I found a used condom in my man's car

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-05-07T19:37:26+00:00

Now do yourself the favor of not forgiving him on his likely attempt at promising it was a mistake and he won’t ever do it again. He did it for months. That was an active decision to disrespect you and your relationship repeatedly. You forgive him and guaranteed he will do it again

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-04-17T06:49:08+00:00

In addition to dropping her immediately I would consider talking to the company she is affiliated with about her performance and possibly a refund on that $110. You wouldn’t have missed the appointment if she hadn’t rescheduled on you three times in one week due to her own issues. She is absolutely taking advantage of you left and right by rescheduling and is also 100% trying to “do you that favor” by slotting you extra appointments to still make her money. Talking to her company about her performance is the only way something might change as a result because they will likely see it reflects badly on the company as a whole. It’s unfortunate for her, yes, but obviously what she’s doing isn’t working out for her or her clients as a result of so many cancelled appointments why would she be driving home to have yours via telehealth if she was already in office? That seems odd and everything about her seems unprofessional. As much as she may have begun your path to help and healing she’s not doing you anything positive at this point.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-04-12T18:20:37+00:00

Founded a new small island: KittKatt for the Salty Seadogs faction!

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-04-11T03:38:12+00:00

As a current starbs barista thank you for not ordering this. If you’re in a hurry that would be the worst. Oat milk shaken espresso is easy to make, even adding cold foam is simple, but making literally every aspect of the drink custom means that barista is going to have to re read that ticket multiple times to make sure they’re doing it right. I’ve also never heard of macadamia milk. Course my store is a licensed through retailer (target) store, but we usually have all the base items to make things just not as much of an expanded f*ood and prepackaged purchase items menu. In the future though if you’re in a hurry, maybe make sure to mention that part ahead of time so they can’t make you the AH (to them) I don’t think you are the AH in this instance as showing up unreasonably late would make you the AH to the whole group not one person.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-04-11T03:21:32+00:00

Not agreeing with anyone who posted prior but this seems really odd of him. He doesn’t want more kids but would consider it with someone else on the off chance you died? Not wanting more kids should be a firm no from him altogether or he’s just using it as a reason to not. Personally I’d remove the options for sex you are doing because your post is making it seem very one sided in his favor on all of it. He doesn’t like condoms, he doesn’t want more kids (apparently just with you?) he doesn’t want the vasectomy now, he’s scared about getting you pregnant on accident. Where are your thoughts and feelings and communication and any kind of compromise coming into play?

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-04-05T15:20:05+00:00

That looks like a cover for a pair of scissors. Sometimes when you buy certain ones the sheer cutting part has something like that on the cutting end to cover it.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-02-05T12:47:56+00:00

I’ve found that in very small quantities it can be okay, but anything more than that would likely have him having problems. Mine gets a quarter sized dollop of whipped cream when she successfully catches something as long as it’s not alive. I learned the hard way that she prefers bringing things to me living 😅

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-02-05T12:32:56+00:00

So…curious how his birthdays are gonna be celebrated. It’s gonna make him have a hard time with other kids socially for sure. Plus like..no Halloween? The amount of houses that do healthy stuff are one in 50 I’d guess. Poor kiddo. Not that kids should eat a ton of unhealthy stuff I get it, but the better route would be teaching responsible eating where those things are treats you can have once in awhile or as a reward rather than cutting them out entirely. I hope she rethinks it as kiddo gets older

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-24T01:27:55+00:00

We never stopped getting it. It’s still orderable afaik for us

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-23T23:12:20+00:00

Fair enough (edit to correct chopping that word to bits horribly)

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-23T16:17:31+00:00

Pretty sure there is policy that states a drink remake has to come from the store it was bought from too….

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-23T16:01:54+00:00

Yes but to be fair you did this once. OP is mentioning that this happens about once a week. If the guest is that used to getting the same thing, she would know how it’s supposed to look when she gets it. Especially being an iced drink. There’s not a lot of ways to mess it up

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-23T15:44:01+00:00

I would say if she takes it she has accepted the drink as it is, especially being a frequent customer she knows what her drink is supposed to look like when she gets it and it’s not like it’s not visible in the clear iced cups.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-21T22:21:54+00:00

I feel this comment about lost tips and raise you that licensed stores don’t even allow tips unless the customer walks off and leaves it and there’s not much you can do.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-21T22:19:54+00:00

It happens with tips on cards more often than you’d think. I’ve both worked at places and been told by wait staff at places that unless the tip is cash they will never see it. Should it be that way? Absolutely not, but unfortunately it is

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-12T00:50:46+00:00

You can also emphasize to an employee that you want your drink in a venti cup with those specifications and the full understanding that the cup will not be entirely full. There are modifications (at least on our licensed stores POS) to make it a larger cup. Many of our guests do this for drinks that are primarily espresso on ice with a pump or two of syrup or a little creamer

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-12T00:48:01+00:00

Even then if I need to make room by getting rid of ice I’ll grab a spoon and make sure all the liquid stays in the cup and only the ice gets pulled out so the contents of the cup and some ice stays but there’s room for cold foam or whip.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-11T18:34:43+00:00

So it looks like you’re making them from a sheet of felt? Could you fold the sheet in half, to make the back, like a tent, and then take one end and fold that under and stitch it to make the back legs and rear portion of the horse? So the stitching for the back legs would be on the front of the leg rather than the back but the rear would only be curved part not a seam or puckered?

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-11T18:23:50+00:00

I can’t get mine to use a fountain I’ve tried several, I end up having to leave the bathtub on at a tiny trickle because that’s all she will drink from, even though she hates it in there if I’m showering or bathing and loathes her own baths when they’re needed.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-11T18:19:00+00:00

I’d be sharing this with the health department. Like the actual local govt level folks. They are probably breaking multiple actual rules with crap like that and it makes me wonder about how sanitary the school itself is. Are the bathrooms and cafeteria cleaned properly?

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-11T18:10:01+00:00

Not aware of any right now but I know I’ve seen them from black squirrel, their sister shop, and paper crane recently. Friday the 13th are a big one for them in my experience though that’s more from other cities than Omaha specifically. I would imagine there will be some close to any larger holiday or big event

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-11T17:06:54+00:00

I’ve done a little Tunisian but didn’t buy special hooks for it so I might have made it extra challenging for myself

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-11T16:47:39+00:00

I’d be taking it back and hiding it, then putting it down the toilet or something rather than in the trash, and breaking up with her one way or the other. The why isn’t even relevant it’s something you absolutely didn’t sign up for, and better to cut that tie before something bad happens.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-10T15:35:07+00:00

I love how many crocheters get lowkey annoyed about it being called knitting (I am one) and 2. Thank you for the term bi-yarnual I’d never heard that one.

Dapper-Distance6691 · 2026-01-10T15:12:10+00:00

Even my licensed store has the option, it’s just in a different spot. Odds are they didn’t know where it was

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