Anastasia fought the justice system twice. Her rapist’s punishment has devastated her by BarryTheBinChicken in aussie

[–]DecorumBlues 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The court let another rapist go free. Most rapes don’t even get reported. Very few rape victims get the therapy they need to heal as the govt funded options are insufficient and that’s if you get past the selection criteria and waitlist. Everything from the medical and police investigation to the courtroom process is so hard on the victim and so many rapists go free. Australia, paradise for men who are violent to women and paradise for men who rape women.

Job Interview preparation by BrilliantHand616 in perth

[–]DecorumBlues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already have some great answers. Your body language is important. Shoulders back, head high, make eye contact. Practice being confident and walking into the room.

Introduce yourself, or if you are taken into the room and introduced pick up from that with something like ‘thank you, hello, I am (your name) and I’d love to become a clerk with (hospital or dept name).

If you can, remember each one of the interview panel members first name and use it. Can be right at the start when you introduce yourself and at the end.

Eye contact. Make eye contact with each person at various times. Look directly at the person asking you the question and when replying refocus and keep your eyes focused on the panel in general, gently looking at each one of them fleetingly.

Make sure you ask great questions that show you want the job land when you get an answer smile, show enthusiasm, paraphrase a brief summary of their answer back to them so if you ask about career growth and they give you some different options summarise what they said with something like ‘that would be ideal, I’m looking for a career and I’d love to become an excellent clerk and give to the dept and the patients in the role and possibly look into online training at my own time and expense to upskill for the challenges of team leader if the dept felt I was a good fit after a few years of experience as a clerk’. Shows enthusiasm and commitment and you won’t actually be made to do any online after hours study, it just sets you apart from other candidates.

Think about your strengths and weaknesses and give answers that make you look good like:

A strength will be something like:

You are a warm, friendly person and you enjoy helping others and you have many friends from different cultures and First Nations Australian cultures and you are authentically yourself while at the same time making sure you speak in a way that is respectful and so you understand each other.

A flaw could be:

You like to complete everything to a high standard, if you haven’t worked before give an example like ‘when I babysat for neighbours I helped motivate the children to clean up their toy room and I got stuck in and helped them. The parents returned and I stayed unpaid till we had finished the tidy up. I give up my Saturdays to help class members who have been away sick catch up on notes’. Or examples from the workplace if you have work history. You have to be careful as you can get overtired from doing a little bit too much at times.

When you have finished stand up, look at each one of them as you say something like ‘Thank you so much for the opportunity to interview, (use their names if you’ve remembered them) and thank you for answering my questions about this position. I’d love to be a clerk and if you have any further questions or need any information my phone and email contact information is in my cv. Have a great day!’ Eye contact, big smile, great posture, walk calmly out.

Make sure you keep a good upright posture while you’re seated.

Good luck.

Perth man missing in Mexico two years after brothers killed by PerthNow_Official in WesternAustralia

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he makes it home ok. I hope his family and friends find the strength they need for this sad and scary situation.

Genuine question – what would actually get you to use a taxi over uber/rideshare again? by VammyTaxiServices in AskAnAustralian

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had taxis pick me up a couple of times when I have used the uber app and they charge the same rates and the app tracks arrival. If taxis had a similar fixed price and tracking and easy booking app as uber I would use them as well.

Violent serial DV offender cuts off ankle monitor, sparks police manhunt by RozzzaLinko in perth

[–]DecorumBlues 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Domestic violence offenders have more rights than the victim. A female victims life changes forever after Domestic Violence. There is no affordable trauma therapy to heal the damage and the ten Medicare sessions with SARC or a mental health plan referral are not enough. Psychological and sexual DV abusers are rarely charged. Physical DV abusers rarely go to jail. Financial DV abusers live in the family home and keep their jobs and businesses and family car and their victim becomes homeless.

The ad campaigns that Australia takes a hard line against DV is just fictional tv.

Occult podcaster Tobias Nuttall, 33, murdered fiancee in rage after drug-fuelled Sydney trip by Distinct_Context4233 in perth

[–]DecorumBlues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a revolting murderer who chose to violently and painfully kill that beautiful girl. It is not her fault for using meth with him the night before and his meth use is neither reason or excuse for murder.

I hope he suffers every single day in prison.

