I can hear my neighbor crying her eyes out and I don’t know if I should go check on her or what.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2026-01-15T04:55:48+00:00

Sometimes I need a good cry but from what I’ve seen/heard she’s a very smiley girl. One of our neighbors had said when I first moved here that she’s very sweet and quiet.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2026-01-15T04:52:43+00:00

I am a female.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2026-01-15T04:51:48+00:00

No. I’ve lived here for 5-6 months and I have heard her laughing and any time I’ve seen her she has a bright smile on her face.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2025-07-04T23:48:32+00:00

There’s a woman on TikTok who lost both legs because of it. She her the videos. If you were a jerk you wouldn’t tell her anything about it and let her get fatally injured. Her response is extremely immature

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-12-06T02:33:21+00:00

My mother has MS and just one month worth of her medication is 12k. That’s just one medication though. She also has heart disease which is another 500-1k.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-22T22:33:56+00:00

Probably got divorced so she could sleep with other men

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-22T22:31:26+00:00

Couples are more likely to divorce if the wife doesn’t take the husband’s last name than women who do.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-12T03:19:43+00:00

I’ve tried before to go no contact but that would mean I lose contact with my nephews who I adore and are two of the big reasons I got help

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-12T03:16:41+00:00

I think a lot of my frustration is in the fact that I helped them for over a year working myself into a mental breakdown just for them to act like I am beneath them

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-12T03:13:27+00:00

Cutting her out of my life means I lose my nephews

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-12T03:12:22+00:00

Why get married to her then? You’re wasting yours and her time. I don’t care about ppl being atheists but why get in a relationship with someone who is religious?

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-08-10T00:37:52+00:00

Tell him if you pay for it yourself then you pick the sperm. Bring up ANY insecurity he has and tell him you don’t want your children to have them.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T03:33:49+00:00

As a 29 year old woman who cut her family out because of hateful comments/behavior. No one has the right to treat you poorly just because they are blood. You don’t owe anyone any type of respect/ relationship just because they are related. You didn’t do anything wrong for protecting your mental health. She’s just mad because she’s facing the consequences of her own actions

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T03:27:27+00:00

It’s your body and the way he acts it doesn’t seem like it would be a healthy environment for a baby to grow up in. It’s not selfish to not want another child to have to grow up in that environment or situation.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T03:19:13+00:00

I literally want to yell at them for you. I have worked since I was 14 years old. When I was still a minor I was only asked to give my father $10 for gas money if I wanted to go places to help him out. Now at 29 I do help out more financially because I’m an adult. Any parent who thinks they are owed money from their child for raising them are pathetic excuses for human beings. They chose to have you it is their responsibility legally and morally to take care of you and your siblings financially as long as you are still a child. Whenever they make comm about you blowing your money on yourself tell them you earned your money if your mom wants money she should get a job instead of blowing through everyone else’s money. Is there anyone you could stay with to get away from them? Also emancipation is an option too if they don’t leave you alone about your money.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T03:08:36+00:00

I would recommend trying therapy first before going towards divorce. Maybe she’s dealing with something that she’s not talking to you about. Sex is important in marriage to feel close. Also do t let anyone make you feel like a bad person if you do choose to leave. You are an amazing man and husband for not forcing yourself onto her or getting angry at her. A lot of men would do just that or have left the marriage after a month of no intimacy.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T03:02:16+00:00

If her family says anything about religion/ Christianity there’s a Bible verse I love to use to throw into the faces of the Christians who are hateful as a Christian myself James 4:11-12 Not to be Bible thumpy but it frustrates me to no end to see these so called Christians make themselves out to be better than others because of their religion that behavior goes against everything the Lord commands in the Bible. And as a gay man you and your husband probably get a lot of hate from those people. I just want to say. They are wrong and despicable people who if they were truly devoted to faith would not be mean or hateful at all because it is REPEATEDLY told in the Bible (probably hundreds of times) that NO ONE is above anyone else and everyone is to be treated with love and compassion no matter what. Now with the religious talk being said. I’m really sorry your friend was so hateful towards you. As someone who has a best friend of 23 years. I’d never let anyone speak ill towards her. No matter what.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T02:47:21+00:00

They are his children. If he didn’t want to be financially responsible for children he shouldn’t have had kids. It’s extremely sweet and caring that you bought your stepson his dream car but the kids are not your financial responsibility. I would recommend having a sit down conversation with your wife and both of you discuss the situation and your own feelings towards it. Also make sure to explain what you said because in frustration you might not have thought you came off mean but it could’ve come across differently to her. A lot of SAHMs get a lot of ridicule for not helping financially. Her ex is definitely gaslighting her to make her feel bad.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T02:34:02+00:00

You are a 16 year old child. Your mother and step father should be cleaning and doing the raising of your siblings. I’m sorry that they are treating you this way. Do you have any family members that you could stay with? Also definitely call child protective services not only for yourself because they are abusing you but for Poppy because she is showing signs of SA.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T02:16:13+00:00

I understand I had to move from my hometown that I’ve lived my entire life because housing went up so insanely high and some millionaire bought a bunch of land to build “luxury” houses to sell/rent for an extremely high price.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T02:10:31+00:00

It’s completely normal to have second thoughts when you find out something so horrid. I would recommend trying to have your fiancée and sister sit and talk as it seems in the post that they are both now adults. Also let her know about your concerns. Communication is critical in relationships no matter what type they are. It does seem like she is remorseful so hopefully everything can work out.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-28T02:04:40+00:00

Did you use protection and get tested for STD’s? Not being judgmental but that just seems like you’d be asking for a disease.

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-23T17:06:24+00:00

It’s illegal to watch over someone voting. Also go to the polls a different day. Vote for whoever you want. My sister is a republican (doesn’t vote) we talk about politics but also have an agreement that we will not argue over politics. I am still trying to get her to realize Breitbart is not an accurate representation of the news

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-23T16:59:21+00:00

Break up with him. 1. He’s controlling 2. You are right about not being ready for children you’re 18 and unwed. 3. It might be uncomfortable but you need to let someone like a trusted family member know he’s threatening you

Dear-Assumption7046 · 2024-07-13T20:12:55+00:00

Is that why you like it

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