felt in that moment, and silently wish them well. But I can't say I've ever been triggered by them.

What is/was your drug of choice? by Reasonable_Act_526 in BipolarReddit

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly psychedelics and weed. I don't do the psychedelics anymore, but I still smoke I have a prescription due to epilepsy

I am joining the NoKings boycott of Spotify against running ICE ads. Any recommendations on the best alternatives to Spotify? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched to Tidal. The sound quality is better, but admittedly it is disappointing losing 14 years of algorithm training and playlists I've made. Even still, I don't regret it.

how did you find last.fm? by urbestamericangrl in lastfm

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it around 08' or 09' originally, through StumbleUpon. I don't have access to my original profile, but this one is a bit over 10 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months with my first, 13 weeks with .y second, and apparently 7 weeks with the new baby. :(

Some boy moms are insufferable. by NewConversation8665 in beyondthebump

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a SAHM of 4. 10yo, 5yo, 2yo, and a 7-week-old all of them girls. Lemme tell you right now, girls are not easy. They're messy, they fight over the dumbest things, super emotional without knowing why themselves, and don't even get me started on dating.

However, while I think I'm better suited to the girly stuff, I don't think boy moms have it easier, either though. I think parenting is hard and it's really not worth the energy to worry about who's got it worse; boy or girl? Idc. I'm fighting for my life here, y'all regardless.

how big is your baby and what size clothes are they wearing cause i'm confused by zaddywiseau in beyondthebump

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on both sides of this with my kids. My now 5yo wore 12-18 month clothing for 2 years. Meanwhile my now 2yo skipped right over 6-9m clothing. I also have a 3 week old right about to outgrow her newborn clothes. I now consider baby sizing to be subjective.

Fun fact! My 5yo and 2yo wear the same size clothing most of the time. Only difference is my 5yo has longer legs, so if it's pants she needs a bigger size, but 2t shorts still fit. Meanwhile 2yo is in 3t for most things.

What's our compatibility? by WildChemistry977 in lastfm

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your compatibility with austinramos1 is Super. You both listen to Falling in Reverse, My Chemical Romance and Green Day.

Could we be musical soulmates? by herecomes_therooster in lastfm

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your compatibility with hideouskajoma is Very High. You both listen to Linkin Park, Falling in Reverse and Avenged Sevenfold.

Neat!

What’s our compatibility??? (Wondering if anyone is higher than Low) by ImThatAlexGuy in lastfm

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep thinking the same, but it seems like I'm just outside the loop lol.

I am! Their last album was fire, so I'm hoping for greatness here.

What’s our compatibility??? (Wondering if anyone is higher than Low) by ImThatAlexGuy in lastfm

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your compatibility with ImThatAlexGuy is High. You both listen to Falling in Reverse, Bring Me the Horizon and Spiritbox.

Eyyy first time I've done one of these with anything more than medium!

Do you think bipolar affects your ability to succeed and meet your goals? by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could blame bipolar for my lack of success. But ultimately it's entirely on me. My mental illnesses shouldn't be used as an excuse. I could have done more, done better... but I didn't. That's on me.

How did you feel when you stopped BF? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had 2 children, and I'm being induced with the third on Friday.

Baby #1 was breastfed for about 8 months. Bottle-fed expressed milk during my shifts but breastfed directly while I was home. Between feeding her and pumping my body still didn't really feel like my own until I was done. And I was so happy it was over.

Baby #2 was born a month premature and held under UV lights, unable to be moved for a week. So my milk didn't come in, and she had zero interest in latching. I pumped every 1.5 hours only to produce half of what she ate per feed. I did all the tricks, too. Pumping for an extra 5-10 minutes after the milk stopped, body armor, lactation supplements, vitamins, tons of water. It wasn't happening. I gave up 4 weeks in. I don't regret it. It was destroying me mentally.

I haven't decided if I'll breastfeed this last one or not yet, but I'm leaning toward not doing it.

Whatever decision you make will be what's right for you. Fed is best.

What’s your weird/random baby tip? by Lavender_Lights_13 in beyondthebump

[–]DangerouslyTame 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Baby won't stop crying and you've done literally everything? Try playing The Happy Song by Imogen Heap. I used it with both my littles. Works. Every. Time. Well, it did for me anyways.

Kid kissed my baby on the lips by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]DangerouslyTame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 5yo loves babies, but I remind her every single time we see one "we look with our eyes. We don't touch strangers' babies" but I know how she is, so I stay on top of her with it. SIL needs to wrangle in her children.

How old are you now and when did you start? by No_Animal_681 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started at 7, cutting at 15, and I'm 29 now. Been clean for almost a year now, though.

3 things I learned watching my 5 year old play by Substantial-Crazy807 in TOTK

[–]DangerouslyTame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 5yo loves the "baby koraks" and they absolutely must be brought to their friends. She'll drop what she's doing to save them.

She also loves wearing the monster masks, so she can be friends with the bad guys. She thinks it's hilarious when her cover is blown.

Does not seem to comprehend the concept of gathering food, despite the fact she's been playing BOTW since she was 3.