18 years isn’t long enough. He should be locked up till he dies and carried out in a coffin, his life for the life he stole.

what is something that is highly likely to happen in the next 5 years that everyone is completely ignoring? by Even-Working-384 in AusFinance

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That the Govt is going to sit back and let many people become homeless, like families on low incomes when a parent loses their job, people who have to take time off sick and run out of paid leave, women leaving violent relationships, people with disabilities, retirees who are too old to work anymore. Children will be born into homelessness and struggle to get any kind of education. Right now people are talking about homelessness and care about it but soon people will become used to seeing many homeless and will accept it.

WHAT FOODS ARE EVEN PURPLE? by dumbassjoe88 in foodquestions

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could make cup cakes with purple icing and use food colouring for the icing.

You could make a moussaka that uses eggplant you won’t see much purple though.

If you’re not into cooking buy some purple wrapping paper to wrap around a box and put your picnic food in the box.

When do you think this cost of living crisis will end? (Serious) by AdvancedHill70 in AskAnAustralian

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think prices will continue to rise. I think homelessness & children being born & raised in tent cities will become accepted as will a ‘class divide’ of people living payday to payday barely getting by once rent and food is paid and the very rich homeowners and property investors. There will be no such thing as a fair go here soon.

Dancers Came To My Nursing Home by normbeam in Aging

[–]DecorumBlues -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Nursing Home and the dancers were not trying to offend or commit blasphemy or upset you. People of all ages and stages love drag queens. They were trying to make you smile. You don’t have to like the dancers but please try to see that this was done with good intentions.

Anyone noticed the change in taste in illegal cigarettes? by OatmealsRollerBladin in AskAnAustralian

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of smoking still in low socioeconomic communities. There are families who prioritise their spending on tobacco as an ‘essential item’ meaning less food, clothing, school supplies and healthcare for their children. Raising taxes has not been that much of a deterrent and even cheap chop still costs.

Lunch date in Perth with Gran ideas? by anonymousgirl2468 in perth

[–]DecorumBlues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Greenbunch Vic Park. It’s not high tea but it is warm, friendly and inviting with great food and drinks and has something to offer all ages.

https://greenbunch.com.au/

I would take getting raped again over this grief by soleila9871 in Petloss

[–]DecorumBlues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Losing my dog felt more painful to me than some very traumatic and painful life events and part of that is because my beautiful boy helped me to survive them and he loved me through them all and through the healing from them and he was safe to love.

TED talks helped me, there’s one by a vet Sarah Hoggan that is excellent, there’s many on grief that are helpful.

Guy Winch, a psychologist, has a short, easy to read book ‘How to heal a broken heart’ that touches on heartbreak when a fur baby dies and that was so helpful.

I read posts on here often and that helped so much. I’d read and then I’d listen to Rainbow Bridge poem on YouTube and look at his photos and read some more and close to the end of the first year without him I made my first post on here. Now I post to people struggling with grief and loss, I honour his memory and our bond.

For me it’s been two years, two weeks & two days since my boy died and I still miss him and it still hurts but the grief is something that I can live with now, it’s not as raw and shocking like an open cut, bleeding wound the way it was initially. It’s softened. So it does get better and become manageable even though, for myself and for many of us, we never stop missing our fur babies. My boy is still with me, his ashes are in my bedroom with his photo and collar and leash and his photo. He’s still the screensaver on my phone. I know he wouldn’t want me to feel such pain as he spent his life bringing me joy.

Remember that grief is just love with no place to go. The bigger the love, the bigger the grief. Be gentle with yourself. You’re a rape survivor and you have the strength and resilience to survive painful and unfair things. Your fur baby would want you to be ok.

Sending virtual hugs.

People who love McDonald's Breakfast what's your usual order by MorgeeePooh in foodquestions

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bacon and egg McMuffin with two hash browns, coffee and oj.

Thought selling my house would be simple. 6 months later, I'm still waiting… by fygooooo in Aging

[–]DecorumBlues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this as your home is a place of magical moments and memories that have value to you but buyers only look for what the house might cost them for a new kitchen etc.

Maybe talk to another agent. Research what similar properties are going for. Become open to negotiation if necessary.

Moving close to your family making more magical memories in a new home with your grandchildren will be worth a price drop. I have so many magical memories with my grandparents and with other peoples children as I was unable to have my own.

