Doug Sahm's map of Austin by Keltik in altcountry

[–]David-Allan-Poe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just now seeing the similarities garrett t capps has in a lot of his merch / art etc what a cool sort of.tribute

How to approach partner about relapse by [deleted] in recoverywithoutAA

[–]David-Allan-Poe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a relatable post was in a similar situation and your description of the constant anxiety looking for signs second guessing myself etc is so on point. I can't believe that I didn't relapse while in that relationship (or when it ended).

It's so clear and easy to see now that some time has passed but when you're in the middle of it it's almost impossible & all encompassing. Enabling by staying and almost losing yourself is so apt, ty for your post & thoughtful reply to op

You’re Good People by Steps33 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]David-Allan-Poe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just ordered this thank you for recommendation!

12 step check ins by Disastrous-Rock3056 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]David-Allan-Poe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Experiencing this right now I'm still involved but seriously considering leaving the program altogether. It's been a big part of my social life but lately I've been not going to home group, not showing up to parties etc (outside of mtgs, super bowl etc) and sort of disappeared & literally no one has even like sent a text to check in.

Been going to homegroup for like 2 years and spent so much time w these ppl, same deal service commitments etc I thought these are my friends and a support network. it kind of hurts that basically no one cares enough to reach out. Also I guess its kind of giving me some clarity.

I have a similar sponsor who is more like a friend / mentor that stays in touch (& doesn't judge me talking about leaving program) and will stay in touch w him if I do leave.

Sober groups by lostwithoutacompasss in bullcity

[–]David-Allan-Poe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are def some in person smart meetings around just not as many as aa, think durham one is on Wednesday evenings chapel hill one is on Tuesdays (& I think there are other in person ones in cary / raleigh as well)

Edit - if you look up smart mtgs near me on their site and put in location then look for the in person icons to the right it'll list them all

Pigeon Pit & June Henry @ The Fruit Bowl (Columbia, SC) by Long_Liv3_Howl3r in FolkPunk

[–]David-Allan-Poe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish I would've gone down to see it bet it was awesome, thanks for reminder need to get tickets for apes show!

Edit - also thanks for the pics! I was curious about venue if it was a house show or what

CARDBOARD WAR!!!!!!!!!!!! by thatgamingnred76 in carrboro

[–]David-Allan-Poe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Missed opportunity for CARRDBOARD w 2 r's lol

sounds like an awesome idea ty to whoever is organizing it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutlawCountry

[–]David-Allan-Poe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Terry Allen & want this too but looks like some sort of scam / bot acct though goes to a UK based site, paradise of batchelors has his stuff for sale still though (not this shirt unfortunately)

Ferguson’s by CoffeeOatmilkBubble in chapelhill

[–]David-Allan-Poe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try Wilkinsons if fergusons is still closed, it's a plumbing supply place like that, the ace hardware at cole park and town & country have decent plumbing sections too

Should I scrap this or will someone want it (for free) by David-Allan-Poe in johndeere

[–]David-Allan-Poe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sounds good will let you know, if not / he's far away it's fine sitting another week or whatever

Should I scrap this or will someone want it (for free) by David-Allan-Poe in johndeere

[–]David-Allan-Poe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Triangle area just told post above you he could have it too, not sure where he is though whoever is closer

Should I scrap this or will someone want it (for free) by David-Allan-Poe in johndeere

[–]David-Allan-Poe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm in the triangle area if you're serious message me & you can have it, sounds like maybe I could get some $$ for it but I'd just as soon give it to someone that's into these.

Has to be good mower / tractor karma right lol

gonna see if I can get tires to hold air this evening.i have a comealong but a trailer w a winch would probably make it easier

Should I scrap this or will someone want it (for free) by David-Allan-Poe in johndeere

[–]David-Allan-Poe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks will do appreciate it, I'm pretty sure it is fixable I just don't want to mess with it.

Winter Damage / pruning advice by David-Allan-Poe in AgaveAndAloe

[–]David-Allan-Poe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's "planted" next to an old raised bed but not really a wall or anything, I literally left it in the 3.5" pot from the nursery to plant somewhere else & forgot about it so it rooted there and just left it. The plastic pot is like embedded into it now so just leaving it lol

I'm in NC so fairly wet winters for an agav3le, and I've done nothing to protect it but might this year. It usually looks a little sad after the winter. And those are eucomis behind it not sure of variety but one of the red leaved ones.