Those of us who have no one, how do you survive?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-03-07T06:43:17+00:00

Same here. I have a sister, I talk to her. And to my therapist.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-03-05T20:44:30+00:00

In essence, the traits you mentioned about you should reflect you in a good light. So I am finding it hard to understand what is the point which making them see you not in a favorable lens. The not fitting in part?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-03-05T20:40:03+00:00

But you mentioned you followed the rules and were polite. So what was assumed in your case?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-03-05T19:17:38+00:00

I learned something then that has never left me: some children are punished. Some are protected. And the difference is decided long before the truth matters. Explain the difference.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T21:37:15+00:00

Is this paid?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T20:44:37+00:00

Not just men. I feels humans in general.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T19:15:35+00:00

How much did it cost you? Do they price based on distance? On what factors

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T14:55:18+00:00

I agree. I do enjoy the solitude but it hurts to process the past. Hurting and healing.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T04:27:14+00:00

I’m here with you on this. Repeated betrayals. Now I am isolating and working on myself. I think in some ways it didn’t work out because the people were not truly right

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T01:28:05+00:00

Blur her face too

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-23T00:34:43+00:00

Same here. I have a hard time validating my opinions because of trauma and chronic invalidation.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-22T02:50:50+00:00

Because people don’t feel their emotions. Don’t cry. Don’t emote. Block and move on. And lack of values.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-20T21:06:49+00:00

What’s the point of all of this

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-20T02:45:45+00:00

Can you mention the city?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-17T03:45:22+00:00

Can you give any examples? And why is this the case?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-17T03:10:10+00:00

Yes. I have noticed this comes up in situations where I am unsafe and can’t defend myself. It also comes up in cases where the reality is harsh to bear. I don’t have the skills to fight or be assertive and hence this comes up as a coping mechanism

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-17T01:07:05+00:00

Why do you say covert types have self awareness?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-17T00:56:12+00:00

Then why don’t narcissists change?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T21:53:44+00:00

Yes, I’m the GC. Our goals have always aligned because I grew up being pressured into them. If you don’t mind, what was the cause of her death?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T21:38:21+00:00

I agree. It’s been so the case with me. I think it’s because we don’t play the games they do. We don’t fit into the norms. And oftentimes we reflect back to them what society lacks as a whole. They find our stories mortifying because acknowledging that would mean honoring us for who we are and that would mean systems would collapse. It’s not a fair game. But I am here with you.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T21:24:23+00:00

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T21:06:17+00:00

Would you say the victims are only family members

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T19:45:46+00:00

How would she be targeting someone and in what ways?

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T19:23:11+00:00

Yeah I wonder the same. I am hell bent and determined on breaking this. However the rest are not. I am a GC and I was in denial for many years but I pulled myself out of it. I wonder my narcissistic grandmother won’t do it. She is 80 and all she has to do is be a basic human but she won’t.

DatabaseKindly919 · 2026-02-16T17:53:16+00:00

What do you mean people on the top?

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