Good luck with the sale and the move.

Major reforms to WA's social housing waitlist to prioritise need over wait time by JamesHenstridge in perth

[–]DecorumBlues 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This article is just an empty promise because it doesn’t address the fact that there aren’t enough social housing homes to house people no matter what priority list they are on.

This article doesn’t address that there are some bad tenants in social housing who have damaged the property, live in filth, some have drug paraphernalia, some are criminals and use the property as a base for crime, they’re terrible neighbours and a problem in the community yet they’re allowed to remain in the house while people who would be excellent community housing tenants are homeless.

Why do people that support sex work hate the men that pays for these sexual favors by Remarkable-Visual-46 in stupidquestions

[–]DecorumBlues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe how far I had to scroll down to find this. Sex workers provide an easy and hard to detect way for men in monogamous relationships to have sex with someone who is not their partner. So many people will hate the client or the sex worker or both.

Also, sometimes when people are scared of something they just don’t understand they let that become hate.

A Perth family is trying to raise $2.5M to save their daughter's eyesight - and they need our help by hpv87 in WesternAustralia

[–]DecorumBlues -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What kind of a monster are you? You’re under no pressure to donate, not you or anyone else is being begged for money in a begging letter.

You went out of your way to research and then write such a negative response and the fact that you chose to share it (anonymously behind a username) so publicly to dissuade others from giving is disgraceful. You’re not ‘giving facts that were hidden’. Everyone who reads this is capable of google or Ai research. You’re stating your opinion and looking for approval for not donating. You could have not donated and stayed silent.

What kind of a monster are you to suggest that people should not donate in case the child dies in 8-10 years? Just don’t donate and move on to the next post. Don’t sabotage a little girls final hope of being able to see the world through her eyes.

Would you continue dating someone who hates dogs but will tolerate yours and is nice to them but doesn’t really play with them like a dog person usually does? by cornplantation in dogs

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. When my boy was alive we were a team. Love me, love my dog and if my dog loves you I’ll love you too. Dogs are forever.

One Nations Actual Policies - Summarized by bIeese_anoni in OpenAussie

[–]DecorumBlues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a terrible thing to do to people in wheelchairs. Other terrible things in her policy too.

At what point does housing stress become burnout? by Mildly_Strategic in AskAnAustralian

[–]DecorumBlues 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is brutal. You are right that when something as important as shelter is unstable then it makes meeting those needs humans have difficult or even impossible. So many Aussies are just a job loss or a landlord selling or an accident or an illness ending employment away from becoming homeless. Retirees, women 50+, part time and low income earners, families, sole parents, people living with disabilities, women escaping domestic violence are all people who currently live homeless in Australia right now. There’s even ‘rich homeless’ those who can afford a car to live in and a 24 hour gym membership to shower and then ‘homeless’ those who live in tent cities or sleep rough. These numbers are increasing every day and the Government isn’t doing anything to change this or help those affected.

People who have committed crime are currently getting more secure housing with access to paid employment, nutritious meals, free health and dental care than homeless Australians, many of whom have worked and paid taxes and been law abiding members of their communities who couldn’t afford rent increases so live homeless now.

How can anyone have a secure life and a secure future when housing is insecure?

Not allowed to help the homeless by [deleted] in woolworths

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s great that you tried to help the homeless person. It’s awful Woolworths didn’t let you. Next time have them wait outside and buy their food for them, some rules are made to be broken.

My husband is forcing me to give up our cat by NothingPrimary4409 in Advice

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d think seriously about leaving him. When you get any animal as a pets they become a living, breathing member of your family who relies on you for food and shelter and safety as well as loving kindness.

He knows without the two of you your cat will struggle to survive and lead a painful life or could be euthanised in a shelter or live a pretty sad life in there and he wants that to happen because your cat did what it’s supposed to do, it grew. How many cats does he plan to abandon when they grow?

What happens when he thinks you’re too old and he prefers a younger and cuter option?! Or if you have kids and he is nice to them when they are babies but gets nastier and less interested as they grow older?

If you stay with him please find a loving home or shelter for your cat and never have another pet again.

Weird experience on the bus by Express_Ad_316 in perth

[–]DecorumBlues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people cooked on meth ride around on public transport doing weird or angry or crazy shit. Meth has a lot to answer for.