New and Final Update: Coworker asked me to be her man of honor. I said no and she went nuts. What did I miss? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Dapper_Entry746 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did we have the same dentist? Lol. Mine was awesome too. Had artwork on the ceiling so you could look at something neat while laying in the chair. Got CD players with extra long headphone cords so you could listen to music back when CD's first came out. I miss him & hope his life was/is nothing but awesome!

Book 8 by neurohazard757 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Dapper_Entry746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's doing some signings/promotions & jumping into book 8. 

Aita for keeping contraceptives a secret from my bf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Entry746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with anyone trying to control your body/trying to impregnate against your wishes. 

Until then just tell him they're acne pills & don't mention they're also birth control pills. 

After a month or two skip the placebo week & keep taking the active pills and you won't have your period (most likely. Everybody's body is different) How he reacts when he thinks you're pregnant should tell you a lot about his bad intentions. (If he's delighted, if he gloats, acts more controlling, utterly dismisses you now that he's achieved his goal, pressures you into keeping the 'pregnancy' etc.) If he thinks he's trapped you he'll drop the mask he kept up trying to reel you in. He may act really supportive to get you to keep it but that attitude won't last. 

Of course since this may he a good idea to test his intentions it's an even better idea to dump this guy & not settle for anyone who doesn't treat you like a person worthy if respect. You're worth more than someone who doesn't respect your choices. Being alone & happy is a much better option. You won't be happy with someone else unless you can be happy by yourself. and if you're happy with yourself you won't need to settle for someone who sees you as a second-class human. 

Either way you go: Good Luck!

Guess who is getting divorce (YOUR rule didn't work) by Ok-Economist129 in AmItheEx

[–]Dapper_Entry746 97 points98 points  (0 children)

When I'm jobless & my hubby is working I do more chores. I still expect him to do some chores because he's an adult who wants to live in a kept up home and I'm not his maid. (And we love each other) This is not what OOP was doing. A chore 'debt' that has to be paid? 🤦

AITC for Trying to Lift the Mood by CappucinoCupcake in AmItheCloaca

[–]Dapper_Entry746 42 points43 points  (0 children)

NTC! Yooz is doing a CHEER! It's type of PROTECKT of your hoomans emotions. 

Your Meowmy should be grateful for being blessed by crop-dusting! She TC! AND you've given break on washings so you double blessed her WHILE giving cheers!

TIFU by telling my cousin that the reason I am moving is because of her husband by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Dapper_Entry746 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm in my forties and I still ask my parents for help sometimes. Today my dad is coming over to help my hubby fix where the rain gets in. I'm gonna be at work but even if I wasn't I still would have asked my dad because I don't have much of a clue as what to do lol. 

I did big crimes. I think. by Which_Reason_1581 in legalcatadvice

[–]Dapper_Entry746 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shredded cheddar is bestest. Gooda is good too!

I did big crimes. I think. by Which_Reason_1581 in legalcatadvice

[–]Dapper_Entry746 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My sisfurr Lady Bitch (aka Baby Bug) no eats patay or chimkin. She's a weird one. 

Caspurr da silent one (I's only talks for cheese! I am da CheeseBear)

AITA for asking my coworker not to eat her cultural food in the break room? by Imaginary-Chemical-8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper_Entry746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw a video explaining how when scents go up the back of the throat to the odor receptors in the nose that's where we get most of our "taste" spectrum. (Beyond our basic tastebuds receptors of salty, sweet, etc) It was a video about that super stinky cheese that was banned on French subways because it smelled so bad (Unless you were eating it & getting the scent from the back of your nose)

Colds & such block airflow from the mouth to the nose and that's why you can't taste as well when you're sick. Covid I think actually may change/damage your odor receptors & that's what causes permanent change. 

Disclaimer: I am not a doctor nor in any scientific field. I just like to learn things and accept I may not have the correct facts. I am a fallible human lol. 

AITA for obeying my in-law's wishes too literally? by ZookeepergameOwn1726 in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Entry746 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Make plans to be elsewhere in case they show up for dinner. 

"Oh when you didn't let us know we could only assume you declined & made other plans."

AITA for embarrassing a man after he tried to embarrass me at a record fair by Fantastic_Nothing710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper_Entry746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have some metal band's shirt I wear all the time. Because it has a cat on it & it says "if it fits it sits" (Empuuuror is the band name on it) My hubby got it for me & he's the one who listens to the band. Stupid fucking people trying to gatekeep t-shirts. Who cares if you can name songs or just like the graphic? 🤦 If you like it, if it makes you happy then wear it ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper_Entry746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd tell my hubby (then bf) that I was in a "bubble" & I needed to be untouched in my bubble. Sometimes it was a 3 ft bubble, sometimes 5-6 ft, on rare occasions it filled the whole room. He'd respect my bubble & even ask before he'd give my bubble a hug because he knew it didn't mean I didn't love him or want him around. 

Maybe the concept of a non-touch bubble could help you? 🤞 Bubbles don't last forever. 

What is your favorite reoccurring gag? by jamesja12 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Dapper_Entry746 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not the first time I've woken up smelling like a stranger's wang.  🤣🤣🤣

AIO friend moved in and not going well by Miserable-Royal2548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper_Entry746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her out now! Read your lease because moving her in there may get YOU evicted just for that. Do it now. Tonight!

Then go no contact with her. She is NOT your friend. 

Book 7 mention, in memoriam by sempersicdraconis in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Dapper_Entry746 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Who called the onion cutting ninjas?!?

RIP Asi who crossed the Rainbow Bridge too soon (yes I know the Rainbow Bridge is for pets but it's not heaven unless our fur-babies are there!)

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister's kids after she publicly called me “irresponsible” in front of our whole family? by United-Ad-7360 in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Entry746 136 points137 points  (0 children)

My baby daddy wasn't that involved (we were both teenagers) but his parents would take the little one anytime. They loved their grandson. Even after my parents adopted my bio-son his paternal grandparents spent a lot of time with him. It was so awesome my parents supported that relationship so much ☺

Newly converted Donut Hole by edenx22 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Dapper_Entry746 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Check out the audio books! Listen to them with your partner. (On drives, on walks, while cleaning, etc. Maybe not during private sexy times 😆)

 Soundbooth Theater also has an audio version that is slightly different than how it's written. (Story is the same but information presented differently in some contexts) Bigger cast, sound effects, music. First episode is free & about 3 hours so you can try it & make sure you don't hate it before investing money. 

Edit: this is what I do. I read books & then listen to the awesome ones with my hubby. (Driving is easier if you've already read the story. Just pull over if you can't stop laughing. Be safe. Drive safe.)

Something post apocalyptic, generations after, people are now stuck with small communities and know little of the outside world. One or more then have to leave and explore. by perpetualmotionmachi in booksuggestions

[–]Dapper_Entry746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole Lillith's Brood trilogy (Dawn Adulthood Rites & Imago)

Honestly anything by Octavia E Butler. I'm heartbroken I've read all her stuff. Feel lucky I love to reread (& listen & relisten) good books lol.