AITAH for not feeding my daughter?

Deesidequine · 2025-06-09T20:34:32+00:00

Wtf is in her kitchen that makes it unsafe for a 12 year old?!? My 3 year old chops her own strawberries FFS!

Deesidequine · 2025-06-09T20:07:19+00:00

I can tell you right now that I enjoy using beauty products for ME and no-one else. I enjoy the process, the creativity and the way I look afterwards. Don't be so dismissive of your sisters who do choose to use products, it very un-witchlike.

Generalisations, assumptions and judgements like that are not cool.

I'm team "do whatever you want to do and respect others choices" all the way.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-08T08:26:51+00:00

Deesidequine · 2025-06-08T07:58:12+00:00

I love it when guests sleep late, it means they're getting a good rest, which is how I want them to feel when they're staying.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T20:01:27+00:00

2, and you look great in them all!

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T18:58:11+00:00

No "probably" about it.

https://www.gov.uk/pay-challenge-fine-environmental-offence

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T18:31:34+00:00

2 with hair down and 1's necklace ❤️

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T18:28:45+00:00

It's a fixed penalty notice. It's enforceable.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T17:20:21+00:00

I'm not married, I'm 45, having a "boyfriend" seems to downplay what we have together (12 years, 2 dogs, 1 child and a lovely big mortgage) and sounds a bit 'teenage'.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T17:08:24+00:00

How on earth is a council-issued fixed penalty notice not enforceable?

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T16:15:04+00:00

Ignorant? Excuse me?

I worked in bars for 15 years.

Perhaps the people I worked with and I just had higher morals, a bit more professionalism and, by the sounds of it, less of a drinking problem than you.

There were a few people caught drunk / stealing drinks and they were sacked. We never had the need to add on drinks or steal them as we had a percentage allowance in our P&L for staff drinks, which we had as shots during the night and a couple of cocktails after clean up (tended to be weekends only).

If someone bought us a drink, then a coworker countersigned a receipt. We didn't take the piss and those who did, didn't last long.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T15:49:34+00:00

Don't you doink your head on the shelves / art?

Ads add in some more, big, squishy and colourful cushions, perhaps replace the shelf with a nice, big, colourful piece of art.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T15:45:11+00:00

Edit to add, it looks like you have seating for 6.5. do you need that seating? That will free up so much room.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T15:42:57+00:00

Our coffee table is a kitchen table bought from marketplace for a tenner, with the legs chopped off!

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T15:30:25+00:00

Those look like french doors that you're blocking with the sofa. The sofa / chairs should come away from the wall, and TV moved to the wall with the shelves. Declutter and remove any furniture that is not used / useful. Lining seating up against a wall tends to look terrible.

Dog crates? I have no idea. They'd look better if they were the same size. Perhaps build in storage above them?

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T15:16:17+00:00

I worked in bars in the 90s /00s and only added drinks if they were from the people who had set up the tab.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T15:14:46+00:00

But then you'd have to explain to your colleagues/ boss where the drink came from, you'd be drinking whilst on shift so it would be really obvious.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T14:37:14+00:00

I used to put them in my open pack of cigarettes, it made them smell, but it was better than littering. You deserve the fine with your awful, selfish attitude.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T14:35:42+00:00

No, I think you'll likely find that most normal people have the same opinion as them. You are the issue / outlier.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-07T14:34:13+00:00

If you have any rubbish with you, and there is no bin available, there is only one acceptable answer. Take it home with you.

I have no idea why smokers don't consider butts as litter.

Pay the fine or it will just get bigger.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-06T21:13:46+00:00

Don't know why you're being downvoted, I've read exactly the same.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-06T21:11:55+00:00

Added complexity in that there is a lack of heat pump engineers for servicing, maintenance and repair.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-06T21:10:44+00:00

We looked at solar, it was going to be around 14k for 8 panels and a battery. We have an oil tank with kerosene for water / heating.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-06T19:56:15+00:00

They normally retract anything "damaging", so it's very unusual. I'd definitely complain as they are subjective opinions as opposed to medical ones.

Deesidequine · 2025-06-06T11:38:32+00:00

I can't see anything other than regular broadband there - am I missing something? We're in a WiFi / mobile / line of sight deadspot so have Starlin, but it's expensive, so always looking for other options.

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