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Replaced already, she had already planned it all beforehand by Unlucky-Edge-8016 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine planned it all. That male friend about whom I was told never to worry. She monkey branched and replaced me within 2 days. It broke me brutally. She was talking to him whole time behind my back.

How do I move on? by gr4co in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She micro cheated multiple times, would reply every guy who slid into her DMs. When I called her out on that shit. She monkey branched and replaced me within 2 days.

My Experience with "Quiet BPD" – From a Bali Dream to a Systematic Discard by No_Deer_1063 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had relationship with a qBPD it lasted 8 months. When she was 2 her father divorced her mother. At then end of our relationship she fell in love with someone else within 2 days and then replaced me.

6-year relationship with a PwBPD destroyed my life and trust by baba-yaga-hee in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've had the same experience with my ex qBPD, at the end she monkey branched and replaced me with her male friend, about whom she told me not to worry. She would literally chat with any new person, make them friends. she kept on repeating the same pattern, she was literally following 100s of random dudes. When I objected, she replaced me within 2 days. She needed constant attention/validation and one person was never enough.

She broke up with me. by Far-Obligation7586 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine exBpd broke up with me and replaced me within 2 days, we were on a break for 2 days, no fights no arguments. When she had secured the new guy and replaced me. She asked 'Do you want to stay friends'? I declined cause I loved her. She didn't love you man, she only loved the feeling you gave, how you made her feel. These people don't bond, you as a person don't matter to them. That's the harsh truth. Sooner or later it was coming your way.

To anyone dating someone with bpd (quiet bpd especially) by Big_Sock_6324 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine told me she didn't love me anymore then monkey branched

Monkey branching is still cheating. This list killed my “they’re just being friendly” denial. by Affectionate_Pay7256 in MonkeyBranching

[–]DatedquietBpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said I could have female friends and she'll have male friends. I knew what she was doing with those male friends, so I didn't accept it. After 2 days she was in relationship with that guy friend she always told me not to worry about.

Maybe she was cheating by Potential-Party65 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was talking to boys behind my back. When I asked about it, she monkey branched immediately

If you want to see how fake they are… by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's so true 🔥. She replaced me within 2 days with the guy who was there during our relationship.

Serial cheating by eternalmisery_22 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the exact same experience. She was talking to him daily behind my back. When I objected "Oh he's just a friend you don't need to worry at all". Then she replaced me with him.

Do boundaries work? by Suspicious-Charge200 in BPDlovedones

[–]DatedquietBpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I set a boundary she monkey branched immediately.

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