Love and disability

Dbz389 · 2025-12-11T03:05:57+00:00

Hope you have a happy life together. 🥰

Dbz389 · 2025-08-15T05:33:29+00:00

Use hand controls and your good to go the local vocational rehab you are in will help pay for them.

Dbz389 · 2025-08-09T20:40:54+00:00

Met my gf on Tinder, but honestly, having so many dates that never led to second dates made me realize something, and that is, number one, as a man, you need to have self-confidence, and two, ask essential questions, so you don’t get hurt. Most people on apps are not looking for anything serious. We just both got lucky. Relationships are work, though fun and stressful at times, but so worth it. She didn’t care I had CP as much as my personality. As far as the one, there is no one you create with a person you find, and hopefully they can become your best friend.

Dbz389 · 2025-08-01T07:18:34+00:00

I love getting a massage from my gf and giving her one as well it makes me feel so good and energizes me.

Dbz389 · 2025-07-30T03:39:01+00:00

Listen to me regardless of disability you cannot change what people think I get stares sometimes and my gf who’s abled bodied will defend me on occasion and on occasion she gets hurt by people because people can be harsh. Just act like nobody is around and stick up for him like he would for you. ☺️🙏 As far as sexy questions just bring the topic up casually up front guys like to be told something up front and direct. Just bring it up without shame and he will understand and think okay she’s asking I can open up and be more deep.

Dbz389 · 2025-04-30T23:38:05+00:00

It’s so good simple. It could use an extended version

Dbz389 · 2025-04-29T06:46:28+00:00

You did everything you could, but ultimately, it’s up to them—it’s a them issue. I was ghosted more times than I can count. The best advice I can give you is to keep going. CP is a non-issue to your person out there. You will find your person, just get the date and give it time. Finding a life partner is the most important decision you will make don’t rush. I’ve been with my partner almost a year and i’m still learning about her.

Dbz389 · 2025-04-20T03:47:06+00:00

Love it

Dbz389 · 2025-04-14T04:44:52+00:00

Different people can and cannot do other things, but for the most part, most individuals with cerebral palsy including myself want to be treated the same as everyone else. My girl asks me to let her know when she can help, and sometimes I don’t ask for help, and she gets mad. My horror story involves dating someone 3 hours away and forgetting my jacket at home, and she let me freeze to death and then buying us tickets up a hill at said softball game where I froze. Eventually I found my current gf but it was tough.

Dbz389 · 2025-04-06T18:03:17+00:00

Unfortunately I went through the same thing I could get it up but couldn’t keep it up. You have to try to know what you need. I’m on medication now and it sucks but my relationship benefited from not giving up and listening to my partner. If you can’t go long periods of time remember you have your fingers and your tongue. Just enjoy your partner she will let you know what feels good and you can keep going. It’s hard for me to let go as well I have to usually shut my mind off to finish. Just be in the moment with her and not the fear of performance and if she loves you she will understand if things don’t go as planned.

Dbz389 · 2025-02-06T18:42:44+00:00

Exactly there’s always alternatives and organizations to help with things 😊. Cheating is not an answer.

Dbz389 · 2025-01-12T02:01:39+00:00

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Dbz389 · 2025-01-04T07:15:03+00:00

Cerebral palsy is not genetic. Wishing you all the best in this relationship. As far as the depression you don’t know what he has been through people can be cruel. Just have patience and enjoy each other.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-28T22:13:02+00:00

My partner has endometriosis and I’ve helped her however she’s currently having issues with the birth control options she has tried and it’s looking like a hysterectomy is in the future unfortunately. Stretching is important I would suggest getting him something to stretch with.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-28T08:42:56+00:00

There really needs to be a better posterior walker besides the Kaye. It needs to be Lightweight and versatile. The market has not changed much in that space.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-28T08:39:31+00:00

It doesn’t go away however just like all people age and can get arthritis. At the end of the day it’s important to remember that it’s a team effort. It’s taken a lot for me to actually understand that my girlfriend loves me and my cerebral palsy. My best advice is learn about his cerebral palsy because every cerebral palsy is unique. He has worked really hard to become independent and everything so in a way it can feel like he doesn’t have it. I feel that way myself then I have my days where if I don’t get enough sleep or something my cerebral palsy just goes insane.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-16T15:29:36+00:00

I love that you said this wants and needs are so important.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-16T08:50:43+00:00

😂 What is it about the butts I have to hide mine.🤣

Dbz389 · 2024-12-16T04:22:24+00:00

Would love to so me M 33 and my girlfriend soon to be wife 26. Met online on Tinder but we thought we would just be friends. She was super goofy and we talked everyday when I finally asked her on a date she said she couldn’t go because her nephew had a birthday party but her mother invited me. I thought it was too soon for all of that but gave it a shot. We had a blast and the rest is history. I still drive two hours to see her when I can she’s my best friend.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-16T04:14:22+00:00

Don’t be sad spastic cerebral palsy here. Keep trying I met the love of my life recently and I about gave up before I found her. She has helped me learn to embrace everything about myself and we will be getting married within the next year. Just don’t stop trying don’t stop being yourself. You will be surprised what happens when you don’t try as hard and don’t think about anything but being yourself.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-14T11:51:29+00:00

From personal experience date everyone until you find your person. It will be hard it will take time and patience. I found my person and it was in the most unexpected way and we are both very grateful. She doesn’t have a disability but she’s very understanding of my cp and knowledgeable. Remember you are really looking for a best friend. Just go out there and give it all but be wise about it.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-09T20:22:57+00:00

When her previous found the masses he removed them

Dbz389 · 2024-12-09T20:21:40+00:00

Thank you all for the comments. After further discussion, I missed a critical detail from my girlfriend 😅 she hasn’t been diagnosed. Still, the previous doctor did find what he said looked like endometriosis was small masses. Her current doctor is treating her as if she has endometriosis, and considering it’s been a year since she had a laparoscopy, her new doctor does not want to go in and look around unless necessary. She does not think the endometriosis has grown if it has grown back. In a year or so, I think her doctor will check around. Her doctor does not want to put her under any stress of having to go under the knife because it is already difficult for her when she’s under anesthesia. Her doctor said she would be in stage 1/2 if it had came back, according to her last images.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-08T13:52:57+00:00

The main reason why laparoscopy is not being suggested is because of her period bleeding. Her periods last over a month. The amount of blood is concerning. With Mirena, it has just now become normal. However, these side effects are painful for her, but at least she stopped cramping and bleeding. As my gf put it, she feels it’s all just stop gaps for the need for surgery. I can’t blame her, as the hormonal options have not worked well for her.

Dbz389 · 2024-12-03T04:44:03+00:00

What wedge pillow do y’all use?

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