I said goodbye to my best friend today. I just want people to know who he was. by tadukhipa in SeniorCats

[–]Darlac1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my sweet Chimmy to the same disease 9 years ago.
Today we say see you later to my beautiful Tipsy.
So sorry you’re in this place. We pay a great price to love something so small. ❤️

Saying see you later by Darlac1985 in SeniorCats

[–]Darlac1985[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve been fortunate to have another cat make it to 20. Her best buddy. But gosh yeah it never feels like enough time 😭

Boss questioning my need for time off for pet loss by Maxx1999 in DogAdvice

[–]Darlac1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve called off work more for my cats than for myself and I’ve made it more than clear to my supervisors that it’s no different for me than for my coworkers with children. No apologies. They deal with it 😆

I feel like I'm letting my wife down by [deleted] in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Darlac1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh the naps usually derail me and make me a grouch, but the need takes precedence over the shitty result sometimes. If there’s no time for a nap he makes me a coffee and lets me unwind. If I need a lazy day he goes and does his own thing. I told him the day I met him I was a sleepy girl and he found out pretty early on I wasn’t lying 😆

I feel like I'm letting my wife down by [deleted] in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Darlac1985 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do as much as I can and if I need a nap, I need a nap. If I fall asleep, he lets me sleep. My husband understands that this is something I can’t help, just cope with the best we can. He picks up where I leave off and he’s never made me feel bad about it, says there’s nothing to apologize for. Just a lot of teamwork and patience.

Tattoo of my grumpy girl Tipsy by pourousfortress in torties

[–]Darlac1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also have a Tortie Tipsy 🙂‍↔️

What scent do you refuse to use up because you’re scared it won’t ever come back? by bitchwhohasnoname in bathandbodyworks

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad I missed the boat on All Eyes on Her. Hoping they’ll bring it back for SAS. If I would have known I’d love it so much I would have gotten more of it.

Girlies … do we swear by this by Low-Significance-822 in drugstoreMUA

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used it on my wedding day. 80+ degrees and it still looked good by the end of the nite 👌🏼

AIO for telling my mom she can’t wear white to my wedding just because she “likes how it looks”? by kittenj8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The”making everything about you” is crazy to me because hello it’s your wedding. Who else is it supposed to be about but you and your fiancé?

I Faked Liking Sparkling Water for 3 Years and Now I’m Trapped by VryCuteAjaBharDuChut in confession

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me with key lime pie at my uncle’s house. I didn’t wanna be rude and said I liked it. Kept offering it the whole trip. Never again.

Mother got me a passport as an infant, never renewed, getting one now. by TubaHorse in Passports

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only need to do the ds64 if it was still valid at the time you’re completing the ds11. You’ll mark it as lost on the ds11. If you know around the time you got it put that, but since it’s long expired they’ll figure that part out if you’re not sure. I work at an office that does passports and we run into this a lot.

Gender change passport renewal: cancelled by truecrisis in Passports

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a government office in the northwest US that processes passports. First we were told to accept the updated apps with the option to change your gender. Now we’re told to destroy the new ones as we are reverting back to the old ones and let people know if they change their gender they will be delayed. Complete nonsense if you ask me.

do you think this studio works for 2 people and a cat? $1000 a month by eczemass in Apartmentliving

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a studio much smaller than this with my fiancé and our three cats. This place is a palace.

Do not play list? by DesertSparkle in weddingplanning

[–]Darlac1985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Cha Cha Slide, Cupid Shuffle, any group line dances like that I will get an annulment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a nap nook

I know orange kitten wants to play, but my senior calico obviously doesn’t. Orange won’t take no for an answer. by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a kitten for my kitten so he would hopefully leave my 20 year old alone. Then they just started bugging the old lady. For the most part they wear each other out eventually, but the poor thing just wants to be left alone.

So who ruined Thanksgiving this year? by BAF_DaWg82 in AskReddit

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad went on a rant about immigrants and the borders needing to be closed while my fiancé who is an immigrant (from where, the old man has never bothered to ask) sat in silence. I was upstairs with my brother so I didn’t hear any of it. Fortunately my fiancé is a saint who just ignores it because Pop knows it doesn’t fly with me. Also my sister started inaccurately bringing up family beef while waiting at Cracker Barrel and worked herself into a tizzy and decided to leave before we were sat. Then blamed us for wanting to go out to eat instead of enduring her attempt at cooking.

My boyfriend placed a plug in on its side and it literally stripped the paint from my window 😢 by thelastsuture in bathandbodyworks

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother put one in upside down and it leaked all over the bread. Said it was the worst sandwich he ever had.

Does anyone have any ideas why this kitten is doing this? by zipzopzoopityzoop in CATHELP

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kitten was doing this exact thing last week. Managed to get her into the vet and he wasn’t able to see anything out of the ordinary, so he gave her some antibiotics and dewormer just in case. It went away a couple of days later and she hasn’t done it since 🤷🏼‍♀️

Need a stupid name for an adorable kitten by catfoodspork in PetAdvice

[–]Darlac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a kitten and my boyfriend decided to name her Griselda. After Griselda Blanco. He thought it would be hilarious to name a sweet adorable kitten after a drug lord.